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Comments (7)Heh, i remember your old post from the "gallery" section.. so yeah i quite remember about your little VFT you rescued weeks ago. Glad that your vft is recovering. Venus' flytraps can survive just fine without eating any insects. In fact, the plant will appear to look "better" since the traps won't be triggered by insects. a vft can show their true red colourations of their traps when they're not fed. Of course, the plant itself won't "starve" but it will grow slower. If a vft is fed oftenly it will tend to grow a bit quicker than those that aren't fed. It will also split into many offshoots and make more plantets on the bottom of the base of the plant. It would also make more extra crowns of rhyzome, which would allow you to aquire from plants with divisions or cuttings(divisions and cuttings are best done after their dormant period, but since you bearly bought your plant weeks ago, don't worry about its dormancy this winter, just keep on growing it, i do this all of the time so trust me ont his one.) I recently bought a small vft from home depot on October 23, 5 days ago. I am skipping its dormancy period this winter, but it will most likely fall dormant 2006's fall. Gnats can be hurtful to vfts, specially if they are packed on the soil. Gnats are invited when fungus grows over the peat moss of the pot. They can also harm the vfts roots; it happened to me in the past. Don't repot the plant, vft hates getting their roots disturbed, this way they may also get their growth stunt, just remove the top of the dirt with fungus, then place newer/fresher media. If i were you, i would remove the lid and allow the plant to grow in a brighter area location , such as a window sill, better yet, under cool flourecent lights, with more air circulation around it. Venus' flytraps can enjoy humidity around their small little pots, too. Alas, if you are gorwing your vft indoors, you don't have to water it as much, poor air circulations tends to invite fungus around the plant. and this invites gnats. If you are able to grow it under flourecent lighting, make sure to depart the light away from the small pot/plant atleast 4 - 5 " inches above the plant.(depending on the watts, i usually use 14 Watt ceiling Fan light bulbs. These are aquired at home depot, Too.) I really wish the best for your vft. Hopefully it will grow to become a nice insect Slayer on its own. Good luck....See Morecat repellant
Comments (14)Cat Deterrents for your Garden: Keep in mind that each cat is different (like people), what works for one may not necessarily work for another. On the plus side, most cats will keep pesty squirrels, moles and other critters out of your garden. They're great for keeping out moles, rabbits, squirrels, and other critters which can do more damage in your garden than a cat ever will. Birds aren't stupid, they watch for cats and stay away. Sometimes natural law comes into play and the quicker animal wins, it's natural law. If the cats have owners, talk to them without being confrontational. The cat owner who allows his cat to damage other peoples' property is as guilty as the cat hater who kills the cat for trespassing. Remember, cats will be cats, and it is unfair of us to blame them for being what they are and how nature intended them to participate in this world. After-all, we praise them when they catch mice or rats or other creatures we deem to be 'pests'. * amonia soaked (corncobs, etc) * aluminum foil * bamboo skewers * black pepper * blood meal fertilizer * bramble cuttings * Carefresh - "recycled" wood pulp * catnip - donated into your neighbor's yards (so they'll stay in their own yards) * cedar compost * chicken wire (metal or plastic) * cinnamon * citrus peels * citrus spray * cocoa bean shells * coffee grounds -fresh & unbrewed, not just a light sprinkling (highly recommended by MANY Gardenwebbers!) * dogs * electric fence for animals * essence of orange. essence of lemon, lime (citrus essential oils) * fresh manure(ditto) * garlic cloves * gumballs from the Sweet Gum Tree * gutter covers * hardware cloth * heavy bark mulch * holly leaves * keep the area damp, they like dry soil * lavender * liquid manure (good for your garden too) * motion sensor sprinkler * pennyroyal * pinecones * pipe tobacco * plastic forks * predator urine * red wine vinegar * river rocks over the exposed soil * rocks, crushed * rose bush clippings * rue, an herb (Ruta graveolens) (highly recommended in plant form only) * short twigs throughout the planted area about 6" apart * six-inch bamboo skewers (pointy side up) * Spray on your leaves (not the cat): fill a spray bottle with 1/2 t chili powder, 1/2 t cayenne pepper, 1 t dish soap and water * squirt gun with water * talk to your neighbors * tansy * thorny berry, lilac, hawthorn, rose clippings * toothpicks * upside down vinyl carpet * vinegar sprayed on areas where they roam * water bottle on "stream" NOT RECOMMENDED: *** chili powder, red crushed pepper, cayenne pepper (NOT recommended), it gets on the cat's paws then they wash themselves and they get it in their eyes, beware cats have literally scratched their eyes out because of this. Even if it's one cat out of 500 infected in this way, that's one too many for me. *** Don't ever use mothballs or flakes. Those little toxic waste pellets destroy cats' kidney function, could seriously harm people who handle them, and yes, contaminate your own garden soil. Their packaging even warns against using them this way. Give them their own areas: (To keep them out of where you don't want them) (If you don't mind them protecting your garden from other critters) + pick the cat up and bring it to eye level with the plant to see and smell it up close. She noted that once her cat has seen and sniffed at the plant, she usually doesn't bother with it later. + give them their own plants - i.e., pots of grass for her to chew on and a place in a large planted container on her balcony with some miscanthus grass in it (the cat likes to curl up in that for some reason) + if the cats are strictly indoors and attracted to your houseplants, grow catgrass for them. If someone forced you to remain inside one enclosed structure all your life, you might be attracted to the plants too. + Barley Grass + Any type of "catgrass" from the pet store + Carex elata 'Bolwes Golden' but put it in some shade + Catmint Nepeta mussinicultivars (Simply put, Catmints are Catnips without any culinary or feline use. In any case, they are, however, phenomenal, long flowering, hardy perennials that belong in every fairie or flower garden.) + Catnip Nepeta cataria (in your own yard) The oils of which also work as a mosquito repellent that works 10 times better than Deet! Catmint is the common name for all varieties of Nepeta. Catnip is the common name for the specific variety of Nepeta called nepeta cataria, which is the variety that cats are most attracted to. + Cat Thyme (Teucrium marum) + Flax + Oat Grass + Jacob's Ladder + Lemon Grass + Loose soil and mulch like small bark mulch + Mints + Purple Fountain Grass so the cat lays in the long leaves all day. Maybe put something in that the cats really like and - you know cats won't winky were they like to hang out. + Sandy area + Silver vine (Actinidia polygama) + Striped Ribbon Grass (can be invasive) + Sweet grass + Trificum aestivum (type of cat grass) + Various Varieties of Cat Mints (Catnips) + Wheat Grass + Wheat Berries + Valerian This list compiled by Violet_Z6, email at violetgw@care2.com for comments and suggestions regarding this list....See MoreBird Nets: Damned If I Do, And Damned If I Don't!
Comments (35)Lou, you crack me up! I had an old neighbor once in the country who shot a red-tailed hawk who came after his chickens. Wildlife had just released them a year earlier in a repopulation project. I told the wildlife guy at the time he was releasing them in the wrong area, that they would all be dead soon. He said that a lot of people would be in jail if they were. Nobody ever went to jail. The hawks caught on and moved elsewhere. I heard they were seen in Aiken, about 30 miles down the road, where they raise horses, not chickens, and love hawks because they eat the barn mice. Birds are smarter than we think they are. It's sad that we can't protect our crops from migratory marauders, but rich people can breed doves and foxes by the hundreds and shoot them on a yearly basis for "sport". FWIW, I've done some borderline illegal stuff to protect my garden when I lived in the country, and I purposely put net on my chicken coops to kill the snakes. I like snakes...in their place...but chickens are not as cheap to raise as some people think....See MoreSins of omission..
Comments (65)Okay Cat, I am going to try this one more time. You said you wanted to hear from those who have been where you are...well, I told you that I have been. I believe rather than "loving" your H (I won't even call him DH)...you are afraid of being alone. He has made your self-esteem rock bottom. He doesn't love you in return and when you take off your blinders and see that, you will realize that it is MUCH better living alone than with someone who treats you as he has. When I decided to leave, I didn't look back and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I think your H might be like the one I had....a manic depressive...and believe me, I can attest to to the fact that you never know which mood he is going to be in. Is he on medication? Has he been tested for it? That is HIS problem and not yours anymore. When I left, I had only my meger job, but I had a good lady friend who let me live with her until I got myself together.....but I made it and so can you!!!, but you have to want something better for yourself, and take action!!! It isn't the end of the world....so what if you "planned" to travel etc. with him...that is what they make bus tours for...you don't need him....culivate your girl friends...men come and go, but they won't......that is, if you are a good friend to them also. I have read your posts for so long....and nothing changes...and nothing will, until YOU take control of your own life~~~~so get your things together and get yourself out (that is if you are living together now)....burn those bridges and do not look back!!!!! You will not only feel better physically, but emotionally, as well.....I PROMISE YOU!!! So take action NOW!!! You have had good advice on these posts, but I think some are getting tired of hearing about your woes if you won't take that first step and get out. Good Luck....and I hope the next time I stop by here, but have said that you have left him for good and never to see him again....See More- 9 years ago
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