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Quite the two weeks I have had....

10 years ago

On the 20th my mom fell and broke her ankle. Last Monday she was suppose to go to an ortho dr., but we had too much ice so she went today to her regular family doctor and he said she needs to go to the ortho. The next day my mil arrived and was originally suppose to be here 7 days which turned into 11 days. My mil loves to drink in the evenings and sometimes it is just too much for me. She left this past Friday and on that some day my dad called me to tell me my step sister was in ICU and would be going to hospice the next day. She has suffered from Type 1 Diabetes most of her life and her body was wearing out. I went to the Hospice floor on Saturday and visited with my step mom and when we went outside for her to smoke we talked about my dad and his stubbornness over her daughter. My dad just can not get pass the fact that my step sister did not live the healthiest of lives and he thinks she should have done anything and everything to have a better life ( quit smoking, try for a kidney transplant, use her prosthesis, etc.). My stepmom was very upset with him for not coming up to the hospital and how she was not going to be able to forgive him for this. I went home and got up the nerve to call my dad and tell him he needed to go up to the hospital to see his wife. I told him I would pick him up in an hour. On our way to the hospital he started complaining again about her and the kidney transplant and I told him that that is in the past and she only has hours to live and he needs to forget about it. We got to the hospital and my stepmom was so thankful. When my dad went to the bathroom she hugged me and said I had performed a miracle. I must say I shed a lot of tears inbetween all of this. My step sister passed away at 7:15 Sunday morning. Finally she is free from the body that has been ravaged from diabetes. I am very thankful that I got to tell her goodbye (even though she was not aware) and was able to bring my stepmom a little bit of peace. Tomorrow the hot water inspector is coming anywhere from 8-12, furnace guy is coming at 10:00 and my sister and niece fly in at 4:00 and 5:00. Tonight I went and got my hair cut and colored and it felt so nice just to have a few hours to myself and relax.

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