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Comments (92)My wife has a beautiful garden with all kinds of lilies and hosta and many other types of flowers which I have no idea. She wins contests for our yard and we've spent a lot of money with irrigation, truckloads of mulch delivered by semi, trips far and wide to various garden stores to buy the elusive flowers... I say all that to make the point that our yard is her passion and she loves to garden. A couple years ago she went on a vacation with a girlfriend for a week or so. She left me in charge (mistake #1). I was given strict instructions on running the irrigation (we hadn't yet installed our final leg of irrigation that summer and it was hot and dry). Oh, and we have a real deer problem - they will eat her garden down to the ground if we don't spray the garden at least once a week with some "deer-away" stuff that smells like two month old horse urine. Soooo... she gave me instructions to spray all the flowers with the nasty urine smelling stuff she had kindly pre-mixed for me in the hand-pumped sprayer in the garage. Well I did my duties just as instructed, watered, and on the allotted day spent probably 30 minutes spraying the deer repellant onto all the flower beds. When I was done I brought the sprayer back into the garage and suddenly realized I hadn't smelled that horrible smell as I was spraying all the flowers. I then noticed that there were TWO sprayers in the garage. Hmm, i thought. I opened up the second one and PHEW what a smell - well that one is clearly deer repellant. So what I had I just sprayed all over the entire garden? Yes, you guessed it. Round-up. Oh my goodness. Panic set in. I ran out with a hose, but then thought, what if that makes it worse. I feverishly called the manufacturer and tried to get information on what I could do - the guy laughed and said pretty much I was screwed; once it was on the leaves there was nothing I could do. I went out and sprayed and sprayed anyway for hours. Ran the sprinkler for I think 2-3 days continuously. Wife came home. I said nothing. Flowers started looking bad in spots. Then worse. Eventually I had to fess up. And then I went out with a HUGE black permanent marker and LABELED the sprayers. Thankfully after her initial anger, she forgave me. And I wrote many checks that summer to replace flowers....See MoreNot standing for the National Anthem
Comments (158)Oy vey Like Chicago doesn't have some bigger issues to deal with first. SMH Topspin After weeks of holding their tongues, Chicago aldermen may finally have a chance to stake out some moral turf in the nationwide controversy that San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick ignited over protests during the national anthem. Amid the dozens of ordinances introduced by Chicago residents to the City Council on Wednesday for things like damages to vehicles that hit potholes came a proposal from former Bridgeport Ald. James Balcer, a Marine veteran, to dictate proper decorum during the anthem in Chicago. Balcer’s proposal calls for a section to be added to the municipal code explaining how people should act when the “Star-Spangled Banner” gets played. The language does not specify where the rules of anthem decorum would apply — government functions or professional sporting events or school assemblies, perhaps? Nor does it include penalties or explain how the standards should be enforced. According to Balcer’s proposal, members of the military in uniform should salute toward the American flag during the anthem, and those out of uniform are welcome to do so as well. Nonmilitary people should face the flag with their hand over their hearts, and men should remove their hats. When there’s no flag, everyone should follow the same rules while facing the source of the music. The measure was sent to committee Wednesday, and it’s not clear what its chances are of getting a hearing, let alone becoming law. (John Byrne) bold added http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/politics/ct-rahm-emanuel-city-council-meeting-20160914-story.html...See MoreThey said what?!
Comments (34)I can't tell you how many times I have spent hours and hours with a client (the wife) on redecorating a room or two in her house. I've gone to the showrooms, called showrooms and ordered samples, hauled all these samples to her house (and all these samples must be returned - no small thing!). Then I don't hear back from her when I give her quotes on all these things. I give a client a week or so and then I call. "My husband really didn't like any of the things we chose". So, we'd start again. Entire process...another wait, another phone call. "My husband really didn't care for it." Of course, what had happened was SHE wanted to redecorate, had not discussed it with her husband at all, hoped he'd swoon over our selections and discovered that he had no intention of doing this and would just say he didn't like it, not that he was not going to pay for such. I wasted so much time on one woman (as a favor to a mutual close friend who felt sorry for her), that I finally said I would not meet with her again without her husband present so I could get a better "feel" for his taste/likes/dislikes. Of course, I never heard from her again and no, she did not redo anything. For a designer, time is money and many of us do not charge hourly fees - we mark up from net and that is how we get paid. If I were not pretty much retired, I would now charge an hourly fee as well, as there are way too many ladies out there with too much time on their hands who are just playing....See MoreMost of us don't know...
Comments (34)Annie, there is a legal definition of 'hate crimes' which is usually applied when an attack or crime is committed by one person or people against another person or people, based on a known bias against them. But I'm not sure how often it is used against law enforcement officers, regarding how they apprehended and subdued a suspect they were sent to arrest. In other words, if a police officer is driving down the street and just randomly stops an African American person walking their dog, then beats them to death, I can't see how they wouldn't be liable for a 'hate crime' homicide. But in the murder of George Floyd, I think to apply a 'hate crime' stipulation, the onus would be on the prosecution to prove that Officer Chauvin had a racial bias against African American men, and used unnecessary excessive (and lethal) force, because of his bias. That will be hard to prove, unless any witnesses can be called to testify that he has made it known he is biased against this racial group. We know that he has 18 complaints against him in his police files, but they haven't disclosed if any are regarding racist remarks or actions. Even then, I'm betting the defense will likely say that Officer Chauvin simply responded to a call regarding someone trying to pass a counterfeit bill...and in the process of apprehending and subduing the suspect, he 'inadvertently' caused his death, by not 'realizing' that the suspect was not just complaining, but actually asphyxiating. I fear his sentence will be for 'accidental' manslaughter, with no proof of a hate crime, and he'll get a much shorter sentence than what he deserves. Sickening, but I wouldn't be surprised it that's how it plays out....See MoreZalco/bring back Sophie!
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