Ideas to Keep Dog Entertained
Suzieque
6 years ago
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Suzieque
6 years agolast modified: 6 years agoRelated Discussions
What is my moral obligation to a beagle? Should I keep this dog?
Comments (30)My advice is to find another home for the dog. You have enough caregiving going on without adding a dog to the mix, which is time-consuming and expensive. You raise children to grow up into adult individuals who will go off on their own; dogs are like toddlers that never grow up and sort of regress at the end. I am giving you my perspective as one who also is not a dog person but was talked into getting one by my family. My dh firmly believes that kids need a dog (I don't believe this at all). I have always liked dogs but have never wanted to own one and was happy with a cat. I'm not going to tell you all the nice things about having a dog, as I'm sure you know those, but I want to give you an honest assessment from someone with a similar mindset as to the negatives of dog ownership. We got our puppy a year ago and she is darling. She is sweet and good-natured. She is also, IMO, a pain in the neck in a lot of ways. There is so much training, feeding, and attention required in having a dog. They can be messy and dirty and you have to add that to your cleaning regimen or accept dog hair and dirt, water slops, drool, etc as a given, not to mention some less pleasant deposits like barf and pee (or poo, though I've not had that since the dog hit about 3 months) from time to time. They need so much attention, which some people find a bonus but to me is an aggravation. I am a person who REALLY needs a lot of personal space and dogs don't really appreciate that. I hate being followed around all day. I hate dog licks and wanting in and wanting out and wanting in and wanting out...you can't go anywhere for a weekend without taking the dog to a kennel or having someone babysit full-time. It seems I get a card from the vet on a regular basis reminding me it's time to get this shot or worm pill or what-have-you. I've already spent almost $2000 on her in the year I've had her just in vet bills (two escapes from the yard led to being hit by a car and being mauled by pit bulls). I have to clip nails and check teeth and provide chewies and pick up the shreds of whatever chewed thing is left. I have to pick up poop out of the backyard and sometimes clean off my kids' shoes when I miss some (YUK!!!!!!). In short, the dog has added as much work as having another small child without the benefit of having that child grow out of it. If I had it to do again and had any say in the matter, I'd not get a dog, even though I do really like her. I realize that I'm the kind of person who best appreciates dogs when they're owned by others. Oh, and now that we've had the dog a year, the kids don't even like her around most of the time because she sits on their cards or licks their dolls or tries in some way to participate in their games, something they don't appreciate. When the kids have playdates, I have to put the dog wherever the kids aren't because she tries too enthusiastically to play with them and little kids don't like that. BTW, my dh wants to get another dog. He claims that she won't need as much attention if she has a friend. Huh. The thought of getting another one leaves me cold, to say the least. If you were a dog lover, I'd give different advice, but you will probably resent the extra work a dog entails and you will not see the benefits of it the way someone else might. I like my dog (Bassett/Beagle mix) but honestly? I would not be broken up if she found a new home. I've had 5 kids, the oldest now almost 27 and the youngest 3, and loved it all. I don't love dog care....See MoreNeed ideas to keep active dog inactive
Comments (21)Nancy, it's going OK. I didn't get around to post an update because we spend all weekend at a soccer tournament. Spot is settling into the routine of just being allowed out to do his business and coming right back. We went to the vet Sat. morning and he had another acupuncture treatment. We discussed surgery options and decided to try a brace first. It will be custom made and support the joint and give the muscles time to strengthen around the joint. It is kind of hard to describe, but I will post pictures after we get it. It will be probably a little over a week. It is designed by a "human" orthopedic surgeon who had a blown acl on his dog and was less than thrilled with the surgery result. I was asking the vet about TPLO and the other surgery and he recommended not doing the TPLO. He said that it has been advertised as the best thing to prevent arthritis later on, but people are finding out that the first dogs with it are getting arthritis now (6-7 years later) anyway. The vet tech told me that the had the ligament connecting surgery done on a couple of her dogs and they are doing just as well as dogs she knows with the TPLO. But we are not at that point at the moment and are taking a more conservative approach. I'm having a hard time to convince my husband to even do anything less alone surgery. He thinks it is just a dog and when he grew up they just put them down when something like that happened. Over my dead body, is all I can say. Here is Spot sharing his new pillow with one of the cats. A few minutes before both cats had been laying with him. And he is not overweight, he just looks like it in this picture. Katharina...See MoreKeeping dog off sofa & bed - Advice
Comments (17)i agree with crating the dog, for everyone's safety and well being (including the dog!) dogs usually prefer their crate, it is a nice safe place to stay and you can even get a tee shirt or blankie that smells like the dog's owner and put it in the crate for added comfort. i don't like my large dogs on furnature, either and i don't wish to spray my couches with anything. i have a large dog who is such a wonderful boy, but as soon as he is alone, he will do all sorts of things he isn't supposed to, including getting on our couch. we crate him when we leave, he loves his crate, and we put things on the couch when we are all home inside. i don't like to have to put things on the couch all the time, but it works. we are wondering if we could use some sort of shock collar training or something to make him hate being on the couch, training him to lay elsewhere even when nothing is all over the sofa...hmmm... and i would not use mouse traps as mentioned by some people...if i forgot to take them off that would suck. but my dog is stealthy, he very slowly and carefully gets on the couch so he doesn't make any noise. if the traps didn't spring or i placed them wrong, they could pinch him or hurt his tail. i have seen a well sprung trap break large adult fingers, i don't want that to happen to my dog or child who forgot about mouse traps....See MoreKeep Dog From Sliding (Braking) Through Lawn
Comments (9)@N/A Talk to the dog. I get barked at by a dog on the other side of a fence and I greet him calmly. I say, "oh, dog, you are so tedious." Most dogs recognize "dog" refers to them and a response to their territorial barking reassures them. They learn that the sounds on the other side of the fence is a calm person, not a threat. He may be a mean, scary dog, but I'd start with the assumption he'll make friends with someone non-threatening....See MoreSuzieque
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