Possums are ruining my life!
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Comments (20)From possumrehabber: "being a gardening forum, i understand the concerns of wildlife/strays destroy lawn and gardens. i want to assure you that the opossum is not only a non-threatening creature, but most beneficial. without the opossum, we would be overrun by bugs, rodents, disease caused by many creatures that litter our roads. these little wonders have earned the name of "little sanitation workers". unlike skunk, raccoon, etc- they don't dig up your yard and garden. they dont raid your veggies like the cottontails. actually they prefer the rotten fruits/veggies that drop to the ground drawing the harmful insects you work hard to prevent. they eat and are immune to black widow, brown recluses, rattlesnakes, etc. they are non-aggressive; the nasty display you witness is mostly bluff and their only line of defense (along w/ playing possum). this is not to say that if you approached one and stuck your hand in his face that he wouldn't bite; he probably would, but i'm guessing you would too. these animals are not destructive to property, pets, etc. THEY HAVE FAR LESS disease than other wildlife (including birds), and or stray unvaccinated cats/dogs (both of which cause more injuries/illness).they do not contract distemper, parvo,and rabies is EXTREMELY rare. dispite popular belief; they are very clean, are not stupid (i myself have found them smarter than dogs in many areas)." Here is a link that might be useful: Posted by: possumrehabber AL (My Page) on Wed, May 12, 04 at 8:49...See MoreFree at last! (Update from My 18 year old SS is ruining my....)
Comments (1)Stepup: The normal human tendency is to blame someone else for our misfortune. If it is not about the rain, then it is about the sun. I am sure I have been there before, perhaps you have too. Enlightment and the path to happiness are when we realize that we can only control what we have control and let go of what we don't. Your SS is trying to set you up in triangulation between his father, you and him. The best is to avoid that situation. Just let your H deal with his own son in terms of discipline and such. But destruction of your property should not be tolerated and dealt w by the police. I hope your SS will only be invited back for a thanksgiving meal or christmad but that is about it. He should not be welcomed back to live....See MoreDesperate for advice. BF has 50% custody, it's ruining my life!!
Comments (10)It is your house honey. Either he and his brats follow your rules or they need to get out and go to grandmas. That x box you keep talking about would be gone. If dad's not there they don't need to be at your house and if he and their mother can't get it together and raise their children properly tell him that they are NOT welcome there at all. Because it is clear they are not. There is no reason to keep tolerating this enormous intrusion. It is not good for any of the parties involved. Those children know you don't like them. If grandma is so in love with them she can deal with them. On that note. ..this is partly your doing. You left your husband for a loser. A loser with the worst kind of baggage. ..brats. He will always put his kids before you as he should. I don't know the state of your marriage so I wont speculate on your reasons. However you knew of this baggage before you got yourself into this mess and you got it in anyway. And having children yourself, you clearly know where babies come from and now have allowed yourself to get pregnant by a loser mama's boy. Now you're kinda stuck. You are having his brats half sibling. You are stuck dealing with him for the foreseeable future. I feel for you. My suggestion: lose the loser. Move on. Take it from me...this will NOT change. I know it's hard to do this. It is only going to be harder now that you are having his child. But it's time to pull up the big girl panties and do what's best for you and YOUR children. YOU can't stand them YOUR KIDS can't stand them. THEY know it and probably feel the same. Trust me, after a while you will kick yourself for putting with it for as long as you did. Good luck....See MoreSo many possums...so few possum recipes
Comments (16)Raven, I have seen possums with horrific wounds heal right up, and I have seen perfectly healthy looking ones drop dead over night. They are strange creatures. They grow their entire lives...which are very short....good, I suppose. ;) Then if they continue to grow...like if they are kept as pets, they almost always die from congestive heart failure. I have never kept one as a pet, although I have been tempted because some of them are incredibly sweet. I had one named Praline, and she was so sweet and cuddly. They are very primitive animals and they don't usually do well as pets. If you pet them, they think you are a predator....so they really don't enjoy it. There are groups on FB for people with pet possums and they love them to the point that almost defies description but those possums are handled every day so they are more tolerant of being a pet. The ones I raise don't get handled....partly because I don't have the time and I am not trying to make them pets...and they will bite the dickens out of me every chance they get. Now a totally wild possum, will almost never bite unless it has been stressed out or is injured. They show defensive behaviors, like opening their mouths and hissing but they won't bite. I can scoop them up like a house cat, just by putting my hand under their belly. I never pick them up by their tail...like most people...even rehabbers...do. The second possum I ever raised....before I got into it on such a large scale....was a tiny baby and she slept with me, in the sleeve of my nightgown. I am a very light sleeper, so I didn't roll over on her. They don't potty on you, because as a pouch animal, the pouch must be kept clean, and so the mother possum controls when they have to potty. She stayed with me for five months, but then she wanted to go, and I let her, although she came back for several months. Always tame and would ride on my shoulder while I went around looking for something to feed her. That was Shirley. Possums are incredibly clean animals....someone said, "Ugh! They eat dead cows!!" I said, "So do I."...See More- 11 years ago
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