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Do you get tired of constantly defending your ideas?
Comments (16)Jenk  as owner builders doing lots of new building science in an area famous for not changing... yeah, we had a lot of resistance from various subs. We found it helped to do two things. First - try not to see their questions as criticism or the sub not wanting to do it your way, but that they just may have not heard about the way you want it done. (even with the subs who really just donÂt want to do it a new way, it helps YOUR state of mind). Put it to them in those terms  "I know itÂs new to this area" (thus they are not expected to know about it) "but weÂre really set on doing it this way for these reasons." And while you may not feel like you should have to explain your reasons, you will get better work if they feel like part of the process. Trades people are not all stubborn mules against learning something new. Second  know what you are talking about  if you are vague nobody is going to take you or your ideas seriously. Graphics and visual aids are helpful if itÂs really new. When we discussed our plans to insulate our crawlspace walls (virtually unheard of in this county/state), we showed the people involved the drawings and research on the method. It took some arm twisting to get the county inspectors behind the idea but between the printed sheets and calm discussions they approved the finished work. Our HVAC people loved the idea and now they recommend it to other people. They hadnÂt heard of it before our house, but we presented in a way that they felt they didnÂt need to defend their experience. Even in the "just how you want it" stuff itÂs not always a matter of Âmy-way-itisÂ. We did two walk throughs with our electrician before he would string one wire. On both trips he would ask us, Âwhy do want this here? and Âhow about having that there?Â. This wasnÂt to discourage us from what we wanted, but to find out what our reasons were so he could make suggestions. He had wired enough houses to know what people tend to regret later, and he made some great suggestions that we went with. The stuff I was sure of I had reasons for and it didnÂt bother me to explain them to him. I hope this helps, and good luck!...See MoreDebating paint colors...again
Comments (12)I love grays and blues too. We did sherman williams SW7016 mindful gray (main color) SW 7621 silver mist (dining room, master bedroom) SW6204 sea salt (master bathroom) SW7005 pure white - trim and we love it, nice and calming. Grays are hard to pick b/c a lot of times they end up looking purple or blue, so you definitely want to try samples. I've linked pictures of our house although the paint colors don't show up very well. And yes, by the end I couldn't pick anything else out. Picking an exterior paint color almost broke me b/c everything looks different outside. After 4 1/4 months I finally was able to go and get some of my decorations out of a box and set them on a shelf...haven't been able to do any other decorating yet b/c I just can't make the decision. I'm not even close to being able to decide to hang something on a wall....maybe there is rehab for this...lol Here is a link that might be useful: Our new house This post was edited by tulips33 on Fri, Dec 12, 14 at 18:59...See MoreYou guys that grow Asian pears...do you ever get any? (Z6)
Comments (3)Deer would be the most likely suspect in my area - they eat any kind of fruit. And other small tree climbing mammals could be candidates - possums, skunks, squirrels, even fox - although I would think the raccoon traps would attract and trap them as well. Bears like fruit as well :-)...See MoreHave you ever been too tired to sleep?
Comments (8)Sounds like your excited...about your project. Your mind is busy planning the next step. I have had so many projects and remodels now. I can sleep for 4-5 hours under these circumstances. But yes....I still get excited, my mind races, I'm happy to be working and having a project....so it's ok. Construction is work where your results are instant....you do the work and feel the success.....not like when I was in IT....See More- 9 years ago
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