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Making requests of physicians w/o antagonizing them

11 years ago

We take a male elderly relative to a Dr who is well known and well regarded. Patient is in generally good health but lately his BP has spiked and Dr has adjusted meds and ordered follow-up visits to see if adjustsments are working. His strategy seems logical but what is bothering me is that on the last two follow up visits, his first question was: "And what are you here for today?" Nice and cordial but I didn't like it at all that he didn't know. Can he not take 30 seconds to look at the file and see why patient is there? If he didn't now why he was there, how can I feel reassured that his strategy is the right one? And that is what I want to ask him, why he didn't know and to give me reassurance that he is paying attention. Will I pi@@ him off? Don't want to do that. Your suggestions as to how to get him to give the patient I believe he deserves will be greatly appreciated.

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