Has the rise in terror attacks given you pause for overseas travel?
Annegriet
7 years ago
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Comments (60)Animals aren't collections, even if you do have several, okay 6 cats and four dogs. China isn't a collection...you use it. Besides, some of it was my grandmother's and some mothers, and I really liked the soft pink abstract rose on that set and you need Christmas china, and of course, you need different china for the grandkids at Christmas. I suppose having 350 different daylilies means I must admit to collecting them. But all the Christmas decorations are just decorations, not a collection...except maybe the Dickens Villiage is a collection. And Josh, I am really impressed with all of your languages. In addition to English, I speak only Spanish and German, and, like Melissa, I can read French, but I do not speak nor understand the spoken French. And like Susie, Books are not a collection any more than food is. kay...See MoreHow do you feel about the future?
Comments (27)A standing ovation for sjerin and several others have great points too. Few are nostalgic enough to crave going back to the days of the Donner-Reed party. These days aren't we all pretty spoiled? We complain that it rained on a day we wanted a picnic and think nothing of those who had to find a plot of land, clear it, till something to grow crops and raise livestock to eat, and build a shelter rather than think "I want a bigger house". We complain about mosquitoes but we go into our air conditioned/screened houses. What did they do 150 years ago? They were happy to live to be 60, now we grumble that we hurt and someone was late delivering our pizza. However one thing about 150 years ago... there was next to nothing in divorce! Our children/grandchildren fearing someone is out to kill them and how "safe" we were before? That's pretty paranoid. And pretty blinded. Does nobody remember the cold war, the Nazis, the fighting for homesteading? Although information is good, the problem is misinformation. Just as the internet can educate, the internet can also dumb people down. How many people have shipped their cars overseas waiting for a check, sent their life savings and even given up their passports to gain the gifts from the Nigerian General who'll make them rich? But things really haven't truly "changed" that much. People were stupid and gullible before and are now. They were greedy before and are now. And there's always people ready to take advantage of them. It's just a little easier to find your targets today I think. Especially the last couple years things have certainly improved from the 8 years of devastation prior but we have a long way to go and a lot from which to recover. But our selfish side wants immediate gratification. That's sad. Yes, kids generally know more about certain technologies but I'm pleased about that aspect but concerned when I see them lose basic and IMO necessary skills and common sense in the process. I'm saddened by that aspect. I recently had the chance to communicate with a fellow from Russia. It was a real education. We tend to think that all corners of the globe are connected 24/7 these days. Hardly. Russia has not progressed like we have over the years. Telephones? Not commonplace in Russian homes. Computers in homes? Not common there. Internet cafes are the way to get on the internet, and for a short period of time. They don't all have 2 cars and an RV in the driveway. We forget about the lineups to get toilet paper but a similar situation exists for technology. We cry that our 5 year olds don't have an iPhone! There's time we have to say shame on us, isn't there? We ship seemingly endless money and goods to "3rd world" nations yet ignore others that aren't anywhere near what we have. And the biggest crime IMO is ignoring those in our own countries who need help. The elderly, injured and those who are working to earn a living without looking for handouts. For all those with blinders on, there was crime in past generations. My sister's friend was abducted as a teen and she's never been found. This was in a "safe" neighborhood too. Jacob Wetterling has never been found. Kids have disappeared over the years and all through history. People have been murdered all through history. There's the fear du-jour that impacts so many. Whether the fear was ending slavery or a rebellion to the Union; a drought or depression; rock & roll music being the end of mankind, guns, abortion, political parties or whatever, there's the fearmongering that is the biggest thing to fear IMHO. We all have our pet peeves. Whether it's a disease, social issue or whatever, they'll continue. I just hope that some semblance of reason and rational thinking can be held by at least enough to keep things together. And I guess I believe that life will go on. It won't be the same and that can be good and bad in certain ways, but it doesn't really matter, the reality is that it will go on one way or another....See MoreConfessing my phobias . Do you have one ?
Comments (75)Trying to think of anything that might bother me to the point of "fear" but on the whole, the only thing that comes to mind is that at some time after a heart bypass operation, I developed a bit of an aversion to being in small closed spaces (think REALLY small). I believe this came from immediately post surgery (2015) when I had a breathing tube stuffed down my throat and was choking yet couldn't convince the powers in charge to remove it so I could swallow. Finally, a male nurse took pity upon my situation and traded the tube for a breathing canula whereupon the choking problem ceased. Reading the issues as stated by so many, I guess I've just now realized how fortunate I've been to not have phobias or other issues that prohibited me from doing whatever I wanted which includes standing on the edge of buildings/cliffs/elevators/glass floors or whatever, heights, crawling under/over/and around some rather inhospitable and closed spaces, bugs/bees/small creepy crawly things bother me not in the least although like most people, I rarely "play" with stinging and biting insects. I was always the one who got sent into dark basements, under pier and beam houses, and up to the highest limbs in some half rotten old tree. At present, advancing age along with less agility along with a short list of past injuries generally preclude me from doing many of the more dicey things that I used to do but then... if I need to do them, I will but a bit slower and probably a lot more safely than I used to. To those who have those conditions I've been fortunate to avoid, I do honestly wish you well and assume that due to the perceived age of some if not all posters around these forums, you have still been able to have full and satisfying lives. On the other hand, I've known more than several people over the years that are absolutely terrified of clowns. Of the couple folks I've actually asked about it, they were so upset by the very mention that they didn't know why they were so scared and refused to even discuss....See MoreAre you retired? If so, or it's upcoming, do you want to move?
Comments (83)This, by Mtn. - Make decisions that seem right for the time, enjoy the present, and be prepared to adjust. Interesting thread, I've enjoyed reading such varied thoughts and plans. Sorry to hear of the DH's having health problem. DH has them too, and it is one of the reasons we moved to FL early last year. I never thought I would move away from our children and grandchildern, and DH says if not for CV, I probably would not have. Daily FT with our youngest DGD and DD2 helps, and being only 4.5 hours away, I can visit often. DD2 recently moved and I have my own bedroom and bath now. She would love for us to eventually live with them, but I don't see that happening if DH was living. I probably would at some point, but not at my current age and health. The main reason DH wanted to move was warmer weather for his aching body. While we do get cooler temps, he can still swim and sit in the spa 2x a day. He only missed a day or two last winter. He has met a lot of people walking daily. One of our neighbors is the 10yr older version of DH and they talk in the mornings when they see each other. My sister bought a place a few minutes away and comes every other month. Last year DD2 and her family came often, and DH or I would bring our DGS back with us for weeks at a time when we went to Drs or to visit family. Less so this summer, but between them coming here and us there, there has been just as many if not more days together. We started retiring in 2016, working for ourselves. It had become more PT for DH years before that, and we fully retired in 2019. He did the day to day and I did the paperwork (owned and managed our commercial RE). I know DH would like to travel more, but I think he worries about being away and something happening with his health. He has Calcium Deposition Disease, RA and neuropathy. Back surgery, two neck surgeries, shoulder surgery and lots of knee scopings. He has to be extremely careful about making almost any move, because the slightest move (right or wrong) can cause issues for weeks. Almost two weeks ago he developed Bell's Palsy. It isn't a bad case, so until he blinks (and one eye doesn't close) or he smiles, you wouldn't be able to tell. That has depressed him a bit because he feels like it is always something. He can't catch a break. Anyway, our lives focused on our three children, work and our parents for so long, that it is nice to be (mostly) focusing on ourselves for a change. I know this wasn't our last move, but it was the right move for this time in our lives....See MoreAnnegriet
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