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Comments (70)I don't post as much as I used to, but often bypass a thread if it doesn't interest me, or if I'm pretty sure the OP is not going to like what I think of their project. I do, however, sometimes feel obligated to post if I see a poster getting a lot of responses that are giving them "bad advice", taking into account that the quality of a design is subjective up to a point. When neither the poster nor the responder have a clue, it makes me cringe. Think of all of the lurkers who may be reading threads where posters are congratulating each other on really ugly landscaping. I feel that if someone doesn't step up and try to steer the OP in the right direction, the quality of the forum will be affected. If this was a technical forum, like computers or cars or something, no one would be offended if one of the pros or more experienced members corrected someone and kept them from losing their hard drive or blowing up their engine. No one would be offended if asked to supply the make/model and year of their car, or which OS their computer uses. The problem is that bringing someone up to speed on landscape design is not nearly as easy as explaining how to change your oil or water pump or clean up a hard drive. This is why it is so important for the poster to do some homework and at least learn which questions they need to ask. And why I often direct them to the newbie forum or suggest they get some books from the library and start over....See MoreLong circle (1/2 mile) drive suggestions Zone 8, Ga, US
Comments (10)Thanks so much for all your wonderful suggestions. The soil is a sandy loam, not sand hills. It is a bit on the alkaline side as with much of the soil in our area needing a ton or so of lime every few years to maintain a good agricultural balance, so, should do well for the acid loving plants. Thank goodness the deer don't seem to like our roses and azaleas so far. They have not generally been a problem in our area. Of course, one never knows, they may very well take a liking to the roses and azaleas. We have quite a few wild muscadines and while the deer to love them, It would appear to me that we have plenty of wild ones that it won't be too bad sharing some cultivated ones as well. With the fruiting trees, they would really be more for the deer than for humans. Our consumption needs are very light but we do really love watching the deer and turkeys. BTW, I'm not so much seeking free advice as simply open discussion. I know the landscapers in our area (very limited) and I know their plant selections well. Mine tend to be a bit more diverse than theirs. Most of our landscapers, all 2 or 3 of them, tend to use primarily the old evergreen stuff. Not exactly to my liking. I am familiar with the problems associated with Bradford Pears and have seem some of them locally. However, the wife wants some so it is likely she will win that one. I will have to give the evergreen tree business some thought. Notice from the photos that the southern and western boundaries are Pine Tree plantations. We live in the heart of pine plantations. If I choose an evergreen, it will have to be something like leyland cypress (we have already planted several cypress on the north side of the pond) or maybe a different type pine. An uncle about 2 miles away has some which have a more northern or mountain look which have trived. I believe they are white pine, will have to check more into that. Again, with respect to the deer, I have lived in the area 50 years and they don't seem too partial to the roses, azaleas or camellias in our area. Who knows, they may wind up liking ours but if they do, we'll probably enjoy watching the deer. I like man of johnofsedona's suggestions and will continue to think about plant selection and group composition. As for as my goals, I like the varying heights, different forms and flowers for all the seasons. I like the varied island look. There are a few homes in the area which have similarly long drives with limited islands and there are ones which have long drives lined with pears or other plant material. I prefer the islands. I suspect we will include different varieties of naturalized daffodils as time goes on. We MAY also add wildflowers but probably not as we prefer a little more "clean" and organized look for the drive. We WILL have a wildflower meadow, probably near the pond on the north and east area there. I'll do some more thinking this weekend. Thanks for your contributions. The pictures in the link above should give you some idea to our tastes and the area. Sincerely, Joel...See MoreA question about long trips with a baby...please help
Comments (1)I did my traveling when my child was younger and older than what your baby is right now. A lot depends on how your baby behaves, personality wise. If he's a quiet easygoing baby you will probably have a great time. If he is a little more needy you may find that it is more work than fun. It also depends on how much fun you have with the people you are going with. It probably would be nice to have two cars. That way if people need a break from each other during the trip they can have it. Also, once you get to your destination both families will have the freedom to do and go as they please. All I can tell you for sure is that taking a vacation with a baby is not like taking a vacation without one. A baby is work and on this vacation you will be taking your work with you. Try to have a positive outlook, be flexable, don't expect this vacation to be like any other you've taken before and keep your sense of humor....See MoreAnyone Doing a Long Distance Build?
Comments (9)I did a distance build; I tried coming up 2 or 3 times a month, but the I compounded the distance thing with a compound fractured broken ankle, which kept me out of the loop for 4 months. I did have one construction savvy future neighbor drop by on occasion, and I made the GC send photos. Although I really had a hard time getting him to get past the generic shots to take pics of how things were intricately constructed! I did get back before drywall went up, so I could photograph wiring and plumbing. I'm glad I kept a eye on things as well as I could... at one point he went back to an earlier draft that I'd rejected one aspect of immediately - had it been used and completed as such, it meant I would have had to float the bed in the master, due to he/the draftsman had sited the closets!! (Either that, or block windows...or use a twin bed...) Ideal of course is to be on hand as often as possible. Even then, though, things happen....See MoreUser
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