You are going to want to go with 3000K LED. The absolute best are the Sylvania Ultra HD Professional Series, really makes colors appear vibrant (95CRI), and the light has noticeably better color tint, but they are expensive. It is possible to find 3200K LED, but they are much harder to find (and options likely to be much more limited). 3200K would probably be the optimal color temperature for your situation, it's a vibrant bright white, but still warm enough to be within the range of feeling residential. I am going to tell you one thing though, and you can tell your wife I told you this: There is no LED product that feels exactly like the old-style GE Reveal bulbs. They do sell neodymium glass though, so maybe you could find some way of putting this filter over the LED bulbs. I have actually tried this, and surprisingly it does make the LED light feel a little more 'natural'. (and before anyone brings the subject up, yes, I am aware that the now discontinued old version of the Cree TW bulb used neodymium glass, but reviews said the light still did not feel like incandescent Reveal, despite the increase in CRI )

Lighting always changes colors. It changes cabinet color, anything. LED is a cleaner light. I find it washes color out some compared to the warm incandescent we are used to. If you have the sample board next to Cherry cabinets, they will be reflecting on it so could be the pink you are seeing. The Cherry cabinet color will be bouncing around the room, along with all the other colors that are in there. Even trees from outside affect the light. Environment is very important in evaluating colors.

As someone else pointed out, the retrofits do help close off the Swiss cheese holes in your ceiling for less unintentional ventilation. (Ten 6" holes is a total of over 280 square inches, partly blocked by the housings of course.) And the retrofits have come down a lot in price. If you already have LED bulbs, though, it's hard to justify junking them. With any luck they'll last many years. In fact, if they're the earlier ones that cost $30+ each, they're probably built with better quality electronic components than the newer, cheaper models (including the retrofits). If you decide you really want the new stuff, can you find someone who could use your bulbs to give them to?

Janie, Yes, I’m wanting a bulb that emits warm lighting rather than cool. It sounds like the 2700K should be the first one for me to try. I sometimes spends hours cooking and I know using all those incandescents are using a lot of energy. But with my older eyes and that black granite, I usually turn all of them on along with my under counter lights. Bruce, thank you, I completely forgot about the dimming feature. I am able to dim my present bulbs and I love that. It sounds like I am going to have to give our good electrician friend a call. DH absolutely will not mess with electricity.