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How do I get rid of a vindictive cat?
Comments (10)Although, I do feel for you, I must agree as a life-long cat owner that they are not vindictive and in this situation it usually is because there is something wrong with them. Outdoor Cats usually poop in dirt and cover it up. If they are marking territory they usually spray, not poop. It is possible that may be what he is doing, but unlikely. The benefit of telling the owner is that if he sick (nothing that you should fear, he isn't contagious to humans)they can take him to the vet to get him checked out, since he may not have a litter box at home for them to notice it. Be clear with them that you are telling them out of concern for the animal, not because you are looking to punish him. As for your part of the problem, I too suggest getting a PHEROMONE spray or liquid (available at any pet store) and spraying on the area he poops after cleaning it with a bleach substance to kill the smell and bacteria. They will keep going there if they can smell it and bleach or other cleaners do not get rid of the scent (they can smell it) and making it more uncomfortable. You could put a litter box near by, which could solve the problem, too. But please do tell the owner that their cat may be sick and save both of you from further misery if that is indeed the cause of it....See MoreSins of omission..
Comments (65)Okay Cat, I am going to try this one more time. You said you wanted to hear from those who have been where you are...well, I told you that I have been. I believe rather than "loving" your H (I won't even call him DH)...you are afraid of being alone. He has made your self-esteem rock bottom. He doesn't love you in return and when you take off your blinders and see that, you will realize that it is MUCH better living alone than with someone who treats you as he has. When I decided to leave, I didn't look back and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I think your H might be like the one I had....a manic depressive...and believe me, I can attest to to the fact that you never know which mood he is going to be in. Is he on medication? Has he been tested for it? That is HIS problem and not yours anymore. When I left, I had only my meger job, but I had a good lady friend who let me live with her until I got myself together.....but I made it and so can you!!!, but you have to want something better for yourself, and take action!!! It isn't the end of the world....so what if you "planned" to travel etc. with him...that is what they make bus tours for...you don't need him....culivate your girl friends...men come and go, but they won't......that is, if you are a good friend to them also. I have read your posts for so long....and nothing changes...and nothing will, until YOU take control of your own life~~~~so get your things together and get yourself out (that is if you are living together now)....burn those bridges and do not look back!!!!! You will not only feel better physically, but emotionally, as well.....I PROMISE YOU!!! So take action NOW!!! You have had good advice on these posts, but I think some are getting tired of hearing about your woes if you won't take that first step and get out. Good Luck....and I hope the next time I stop by here, but have said that you have left him for good and never to see him again....See MoreCat Territory Marking - Suggestions?
Comments (22)I can honestly say I know how estreya feels. I have a male cat (11yrs old) who has started peeing and sometimes pooped by the front window. We have figured that there is a cat out there and my cat is not pleased. It's not the first time this cat has been around. I have even fed the cat several times last year because I felt sorry for it. But back then my cat had never marked his area. So, we could not figure out why he started doing it now. Then is occured to us, in the past Stumpy, the one marking his spot, had Sweety, our cat who recently passed away, to take his aggression out on. Now that Sweety is no longer with us, he can't take the stress of this other cat outside and has no one to "fight with". I feel deflated as well. I have steamed cleaned that area so much, I could of cleaned all the houses on our street two times over. I have pulled the carpet up and cleaned the padding, sub floor and back of the carpet. I even taped a big trash bag on the floor to keep him away. That worked for a while until he went to a different area away from the trash bag. I have bought the comfort zone plug in that gives off pheromones to calm the cat. Sprayed "No Spray" on the floor to deter him. I have been on line all day reading about how to keep the other cat out of my yard. By the way, I have not fed this cat in a long time. The cat belongs to someone on our street because it is clean and healthy looking. Also, Stumpy is fine. No medical problems. Our vet suggested the plug in and spray. She said if that does not work, she would prescribe medicine for him. I don't want to medicate my cat, but I may not have too much choice. I think first I will try and get rid of the cat coming around my house and hopefully that will calm my cat down. Keep your head up it is a long process and at times very frustrating but I feel my cat is worth it....See MoreNeed foolproof tips for giving a cat oral medication
Comments (11)I got these instructions quite awhile back in an email, wouldn't recommend it but it's pretty funny: Pick up cat and cradle it in the crook of your left arm as if holding a baby. Position right forefinger and thumb on either side of cat�s mouth and gently apply pressure to cheeks while holding pill in right hand. As cat opens mouth, pop pill into mouth. Allow cat to close mouth and swallow. Retrieve pill from floor and cat from behind sofa. Cradle cat in left arm and repeat process. Retrieve cat from bedroom, and throw soggy pill away. Take new pill from foil wrap, cradle cat in left arm, holding rear paws tightly with left hand. Force jaws open and push pill to back of mouth with right forefinger. Hold mouth shut for a count of ten. Retrieve pill from goldfish bowl and cat from top of wardrobe. Call spouse in from the garden. Kneel on floor with cat wedged firmly between knees, hold front and rear paws. Ignore low growls emitted by cat. Get spouse to hold head firmly with one hand while forcing wooden ruler into mouth. Drop pill down ruler and rub cat's throat vigorously. Retrieve cat from curtain rail. Get another pill from foil wrap. Make note to buy new ruler and repair curtains. Carefully sweep shattered figurines and vases from hearth and set to one side for gluing later. Wrap cat in large towel and get spouse to lie on cat with head just visible from below armpit. Put pill in end of drinking straw, force mouth open with pencil and blow down drinking straw Check label to make sure pill not harmful to humans and drink one beer to take taste away. Apply band-aid to spouse's forearm and remove blood from carpet with cold water and soap. Retrieve cat from neighbor's shed. Get another pill. Open another beer. Place cat in cupboard, and close door onto neck, to leave head showing. Force mouth open with dessert spoon. Flick pill down throat with elastic band. Fetch screwdriver from garage and put cupboard door back on hinges. Drink beer. Fetch bottle of scotch. Pour shot, drink. Apply cold compress to cheek and check records for date of last tetanus shot. Apply whiskey compress to cheek to disinfect. Toss back another shot. Throw tee-shirt away and fetch new one from bedroom. Call fire department to retrieve the damn cat from the top of the tree across the road. Apologize to neighbor who crashed into fence while swerving to avoid cat. Take last pill from foil wrap. Using heavy-duty pruning gloves from shed, tie the little *%^'s front paws to rear paws with garden twine and bind tightly to leg of dining table. Push pill into mouth followed by large piece of filet steak. Be rough about it. Hold head vertically and pour two pints of water down throat to wash pill down. Consume remainder of scotch. Get spouse to drive you to the emergency room. Sit quietly while doctor stitches fingers and forearm and removes pill remnants from right eye. Call furniture shop on way home to order new table. Arrange for SPCA to collect mutant cat from hell and call local pet shop to see if they have any hamsters. How To Give A Dog A Pill 1. Wrap it in bacon. 2. Toss it in the air. GOOD DOG!...See More- 7 years ago
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