Step-grandkids
Beverly Hills
8 years ago
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Comments (17)How wonderful! I love them all!! They've done such beautiful jobs on their masterpieces. I got my son to make some small mosaics a few months ago (he just turned 3 last week) he did them on the MDF circles and a heart and he covered them in glass nuggets and he absolutely had a ball, he was so proud of himself. As I was looking at your pics and I remembered the fun my son had I could fully imagine how much fun your grandkids had. Good on you for sharing such a wonderful experience with them. (((hugs))) Tracey...See MoreWWYD Friendship advise
Comments (47)"So, when I return a call to them I do so when husband and I are on the way somewhere in the car so I have an excuse thatâÂÂs paid attention too when I want to end the conversation." Can't remember which poster wrote this, but it drives me nuts when people call me with their SO in the car. I don't want a 3 conversation. I would rather not talk if that is the way someone feels about speaking with me. My BIL gave me a good piece of advice about a similar situation. He lives out west, and of course, with men, these friendship, relationship dynamic-type things seem to be very cut & dry. "If 10 people say it's a horse, it's a horse", Glib, I know, but it is clear that your friend isn't responding to your friendship needs in a way that is good for you. Super red flag with the DH. I have a similar family member who has pretty much cut themselves off from every family member due to the SO in their life. Not sure if the SO is insecure, we're still trying to figure out what the story is. Your friend will need you at some point. It is up to you whether or not you want to be there considering her less that exemplary behavior while you were recooperating. Ugh, I don't think email is the proper forum to air your concerns. Voicing your unhappiness isn't going to change much (IMO). Whether your friend is being influenced or limited by her SO, she is ultimately responsible for the behavior. Really, let's be honest, she's an adult. No, I would let it play out. If she has too much goin on and doesn't keep in touch, then perhaps you need to move on to better friendships. Keep the door open, but I wouldn't hold out too much hope that anything will change until the SO changes. So sad for you. I hope you have other good girlfriends to count on....See MoreBad behavior with step-grandkids...no discipline
Comments (3)I think I'd resent "you aren't welcome at my house", no reason given, much more than "I can't stand the screaming, please go away & leave me to my aspirin". This has been going on for 3 years, doesn't sound like it's getting better or showing promise of *ever* getting better. Maybe a little fresh air & sunshine (letting the happy couple know that their daughter's behavior is ruining family get-togethers) are called for. If for no other reason, please talk to them for the little girl's sake; she won't be at home forever, & her behavior will make her very unlikeable at school/church/everywhere, which will make her miserable indeed. I wish you the best....See Moredo you have a nickname?
Comments (12)In the 60's in the Bay Area it was common for people to have nicknames. I was given mine when I was around 12 but it followed me into the era. So much so that I would be recognized in certain circles where ever I went. Once even when I was visiting in Hawaii. It was like having a passport. Opened a lot of doors. Got me into places like concerts etc. More than once I'd overhear people talking about me. Once a person asked me if I knew me. LOL Pure poppycock and I found it quite amusing that my reputation was so much bigger than I was. LOL I gave up the nick around the time I met DH. Very few people are alive today that know it and I keep it that way. Interestingly it is a very common nick today but during that era it was mine....See Moreblueheron
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