Any college financial aid gurus here?
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Financial aid and children's account.
Comments (4)A number of years ago I set up a trust account for my daughter's education, naively thinking how responsible this was. Several months later I was doing some investigation of financial aid and how it all works. It became very evident to me that one of the worst things a middle class person can do is establish such a fund in your child's name. Any money your child has counts much more heavily against him/her than if the same amount is part of your assets. Realizing this, I liquidated the trust and did the investing in my name. That decision made the difference between my daughter getting some financial aid and none. I'm all for saving for the expenses of college, but if you have any expectation of your child getting financial aid, don't mess it up like I almost did by putting the account in the child's name. While there are some modest tax advantages to having the money in the child's name, I actually had a financial aid officer tell me that the only people who should be doing that are those who are so wealthy that their children could never expect to qualify for aid under any circumstances....See MoreAny astrology gurus here?
Comments (23)deedee, I have seven sets of Tarot cards. *cheesy grin* I have most of them because I loved the artwork on them; for many years I only had one set (which had actually been a gift from someone else) but in recent years there has been an explosion in beautifully-done Tarot cards as well as this broader range of cards being more readily available. Anyway, I like to use Tarot readings to stir up things in my subconscious mind, provoke ideas that I hadn't necessarily thought of already, and come up with different ways of looking at things going on in my life and the potential ramifications if I do this or this or this. And yes, sometimes the weirdest coincidences do pop up, but do I think they are accurate predictors of future events? Nah. Ditto for astrology, numerology, crystal reading (although I do have a pint-size basket of crystals and stones of various types, they're pretty and fun to play with, and some of my friends are either rockhounds or crystal folks), I Ching, examining animal guts, and other types of divination. I think they can all have their uses, but I don't think relying entirely on any of these things is a good way to direct your life. Do you guys REALLY believe planetary orbits have ANYthing to do with life/events on earth?!?!? What one believes in - and I mean really believes, on the gut level - can have a very significant effect on their emotions, behavior regarding self and others, and worldview in general. I mean, at risk (ha! near-guarantee) of offending some other posters, when you really get down to it it's just as reasonable as basing all of one's life choices on the belief that there's a noncorporeal being who is omniscient, omnipotent, and almost entirely oriented on having direct influence on virtually every tiny detail of existence (including fielding constant requests and demands from millions of people who believe this being is continuously observing them), and may suffer great emotional disturbance over behaviors that may offend said being. And to top it all off, many of these people - often quite viciously - condemn others who don't share their belief in this particular being, or even might address the same being differently than they do, sometimes to the point of murdering other humans. Viewed dispassionately, it makes about as much sense as basing all of one's life decisions, behaviors, and even self-definition on the movements of celestial bodies light-years away, doesn't it?...See MoreGrants/scholarships/financial aid
Comments (9)I am a vet student, so have also been through the process very recently. Definitely start with the FAFSA. You'll most likely get all loans, unless you're very very poor. You will also be shocked at the amount of money they expect you to pay towards education. The first year I applied, out of the $60k we both made that year, they expected we could afford $26k family contribution, even though we'd be losing my measly $20 salary. Nobody I know has actually been able to afford the expected family contribution. The good news is that you can ask for loans also to cover living expenses, and they are a bit more generous for that. I take out about $26k per year, even though my tuition is only $9k, because we really couldn't afford to lose my income. My bro is also an auto technician, and he went with loans to pay for college too. He searched and searched but didn't find any scholarships either. BS and BA money seems really easy to come by, but if you're a grad/professional/technical student you're left on your own for the most part. That said, by bro did just a general auto tech at a community college and started as a lube tech at a dealership that paid for Ford school. Many dealerships offer training for their make, but be sure your son talks to the employees. My bro found out the hard way that just because a dealership says they pay for school doesn't mean they ever find the time to actually send you. He quit his first job because of that. Second place actually did pay for school, so he learned a lot, but they weren't busy enough for him to work so he only got paid for 15 flat-rate hours a week. Now he's working on boats and loving it. Turns out a lot of boat motors are Ford, plus he also can repair AC which a lot of trained boat mechanics cannot. So he's loving life now....See MoreDo we have any financial experts on here?
Comments (25)Laurie, while you think everything will work out the way you're both planning.. you should plan for it not. Things happen, I don't like that there is no child support figured out.. what if at some point you & your ex are not so cordial and you have to go back to court? Any clue how expensive it will be to change it? I can tell you it usually costs me $1,000 or more (usual is $2k-$3K) every time we have to go to court. You also should do something in writing about medical for your child. If he ends up fracturing something or falls down the steps like my girl did; you could be left with high medical bills. In the last few years, I've paid over $15,000+ in uncovered medical expenses. He is supposed to reimburse me 75% after the 1st $250 but he does not. Also, he's screwed me with the deductible he picked which is very high - $800 alone just for my daughter. He's also lowered the tier on dental. Please protect yourself/child. Who gets to claim your child on income tax? What we did was my ex claimed her, I would claim head of household. I don't know if that will apply to you. When I remarried we alternated the deduction - odd years me, even years him. Even though your name was not on the deed, it sounds like you lived there for your whole marriage - in NJ the house would be 1/2 yours regardless. The way they figured it out was they went back to when you would have moved in to find a value; then they would figure out how much the house was worth when you moved out, plus deduct what he had already paid on the house before you moved in IIRC. There was a formula used. From things you are writing, it sounds like you are not getting the correct credit. Are you sure your attorney is looking out for your best interests? I'm glad you guys can be so civil right now but make sure you do research to make sure you are getting what you really deserve. I have one more question. I hate to sound naive, but I was a stay-at-home mom for 16 years, so I didn't start earning a paycheck until December, 2007. My husband has always done our taxes. Piece of advice - get copies of all the income taxes that have been filed. You also want a copy of the marriage license and any other documents. Make sure you have his social security number on file....See MoreUser
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