Foreign Facebook Creepers Spying on Me!!!
LynnNM
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LynnNM
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Comments (2)First things first ..."I have thought it would be better to just end it all"...if you are talking about killing yourself, please....being betrayed by any woman (or man) is not worth ending your own life over. Probably want to consider some counseling if you were serious about this. OK, I have been in a very similar situation, except for the whole living in a country I don't want to be in thing, although I am not sure I get what a "love immigrant" is...but, yeah, that's gonna complicate things. A lot.... Let me tell you from experience as someone who's wife "fell out of love" with him (not from being treated badly, or not being a good provider, or a good dad to the kids, we were just not a great personality match), if you are even considering staying in the marriage, you really need to open up the communication lines with your wife and stress to her that you in it for the long haul if she is, but she needs to be honest with herself (and you) about her feelings. My ex, after the first affair she had, strung me along for 3 more years...under the guise of "fixing things", when she knew all along she had checked out and was only buying some time until the kids were in school full time. Of all the lousy things she did, that's the one thing I will never forgive her for. Those are 3 years I cannot get back. Stress to her that she needs to be honest with you, and herself, in figuring out if she can "reconnect" with you. Also, during this time, rather that take the approach "I will show her how wonderful I am and win her back" (which I did to a certain extent, and regret it now because I think it just put off the inevitable), I would continue to be nothing but pleasant, charming, respectful, etc...but from an emotional point of view I would back off. I think at this time, she needs some emotional space to figure things out, figure out what she wants out of life...I would tell her that you are consciously doing this, so she does not think you are disconnecting from her, but again I would refrain from putting on a full court press of affection to "win" her back. Even it if worked, it would only be a short term thing. I would probably set a time frame in mind, 6 months, a year, whatever. You've only been married a short time, but you are in the position of being together for a long time and having kids together, that you can afford to give her the time she wants/needs to figure all this out. In addition to being a great, supportive husband and father, you really should take that time and also work on yourself, Whether that means therapy, making lifestyle changes, picking up a hobby that you've put aside for years, whatever will make you happier with who you are. I am saying this for several reasons, first, if she does decide that she wants to stay in the marriage and reconnect with you, someone who is happy and confident is way more attactive and lovable than someone who is wrapped up in a shroud of depression and self pity. But also, and I am sorry to say this, there is a pretty good chance that she will decide it is not fixable. You need to prepare for the rest of your life, and future relationships eventually, by just living a life you are happy with, that satisfies you. So instead of putting on a full court press for HER affections, work on YOURSELF...get yourself happy, it could have the added benefit of making your more attractive to her. Good luck. This sucks, I know...but understand that while this looks like the end of everything you have....life is what you make it. This too shall pass. After a difficult period of time, I am fine now, I am very happy with my where my life is. I have 50% custody of my kids and see them almost every day, been with the same girl for 5+ years now, hell I even get along fine with my ex (that took a while...lol!)....See MoreKaspershy Anti Virus is now suspect re Russia
Comments (33)To show I'm not being doctrinaire or stubborn, I'll contribute another layer to this story (if it is a story), a Washington Post piece (with a link to another in the NY Times) that suggest it was Israeli intelligence officers who discovered incriminating American NSA materials were present in Kaspersky's internal network during an unauthorized access to its systems. The reporting remains somewhat disjointed enough that I'm not ready to remove my hands from my hips or abandon my "wait for better info" thoughts but here it is. Part of what doesn't make sense to me is that Kaspersky made public the breach when it happened and gave details about it as one of its periodic security releases. That's not at all what might be expected from an entity acting as a front for a sovereign intelligence service that would be trading blows with the intelligence services of other countries in the normal course of daily business. Unless, that was part of an attempt at misdirection to disguise deliberate Kaspersky involvement, by acting naively. Who knows? Israeli intelligence discovered Kaspersky in possession of NSA material...See Morecat toys
Comments (38)My indoor cat will play with most any toy, stuffed or a small plastic wiffle ball type toy, but after awhile I can't find any of them. I don't know where she hides them. I know they must end up under furniture SOMEwhere. Always worry the furry mice will go up the sweeper hose. The mentioned ball makes a lot of noise as it's batted and rolls across the wood floors. She's had 8 that I know of but so far they have vanished. The outdoor/indoor cats love the laser toy. As soon as I open the desk drawer, and I try to be discreet, they go sit near a wall where I normally shine it. So funny....See MoreAssault Rifles?
Comments (77)I'm not talking about concealed carry, either. Your gun course list is a bit (unintentionally) funny to me. :) I can't really answer how you would go about "learning" guns, since I've been shooting since I was four years old. Most of my learning came from my dad, my granddaddy, my uncles, and close family friends. I've taken a concealed carry class (which is mostly about laws and regulations and VERY LITTLE about shooting) - and some of the people in my class had never even HELD a gun, much less fired one - yet they walked out of there legally allowed to carry a concealed weapon. The only "shooting" training is 30 bullets through the black part of a target (out of 40 shots, I believe) at 7 yards. Ridiculous. That's not NEARLY enough "training" to carry a gun!!! Your local NRA chapter would be a good resource for you to find gun/shooting classes....See MoreLynnNM
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