Cold feet and engaged
I'm engaged and I'm having cold feet. I love him and he's an amazing man. However, we are so different. He's extremely opinionated about everything politics, people...just everything. I found that over the years I have become extremely quiet and don't really state my opinion because I normally will walk away feeling dumb because I don't have facts to argue my opinion ....so I don't. Which has made it hard for me to really open up at all about feelings or thoughts on anything...which makes it hard for us to feel close or create that closeness. I keep hoping it will change but I don't know how to open up with someone so opinionated and I feel like I'm not myself anymore because of this. Any advice? Or someone who has been through something similar and how they change it?