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a very nice afternoon...

9 years ago

My eldest DGS was in a men's squash tournament at their club today. He also played twice last night. He's 16 and a very good player - last year he won the Men's 4.0 part of the tournament (people play by ability, with 5.0 being the highest at this club). So, this year, his new coach put him in the 5.0 group. He played doubles last night and won. Then he played the top seed 5.0 player and won one game off of him. He was NOT pleased to lose to DGS and then did win the match, as was expected. But he had to work VERY hard to win.

Today, he played doubles again at 12. One of the players was an overweight guy in his 50's who was not a very good sport. If DGS's 14 yr old partner called a "let", he refused it, and since the only person available to ref the match was that child's father, there was little he could do. Child was in tears when they lost in 5 games. Sad to see this matter so much to this older man.

Immediately, after finishing the 5 games, he had to get back on and play his 2nd singles match. He played a man who usually beats him, but he won, again it went to 5 games. He had just come off the court, dripping with sweat and grabbing for his water, when the tournament chrm grabbed him and said he had to play his last singles match (consolation rounds). So, back on the court and again it took 5 games for DGS to win. His legs must have felt like rubber and I'm betting he sleeps VERY well tonight!

Yesterday, the PSAT scores came out. When he took the exam, he came home and said he's "flunked the PSAT" - he lost track of time and left 2-3 pages of questions unanswered. He was so upset about this that he refused to discuss this further with anyone. He puts a LOT of pressure on himself. So, he got his scores: he had a perfect score on the math segment, and a 675 on the verbal/writing. This is his idea of "flunking" the PSAT. Of course, what he wanted was to be a Nat'l Merit Semi-Finalist - his HS had 44 this fall. Most likely, he'll miss it by about 3 points in the converted score. I know he's very disappointed as it's a VERY big deal among the smartest kids in his HS, but at least he's allowing himself a bit of pleasure with that perfect math score. He took the SAT last Sat, so we'll have to see what his score is on it - it's the one that counts the most for college admission. And yes, he DOES want to play squash in college, too! If there is one thing that is not a problem with this handsome boy, it's sure not lack of drive and motivation. He's very fun to watch and we have no idea where all this drive came from - certainly not from this grandmother!

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