Elderly dog: How do you know when it's time?
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Comments (1)If they get too crowded, they can start to affect each other as they compete for nutrients and water. If you have asiatic lilies which are 4 years without being transplanted, this would be a good time. If you have orientals, you can even let them stay a few years more....See MoreHELP!! When do you know it's time???
Comments (21)Petra, I am truly sorry your cat is suffering. I miss my cat from 15 years ago. I can never have another I miss him so much. Just thinking about him makes me tear up. I can feel the pain in your post. So very sad for you. A practical thought as your proceed would be to ask the vet. "IS she suffering?" The reason I ask this is one of our dogs, about 4 years ago was gravely ill. Death bed ill. She could not stand for 4 seconds. She was young (4 yrs) and we discovered she had a rare disease effecting her immune system. Long story short. She was not in pain. The vet told us she would not live through the weekend but was not in any kind of pain. Her body was deteriorating and she would die peacefully. We cried our eyes out and planned for her funeral. We took her home and hugged her and slept next to her. Days went by and she began to look better. Now she could sit up, walk about, use the bathroom outside, she could even eat a bit of her food... Two weeks later we brought her back to the vet and discovered she kicked this illness. The Vet as SHOCKED. They even contacted the State University to send samples of her blood work. Everyone was amazed that she had not died. She will always have a comprimised immune system but is still with us years later. She leads a simple life. She naps about 20 hours a day, is not in any pain and is still a wonderful part of our lives. However, if she had been in pain, I could not keep her alive for my comfort. It is horrifically painful to have to say good bye to a close friend/pet but keeping them alive so we won't miss them is not the answer. I hope your cat is not suffering and that she can live a simple life with you. Only the vet can truly advise you on what is going on medically and how she might be handling issues related to her boyd. The fact she is purring is a good sign. This means she is tolerating her discomfort and that she may be happy to live a simple life with you. Animals take pain very differently than humans. What might drive a human nuts would be a mild annoyance to a dog or cat or wild aninmal. The key is her pain factor. If she is not uncomfortable and just weak. She might have a lovely life with you but be more of a napper or quiet little lady watching from a kitty bed or sofa. Whatever happens, and this will be hard, you must remember you have given her a wonderful life and that her future will the best possible life you can provide for her. Just reading all that you do, I am amazed how truly lucky she is to have you. please know you are not alone. sharing our lives with animals is the greatest gift we can give ourselves. We never forget...See MoreStoic dog - how to tell when it's time?
Comments (11)pierreone, sorry to hear about your big guy. Earlier this year, I had to put down my companion of 15 years. It is hard, and I hate to disagree with your vet, but your dog may not tell you when it's time. What I did was decide that when Hoover failed to enjoy his three favorite things, eating, walking and bossing around my other dog, that would mean it was time. But what ended up happening is that I had a friend visit who had not seen Hoover for several months. She could not even bear to look at him, because she had only known him healthy and happy. He never gave up any of his three things. But he was emaciated (which I had never noticed) and his walk was painful (for my friend) to watch, although I had never noticed it myself. She said, almost angrily, "How can you say he is not in pain?!" So, I knew it was time. I thought about it for 24 hours and then made the hard decision.It's very hard to be objective with your own pet, but looking back, I realize that my dog was in alot more pain than I was willing to admit, or that my dog was willing to show. Maybe you have a close friend or family member that could be more objective than you and help you see your dog more clearly. With my own dog, I was thinking with my heart, but my friend helped me think with my head. That's probably the kind of help you need right now. Good luck with your situation! This is never easy, by any means....See MoreHow do you know when it is time to put your dog down? :(
Comments (57)Much better news that the update I was expecting when I opened this. UTIs can be really bad and a bit tricky to doagnose in pets as well as people (young or old) with limited communication. Glad to know it's good news and she's doing better....See Morebeaglesdoitbetter
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