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Do you Need a Break Some Years?
Comments (6)Hey Susan, don't feel guilty! When Tif was dx with cancer, I had to pretty much let up on my entire garden and butterfly raising. I did SOME but not much and I was feeling guilty. I realized I just had to give up something because I couldn't do it all at the same rate of energy. Sometimes a break is a necessity. It was quite some time before I was able to 'come back' and get going again full-throttle. When I did, I felt re-energized! :) It was similar to when I quit teaching adults (I taught teachers for years and ran these multi-million dollar math programs where I worked year-round, writing the curriculum, managing the budget, overseeing staff of 20+, ÂI couldn't take a vacation without my cell phone turned on and in the summers, even had to carry budget binders with me because that's when the auditors came!). Hubby convinced me to go back to teaching in the classroom and I decided to teach Kindergarten, MUCH to everyone's surprise (WHAT? Kinder? You MUST be crazy! Go back to junior high or maybe go to high schoolÂ). It took me LITERALLY three years before I was able to RELAX during June, July, and August and I mean, literally, slow down and not feel that I HAD to work! Now, I do stuff because I WANT to not because I feel I have to. So no guilt. Take that break. For me, butterfly gardening (which includes raising the little buggers) is my relaxation. Sure, it also is a stress inducer in some ways but at the same time, it is a stress that I enjoy having. :) I don't feel guilty if hubby says, "We can't GO anywhere now cuz you've got those caterpillars to feed!" I just say, "Sure we can! I just put them out on the plants and let nature do its thing! Hey, I just give them a better chance inside and if I have to go somewhere, then, well, *sigh* they will just have to fend for themselves for a change." So relax and don't feel guilty. If you had seen my garden that year, oh my! It was a mess...But, it's getting back into shape and I am SO looking forward to this summer break! :) CalSherry aka tdogmom...See MoreHow do you know when marriage is over?
Comments (25)Just thought I would pop back in. Doesn't god hate lazy people too who refuse to help themselves or take care of their family? We went to visit both our families this weekend...about an hour away. We were supposed to eat lunch with my family today. He had wanted to stay at his mom's and I wanted to stay at my mom's (more comfy bed), so he said lets split up. We ate dinner with his mom Sat night, she offered to pay and he grabbed the check and said no we will pay. Then proceeds to hand it to me since he has no $$$. I don't know why but I paid. I should have said something. His mom knows we are having trouble - he told her we are declaring bankruptcy and I told her the business has failed. So I call him at 12 today to say I was on my way to pick him up. He says no I have to go home to work we need to leave now. I said that we already had plans and he could eat with us if he wanted or stay at his moms, and I would pick him up afterwards.. He chose to stay there and sulk. His mom pissed me off as she knew we had plans with my family and she says to me on the phone when I called to talk to him at 12...oh we are celebrating aunt so and so's birthday today at such and such place if you want to go there instead. Then we get home at 5pm and he goes to bed. He hasn't had any photoshoots in a month, so any work he might have is from over a month ago. Plus he never mentioned he needed to leave at 12 even when I spoke with him the night before. Whatever. y mom asked what was wrong, because clearly I was upset, even though I was trying to hold it all in. So against my more rational judgement I kinda told her what was going on. I really didn't know what she would say...she is pretty religous. She said, well I hope he gets it together and you don't have to get divorced, but you can't keep wasting your life and always having to push him. I was pretty suprised. I thought she might say, that its not that bad and it would be wrong to divorce. I told her I would feel like a failure for getting a divorce and she was very reassuring that isn't the case. (Note: She is divorced, but my dad beat her all the time and finally she left after 11 years - the church told her she shouldn't) I mentioned the only way he will probably find a new job is if I do his resume and send it out. She said she wouldn't do that...that he needs to do it himself and if not, then he has made his choice and I shouldn't feel bad to have him leave. Then my brother arrived at lunch and asked where my husband was since he figured he would be at lunch. I told him less. Brother is younger than me and has his own business and really likes my husband...considers him a brother. I just said he was in a bad mood, that the business wasn't going well. Brother said that he had talked to him at XMAS trying to help...suggesting sales calls, networking, inviting him to his business assoc. mtgs etc. I said he hasn't went on one sale call, sent out any direct mail, phone calls or trade shows ever in three years, doesn't call his customers back when they have complaints and has a bad rating with the better business bureau. He said, well he could turn it around, but it would require 80 hr work weeks, tons of sales calls, resolving issues etc. He said it doesn't sound like that will work. I was very calm just matter of fact with my family...not emotional, not saying I hate him etc. Just the busines isn't working and that I told him he needs to go back to work. Brother asked how much the business is making, if I didn't mind saying, which I didn't...I told him $615...he thought that was per week....I said, no that is per year. He agreed time to say goodbye to it. He did say his 1st three businesses didn't succeed, but that he doesn't have a "sugar mamma" so if he doesn't work he doesn't eat. Then went on to say its not fair to me to have live that way. Of course I asked each of them to keep this confidental. I really hadn't planned on saying anything to my family since I embarrassed about the entire thing and also because if we do reconcile I do not want them to hold a grudge, but I think the way I presented it, that will not be the case. Plus my family typically doesn't hold grudges. I didn't tell my brother I was thinking about a divorce though. Not really ready to tell everyone. Hopefully it wasn't a mistake to mention it to my mom. I delivered all the bankruptcy forms and support docs to our atty this week and we will file March 15. I found a new job that pays 10k more as my current employer eliminated by job in Dec and I have been doing data entry work for the past four weeks, so I start that in a week. It will involve some travel. Even with the increase we still qualify for the bankruptcy, thank god, because I can barely pay all the nessecary bills. Thank you all for listening to my vent...I really needed to get that out. I am willing to give it to the end of May. If he doesn't have a job by then, I am done. It makes me cry just typing that out....See MoreElectric Bill, What do you pay each month?
Comments (41)During the summer months, my electrci bill runs between $50 to $90 per month. Its about $30 more when the air conditioner runs (whole house A/C). Before I got A/C, I ran a dehumidifier in the basement. It had a problem of freezing up. I found that was due to too much humidity coupled with the cooler basement air. The solution was to raise is a couple of feet off the floor. Since the basement can not be tightly sealed away from the rest of the house, it gets to be a loosing proposition because the humidity continues to be replenished from upstairs. Whole house A/C was the answer. It reduces the temperature difference between the basement and upper floor and effectively dries the air. Whats more, the A/C does not use much more electricity than a humidifier and fans in the upper floor. To a small degree, it reduces the load of the refrigerator and freezer since their ambient air temp is lowered. I've been lucky this summer. I used the A/C for two weeks in June and none since. However, August is coming and I can expect to start it again. Around here, the first 3 weeks of August can be like July....See MoreEarth berm house in Alabama? Tell me why I should or shouldn't.
Comments (24)beckysharp Reinstate SW Unconditionally, When you recommended I look up "passive solar," I began digging into the topic, and then from there I looked into passive cooling. Wow! Thanks for that--I've learned a lot but still have tons more questions. tangerinedoor, I have not yet seen any examples of netZero homes in Alabama, but would love to look into that. Very interesting. But probably a lot harder to do in Alabama compared to Vermont. The problem with thermal mass in the south is--you gotta keep it out of the sun or it'll make the house too hot all the time. And even if you keep the most sun-exposed parts of the home out of the sun via huge trees, reflective coatings, roof overhangs, etc, I believe you'd still need air conditioning. Here's an example of a netZero home in Alabama I would not be interested in: uses a lot of energy keeping cool, thus has $50,000 of solar panels on roof to produce all energy needed....See More- 10 years ago
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