Well I'm a mess
caroline94535
6 years ago
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Comments (6)Awesome! My Lurline must have the record for longest to root. When I got it on summer of 2011 it had a few scrawny roots. I dug it up in October of 2012 and it still had very few roots. I thought it was dead, now it's putting out tiny claws, still no roots. I prick it and no latex flows. I have no clue what it is doing. I was about to throw it away when I thought I saw a tiny hair like root so I left it laying in mulch in the garage. Now the tiny claws... I just do not know what to do with her. I put it in a bag with some soil and set her on the top of the water heater. Sheesh.... I wish she would just either grow or die. I know that sounds horrible but I am tired of messing with her but can't bare to discard her as long as she shows some sign of life. :(...See MoreWell my DAR order came in today...kind of a mess
Comments (3)Nick, so when are you going to move back to Columbus? Have you already graduated? If so, congratulations! Hope you find your ideal field of work too! When I first graduated I had to freelance for a year and a half before I was hired full-time. I was blessed in that I found a wonderful job with wonderful boss/coworkers. But it did take me while. In the art field it can take some time because back then, computer graphics did not start until 4 years after I graduated, lol! I actually majored in traditional illustrations and specialized in children's magazines, etc. My first job was doing Snoopy and Peanuts product designs, hehe! I still keep in contact with my former boss as well and I have wonderful memories of those times.... Well, we are looking forward to more photos of the garden-in-process, Nick!...See MoreI'm in a mess, help!
Comments (1)Hi deb pa I'll be honest I don't know much about the procedure with user profiles and user accounts. What it sounds like is you should have created a new user account and then copied all the files over to the new account and delete the old one. Right now it sounds like your using 2 accounts to do your required tasks. Scroll down to where you see Copy files to new user profile: At the link provided. Joe Here is a link that might be useful: corrupted-user-profile-in-windows-7...See MoreI'm so messed up...
Comments (5)Thank you for the Psychology Today suggestion. I was able to find a sex therapist in my area that is also on my health plan, who is certified and she has 20 years of experience. I am going to call her in the morning before work. It doesn't say that she is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist but does say she treats couples with relationship issues, so I might be able to see her for both issues. On the V issue, I am currently looking for a new doctor. It took me over 10 doctors and 7 years to get a diagnosis. But, my current doctor, who did make the diagnosis, has tried all that she can think of and wants to do surgery. My research shows there are other things still to try, such as estrogen cream, even though I am young. She won't prescribe it due to my age, even though very little is absorbed into the system. I may have to go out of state (it would be worth the travel costs). You had asked how I handle critism. Well, that is my achilles heal for sure. I can handle it pretty well when it comes from a supervisor, but when it comes from my husband or close family member it feels as if I have been stabbed. Of course, it matters how its delivered. If its a "Hey, I was doing xyz until I tried this and it was sooo much easier" I take it different than "why are you doing it that way" "Does it make sense to you to do it like that". or if they suck at it and are giving me advice (like my sister offering to help me clean and organize my house, or telling me something is wrong with my house (like a crack in the drywall) or DH offering bill paying advice when he overdraws his account every other month) And sometimes I think to myself, does it really matter? So what, I am doing something different than you would do. Whatever it is...as long as it isn't endangering someone or something does it really matter? Such as loading the dishwasher or something trivial. I do feel like he puts me down for my family. I know they are crazy and dysfunctional. But, I feel like he thinks he is better than everyone and everything sometimes. For example, even though he would deny it, he projects that he is superior because he doesn't believe in a god. Well most of the world does, and it annoys me that he projects that in front of family (mine and his) and will make comments to me that its all silly. Of course he doesn't come right out and say to them " I'm an athiest". But, he gets that smirk on his face whenever they talk about anything religous or having to do with god. It comes accross to me, that he thinks because his family has clean houses and they do not yell and scream that they have no issues. Really, they have issues, they just pretend they do not exist. For example, his older sister will not go to his aunts for XMAS dinner, and yet no one even mentions it when she is not there. (Its because she is a lesbian and brings her partner and they don't like her - according to my husband). Yet, if I miss a holiday or event with them, DH acts as if its the end of the world. I'm rambling a bit, I know. Or the fact that his mom lost it once and insisted he take a drug test. It was freaky. There are other things too...but that isn't really the point. And he thinks that if I see my mom he should go. ANd if he is eating lunch with his mom I should go. Sometimes I just want to do my own thing with my mom or sister. That we should never really visit family without the other spouse. I really don't get that. His family is tolerable and some are even very nice, but they are not my family, and my family drives him crazy, so why do we need to always feel as if the other person needs to attend family functions? Just because we are married? Is that what most people do? Most of the relatives are within an hour and live in the same town. Usually, we both go to each others relatives, but I have tried to do the , Ill go to yours for an hour or so and then over to mine for the rest of the day. But that makes him so mad. I invited him to go to my sisters to see my nephews who adore him. They love him and ask about him atleast weekly. Its far enough away that we have to fly. He had a work trip so he arrived there the day after me and left the day before me. He was there for less than 48 hours. To be honest, I was pretty annoyed that he was annoyed that I left him alone for 3 or so hours on Sat, with the boys and BIL. Me sitting next to him would not have made my sister's house clean or the kids better behaved or BIL less annoying. In fact, it would have probably ensured we got on each others nerves. I think he thinks when he is there we purposely do nothing and just sit around. Well, that is my sisters life. Work, make dinner, bathe the kids, go to bed, do it all over again. They are pretty young kids so taking them out is a chore at this point. So, I told him yesterday he does not ever have to go again, but that we would need to give some explanation. Me saying he has to work, isn't going to cut it forever. The 5 yo thinks my husband is coming to his b-day party in March. He will be so sad to know he is not coming. Of course, I plan to lie and say he is working. What do I say to my sister? "My DH doesn't like your DH, your messy house or how you are never happy with your food, and he hates you don't have a spare room and can't deal for 48 hours." I don't think that will make anything better....See Morecaroline94535
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