Night stands need not match, as long as the bedside lamps match : ) Make sure it's the right height, sturdy.........and help yourself. There are plenty available that can be a "second" get a PAIR of lamps Amazon below

Are you stripping the current finish and then painting (you said “prime.”)? Or are you re staining or simply refinishing the surface of what you find? There are people here who can give you advice, whatever it is that you intend for it. Some are professional painters, others are hobbyists. Good luck!

If you go to Google page and drag the image you can get good suggestions. Can't find exact, but here's what's available: https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&tbs=simg:CAEShwIJ0_1hq3lYQ2QIa-wELELCMpwgaOQo3CAQSE9Ew9TIZ8TLaJ8c0_1yncEIgm3SEaGjAnu50wCujUWd20gWBFLqALYjM0dYYIAxxMIAUwBAwLEI6u_1ggaCgoICAESBEFcepUMCxCd7cEJGpwBChgKBXNvbGlk2qWI9gMLCgkvYS8zbWcxY20KHQoJZW5kIHRhYmxl2qWI9gMMCgovbS8waDhrMXBuCiIKD2Z1cm5pdHVyZSBzdHlsZdqliPYDCwoJL2ovOXcwcWpzCh8KDGNvZmZlZSB0YWJsZdqliPYDCwoJL20vMDc4bjZtChwKCHNoZWx2aW5n2qWI9gMMCgovbS8waDhuOTgyDA&sxsrf=APq-WBuM23xPUN5IUWIXfF3UrHsdJEQ8KQ:1643872567588&q=solid&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjB8MfD_uL1AhXEIUQIHfwgDnMQjJkEegQIAhAC&biw=1310&bih=966&dpr=2

I’d say 60’s or 70’s based on form and color. I just got rid of the matching bureau. It was made in NH but I don’t recall the brand.