Pros and Cons of Assisted Living
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Comments (18)My Stepdad insisted on staying in the family home after Mom's death, despite his increasing frailty. We were two hours away so it wasn't easy to check on him. He had some falls and we got him one of those alert pendants for our peace of mind as much as his, after I had to call the police to check on him after I had been unable to reach him by phone for two days. (Turned out he was on a pre-arranged stay in the hospital, which he didn't think to bother telling us about :-/.) We suggested an assisted living place but he dug his heels in and resisted the idea until finally he went into hospital and his doctor told him he wouldn't be able to go home and live alone with no help. So we took him around to check out different places and moved him into one of his choosing. He was as happy as a pig in mud! Much happier than he had been for years. No meals to cook, no cleaning to do, plenty of like-minded folks to socialise with. It was such a shame he hadn't made the move earlier, he would have been so much happier all those years....See MorePros and Cons of Buying in todays market
Comments (51)I agree that there ARE people out there who live in houses much longer than the average. In NoNJ both of my neighbors had been in their houses for 10+ years (one for 12 years, the other for 15 years). The couple who'd been there for 12 years plan on staying for at least another six and will think about moving after their son finishes college. The couple who has been there for 15 years will be there another two years and then once the husband retires they will move to Nashville to be near their son who recently got married and settled down in TN. So you are looking at 18 years for one family and 17 years for the other. I'd say that's major longevity! My parents bought their latest house in 1991 and are still there with a plan to be there at least another 3-5 years. Once my dad retires they will move south with an eye on buying acreage to build a house and business on. So that'll be another couple who stayed in a house twenty years. My grandfather stayed in his house for FORTY YEARS and only sold when my grandmother died and he couldn't keep up the house by himself. If she hadn't died I guarantee they would have stayed in that house. In my own instance, my DH and I are planning on living in this current house until our children go to college (they are 3yo and 4yo now). We're already planning some minor renovations (add a bathroom to create guest suite being the major one) knowing that we're going to be here a LONG TIME (read: at least 15 years)....See MoreHawaii full time- Pros/cons
Comments (32)We started taking winter vacations to Hawaii in 1979; two weeks became a month, then two months. Because it was winter, we stayed on the warmer locations on four different islands, mostly Kauai and Big Island. Our initial visit to Maui was difficult for several reasons, and we didn't return for 16 years -- then bought a condo in South Kihei two years later (which we just sold). WE liked Big Island better, but at the time it had few retail/dining/ect. options. (No Coscto then! Hawaiians would starve without Costco.) We are exprienced homeowners, but owning there is another whole ballgame. Housing is hugely expensive: $1K+/sq. ft. at our Maui condo complex for 2BR 2Bath. This is seller's market now. There are X-many tradesmen on an island (no need to be competitive and assistant labor is unreliable). Parts come from off-island; can take months. "Island Time" is not mainland time. Expect to make acquaintances, not friends. Islanders see manilander come and go all the time. You're not ilikely to be around long enough to invest time in knowing. People who work three jobs to afford to live don't have spare time. Educational levels are low. You could befriend other mainlanders: have 'seasonal' friends? The 'getting there' is expensive, tiring, and can be frustrating. Medical care is sub-par even Honolulu has limited facilities. If you live West Side Maui you'll be helicoptered to the hospital in Kahului in an emergency or if the sole access road is closed (2 lanes through the mountains -- brush fires, landslides). Weather can be challenging. Hurricanes threaten, then usually turn into Tropical Storms that linger, dumping rain that washes out roads (and homes) and erodes beaches. The Trades die, sometimes for days, and it's hot and humid. Electrical power is expensive. Heck, everything is expensive, for locals and tourists. Some areas are completely overrun with tourists. Swaths of Maui are bursting. There's not enough infrastructure to serve all these people, but $$$$$ keeps the developments growing. There's inadequate or no public transportation, especially outside of Honolulu and environs. OK, that's quite enough. If you want more, PM me. Hawaii is (was?) a nice place to visit....See MoreHas anyone used a SkyCove window (modern bay window)? Pros / Cons?
Comments (0)Hi all! We're getting ready to buy and update a ranch-style house that we hope to live in for quite some time. The house has a large window in the front for the living room -- I'm guessing probably 8 feet wide. One thing I've always wanted is a window that sticks out with a little reading nook in it. A modern apartment I lived in 20-ish years ago had one and I'd spend hours there reading. While adding a bay window or bow window could get me this space, I'm really worried about those options feeling too out-dated. So, imagine my delight when I stumbled upon this SkyCove concept from Marvin windows: https://www.marvin.com/products/spaces/skycove https://www.marvin.com/-/media/project/tenant/marvin/products/spaces/skycove/marvin-spaces-skycove-valuable-space-2400x1600.jpg?ts=057f7f43-3a8f-4958-bbc3-772c1c626afe&w=2400&hash=3D669CA3D214E2418B1455EC30FAB58E It would get me the seating space I want, but would look much sleeker than frumpy old-fashioned bay windows. It's a pretty new product, and I'm not able to find much info about it. Anyone here try one of these yet? If so: - Pros? - Cons? - Cost? Do other window-makers have a similar product that I simply haven't found yet? Would love to hear from anyone who has thoughts! Thank you!...See Moresunnyca_gw
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