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ajard, here are answers to these ss shelf questions, finally
Comments (1)thank you !!! I did find a company called Danver that makes the floating ones.....See MoreVacation question- going by myself to bring SS's or not
Comments (21)I was going to agree that you don't have to take the stepchildren with you on vacation, however, when I read that they live with you full time I changed my mind! I can see spending one-on-one time with the children individually, but I can't see taking only your children on vacation when you are the de facto mother to them (given the fact they only see their mother every other Friday and she returns them on Saturday - which is almost the same situation that I have). I would be okay with telling the older boys that they most likely wouldn't enjoy Disney and just taking the younger three, however, I would probably make an effort to do something special with the older two (not necessarily costly, just something special to them). I think segregating them by age given the nature of the vacation would be okay, but segregating them as "you're not mine" would be hurtful since you ARE their full time mom (even though you may not always feel like it!!!). I think my stepdaughters would be very hurt knowing I was excluding them just because I didn't give birth to them. Did that make any sense?...See MoreQuestion about traveling/SS/internationally
Comments (16)lovehadley, I once traveled back from the Caribbean with DS then 5 and my 1st cousin's son also 5 after a similar family gathering. We were dropping him off in NY for his parents (he traveled down with his aunt/mom's sis and flew back with us) and then we went on to LA. Cousin got the proper forms, very much like kkny's, from the airline directly, in this case American. She picked it up from one of their sales offices. As mentioned above, no one asked for the document on either trip, just the passports(we also had copies of the birth certificate, pre-school IDs - loaded for bear This is becase on an earlier trip another cousin did NOT have her kids passports, they left the US ok but couldn't come back. She had to scramble, fly to the counsulate high drama) so now better safe than sorry. Immigration only asked what were the relationships and looked at the passports. I heard the airlines will e-mail the forms to you now if you have purchased tickets. I don't remember them being notarized, not to say they weren't, but is probably a good idea....See MoreIt's a while....SS Update and Question
Comments (11)Lonepiper, this is the SS that didnt seem to want to do anything. And still doesnt. One of the reasons I find this forum so incredibly helpful is because I can "tell it like it is" in a way I could NEVER do with anyone else, even DH. I appreciate the candid feedback and really learn from it. Thank you. So, SS1 spent this past weekend with us. DH asked him what his overall GPA was, and SS1 responsed that its a 3.0. Then DH asked how that could be since he had far worse grades than that. He said "In High School, that's what they told me I had". Dh explained "you aren't in HS anymore. you are in college. Your HS GPA doesnt count anymore." SS1 looked surprised. DH explained to him that falling below a 2.0 results in academic probation at his college. It also jeopardizes his ability to take student loans, get into the Department he wants, be a "Resident Assistant" in the dorm (requires above 3.0) and basically most other things. The biggest thing is that it means he might not get housing second year. DH had a very serious talk with him about taking some ownership for his future. He just sits and listens and never responds. If you ask him, he says he understands, but other than that there is no indication he gets it. His colleagues at his summer job last year nicknamed him "serial killer" because after months, they couldn't figure him out. I almost died when he came home and told us that. He told us that very matter of factly. I asked him if he understood why, and he didn't. I explained it meant that they see you as someone that they cant figure out, so you could be anything, even a serial killer. I think that this nickname is a HUGE red flag. I tried to get DH to see it that way and he said I was overreacting. I asked him if he hangs out with anyone at college, and to tell me about them. He said he doesn't. He said he sleeps most of the time when he isnt studying or in class. He hasn't gone to a meal, a game, or anything with one other person, with the exception of his roomates who he apparently ate with once. I had a long talk with my mother about it yesterday and she has thought for a long time he might be clinically depressed. his HS teachers referred to him as "aloof". What I don't get is why he hasn't ever been evaluated or why any type of intervention hasn't taken place. Problem for him is: he is good looking and appears normal and kind. He smiles and makes eye contact. He has squeaked by with below average grades. He hasn't ever participated in one sport, club, or other extracurricular activity. He has literally flown under the radar in a way that basically got him unnoticed. My mother and I have speculated about everything from sexual abuse to aspergers syndrome. We know something is going on, just can't put our finger on it. BM and DH dont seem all that concerned....if it were up to me, he would have had a complete physical and psychological work up. As I'm not the parent, I really dont have a lot to say, especially because it has become a "sensitive subject" between myself and DH. He is coming to terms that things might not be as he thought. I feel bad for him, and am here to assist when he needs me....See More- 9 years ago
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