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Comments (4)I don't have Tramontina Tri-Ply Clad Cookware. I am only guessing. Any container, as long as there is water in it, the temperature will not go beyond water boiling point (normal atmospheric pressure). That's why you can actually boil water with a paper container. However, do go with the Manufacturer's recommendations. My "tip" for clad cookware is when you are cooking on a stove, over heating the pot and you can delaminate the cladding or cause the metal to warp. Aluminum and S Steel have different thermal expansion coefficient. dcarch...See MoreVacation question- going by myself to bring SS's or not
Comments (21)I was going to agree that you don't have to take the stepchildren with you on vacation, however, when I read that they live with you full time I changed my mind! I can see spending one-on-one time with the children individually, but I can't see taking only your children on vacation when you are the de facto mother to them (given the fact they only see their mother every other Friday and she returns them on Saturday - which is almost the same situation that I have). I would be okay with telling the older boys that they most likely wouldn't enjoy Disney and just taking the younger three, however, I would probably make an effort to do something special with the older two (not necessarily costly, just something special to them). I think segregating them by age given the nature of the vacation would be okay, but segregating them as "you're not mine" would be hurtful since you ARE their full time mom (even though you may not always feel like it!!!). I think my stepdaughters would be very hurt knowing I was excluding them just because I didn't give birth to them. Did that make any sense?...See MoreHow do your forget?
Comments (11)Bonjour Sunnygardener, I was wondering where you were lately considering I hadn't seen any of your posts or replies to posts. I am glad to see you still come here. Sunnygardener, i know so much how you feel. We have commented on each others posts. This is what i have to say. I once heard that you do not have to love everybody you meet during your lifetime. You really, really, really don't! I know you feel like you have been kind and generous towards these stepchildren and still they still treat you like crap when they feel like it. Inconsiderate, rude, selfish, etc. etc. etc. I know you have alot of resentment towards these stepchildren and when we do have these feelings towards people, it hurts us. It's not fun. However, i suggest you talk to DH about your feelings ( talk just a little bit at a time, otherwise its going to become a big verbal argument. I know. Been there with DH. His kids can DO NO WRONG). This time however, don't ask DH how he feels about your feelings, etc. No. Just tell him how you feel, that it is very hard for you to accept what his son did. It was totally disrespectful and you are not going to pretend no more that it didn't bother you. You will be polite towards this young non intellingent careless man, but nothing more. That's it! That's all. Don't even make a bit story out of all this. Instead, show your DH you have made up your mind on this issue and that's that! When stepson comes along next time, say Hi, don't ask how things a re going, don't ask him a single thing. Nothing. Don't even ask him to have a seat. I know, i know it will be hard to do cuz i did it mayself with my oldest SD and believe me I was really unconfortable not being nicer towards her, not being there for her, not being all in a good mood when I saw her. Believe me it is a hard thing to do but once you do it, you will go to your room and you will give yourself a tap on the shoulder plus a super big hug and you will tell myself : i am so nice to myself, i love myself, luv luv luv. Nobody needs to treat me like crap. Nobody. Believe it or not, after I did this to my SD and i did it a couple of times, that is, I didn't inquire how things were going with her, I didn't respond to her silly remarks, I didn't invite her to have a seat, etc.etc. she called me for the first time in 18 years wishing me a Happy Mother's DAy. I thought maybe i should start being nicer to her. Then i decided NOPE. She has been making me sad for 18 years. Why should i start or continue being really nice to her when the day of her wedding she never gave me a corsage to wear (by that time i had been in her life for 14 years straight), she never, never thanked me for the wedding gift her father and I gave her ( she thanked her father, but not me!! Hubby was too ignorant to tell her she should have thanked me also. I haven't forgotten this event yet!). It has been three years in a row that she comes to our home on christmas day without even a simple xmas card to give us!! So, from now on, please, everytime this ugly feeling creeps up in your heart in regards to this stepson or stepdaughter, stop and breathe and remember you don't owe these people a single thing. My stepson with whom i've had a great relationship for years and years, has started to be really ignorant towards me in the last couple of years. That is, he doesn't call on my birthday, doesn't bother to shop for me at xmas, never calls to say hi. Now he is gone in the armed forces. I don't have an email for him nor do i have a phone number where i can reach him. I think of him alot and last night i almost called his sister to get the information, but then i stopped and i told myself. He knows where i live and with who i live! If he wants to talk to me, he can call! Boy do i love myself hihihiih! Keep posting!...See MoreKA SS cooktop owners... cleaning question...
Comments (1)I don't have stainless, but have the ceramic top in which stuff gets stuck quite well. The only safe product I've found that won't scratch or dull the finish is Shaklee Scour off. It's great for the environment, easy on you and works on everything. I use it on my cast iron pots, exterior cooking marks on stainless steel pots come right off, and I've even cleaned old rust stains off my cast iron bathtub without scratching the finish. It got most of the stains off my stainless steel BBQ as well. When I bought my used stove, the PO's gave me a tub of it to use. I was very impressed with it, that I bought a bunch of tubs and gave it to all my friends! Here is a link that might be useful: Scour off...See More- 10 years ago
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