Small Bit Of Wall Damage Done By Workers- Advice
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Comments (14)Hi all, I read your posts last night, but I wasn't up to posting a reply. The earliest I've arrived home from work this week has been 7:00 and then there's dinner and cleanup and chores and stuff. Like all of you don't already know how the days go. :-) All of you continue to amaze me with what you do day in and day out. Anyways, yesterday I took the fruit and lime soda water to this dear woman, but she wasn't interested. She was in pretty bad shape. We talked for a few minutes and then she fell asleep. I tucked her in and left. I didn't visit today, cuz I had a bunch of errands to run after work, but one of the co-workers went to see her. She was much better. She ate some fruit and she felt well enough that the co-worker helped her outside and they sat in her yard so she could enjoy the sun and fresh air. She liked that. We're realizing that the time spent with her has to be spent at her pace not ours. It's ok if we were hoping to spend time stamping (just an example) and she's not up to it. This is her journey and we'll take each day as it comes. The Home Health people arrived today and did an assessment. They'll send a health care person twice a week to help out. The local hospice organization called back; they're re-organzing but will get someone out to help the family as soon as they can. We're in a very small rural community so services aren't as available or as efficient as in larger communities. Another bit of good news. As I was leaving last night, her daughter and grand daughter showed up. The daughter came to cook dinner and tidy up the house and the grand daughter spent time with her grandmother. It's not easy for the grand daughter; she's only 14. The grandson who will be graduating next week is a wonderful young man and has always been very close to this dear lady, but so far is staying away cuz he can't stand to see her in her present condition. That's ok too...people deal with things in their own way. We're hoping he'll find the strength to visit soon so that he doesn't regret staying away and end up sorry that he didn't get to say 'goodbye'. Derry, I hear what you mean about 'fizzling'. We don't want a spurt of overly enthusiastic helpers to not see this through, so we're organizing so that there aren't a bunch of people one day and none for the long haul. We're trying to coordinate our time so that it evens out and no one feels overwhelmed. So far, so good. One day at a time. Thank you again for all your wonderful advice and kindness. It means a lot. :-) edwinna...See MoreAdvice needed on rain damage
Comments (1)Weather-caused damage should be expected and would normally be the contractor's responsibility. (You're not talking hurricane here.) An experienced contractor would build that contingency into his bid. But it all depends on your contract with him....See MoreAdvice on Damaged Tree
Comments (8)almost all weeds are airborne ... those not birds take to the air ... minutes after it is down ... weed seed is accumulating on top ... so whats its purpose ... except to enrich the seller.... after that.. it can interfere with water moving freely up and down ... especially down the decades.. as dirt also starts accumulating on top ... roots also need air as much as water ... and it can interfere with that.. over the years .... just stop using it ... in the future ... not great to drive over roots ... lets hope that damage was minor.. you wont know for years... if at all ... we usually see the worst damage.. when some house builder goes into a native stand of trees.. and bulldozes the whole lot ... roots are said to be twice as big as the tree above.. in a pancake like form ... one hopes.. your little bit of damage ... is rather limited to the root mass in all ... to sum it up ... the stuff is not used to smother existing weeds .. other things work just as well.. and break down quickly ... and the new weeds will come from above.. not below... so useless ... ken ps: we just had a recent post.. where some prior owner cover the whole yard in heavy plastic .. a rather large yard ..... and covered it with rocks.. and new owner is wondering why the two rather large trees were dying ......See MoreHelping To Make The World A Better Place, Bit By Tiny Bit
Comments (39)I agree with most of the posts I have read. Even the seemingly contradictory ones. I believe that all of us, wherever we are and however we can, have a responsibility to help others. Like anything, there are better and worse ways to do that, but that does not make any well-intentioned effort wrong or useless. A lot of people don't think through the logic of how to help. My kids preschool had a canned goods fundraiser after Katrina, and then needed to raise $1500 to rent a trailer to get it there. A church I once attended did a clothing drive for their shelter and got prom dresses. I recall scores of coats that had to be received, transported and warehoused when misguided donors sent winter coats after the Tsunami hit. My one kid's school does a turkey drive, and those turkeys go to immigrants who don't particularly like turkey, don't have a roasting pan, and may only have a hotplate. Christmas toy drives have lots of toys for "desireable" little girls, and almost nothing for teen boys.At the schools we support in Cambodia, they used to have tourist groups drive up in buses and throw candy out the window; to kids with no dental care. And yes, white westerners have committed a heck of a lot of sins under the guise (or genuine ignorance) of helping the less fortunate and less "enlightened". It does serve us all well to think very carefully about economically efficient and culturally sensitive ways of giving back. Usually, TBH, that means giving your money to a locally run organization that is "of the people" and that runs with low overhead. "Foreigners" (whether literally foreign or just from a totally different demo) swooping in with grand gestures tends to reinforce dependence and can be counterproductive. All that said, who is to say what is a worthy cause and what is not? Only you can answer that for yourself. I sometimes try to weigh the moral math in my head ... curing childhood cancers ... educating Rwandan orphans ... feeding elderly ... preserving the environment. I end up just supporting a lot of causes because I don't know of a mathematical answer. Back to the sweet little lady. I have literally been around the world, and I am struck by how ubiquitous Western clothing is. It has not been my experience at all that it is rejected. Might something else serve better? I think it would amazing if she could make dresses in colors and styles that might be more indigenous; she might think that is fun too. But I personally believe that what she is doing is still a wonderful thing. I remember one NGO worker saying that just knowing that someone across the world, a total stranger, did something for you, is a very special feeling. A validation....See MoreUser
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