Don't know why my split rock died
Maddi Smith
8 years ago
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Comments (10)Beautiful pictures, Terriks! Is that Mt. Shasta in the background? When we Amtrak up to visit the children, in the PacNorthwest, the train winds slowly around the base of Shasta and then heads into the Cascades, where we are surrounded by the most wonderful forests as we gradually rumble along. On our first trip up, we swung off the I-5 and drove to Grant's Pass, where we had lunch in a restaurant at the edge of the Rogue River. You are so fortunate to live in the area - it's lovely. Who knew? What I should have done a long time ago: have osteoarthritis and had tremendous pain in my lower back and left leg, finally could hardly walk, this escalated over the years, finally went whimpering to my doc a few months ago, said "give me something other than a cortisone shot". He sent me to a sports medicine clinic for physical therapy, I was very dubious. Long story short, my trainer taught me exercises on the floor and with a stability ball, and got me on a recumbent stationary bike (since I cannot do treadmill and regular bike). Now am continuing to work out every day at home and awaiting a on-order recumbent bike for our home; meanwhile the pain has been dramatically reduced, I am slowly increasing my walking distance, decades-long knee pain is GONE, and my weight is coming down. Talk about Who Knew? Slapping my head that I didn't do this years ago!...See MoreDon't know why I am so very sad
Comments (5)Thanks for your response, Sweeby. That is a very interesting point about whether the relationship was good or not. Generally, I think you are right about that. Odd, one would think the better relationship would be more sorrowfully mourned. But one also mourns the lost opportunities. No, there is no unfinished business. I did everything I could have done to try to save that marriage. And I negotiated with him much longer than I had to in order to arrange issues with the children. There is nothing more I could have done. He has gone on with his life and so have I. As it turns out, he is o.k. There was surgery which showed that there was no malignancy after all. The growths on his spine were removed and with therapy he should recover. I am glad about that. But I am puzzled by how emotional my sadness felt. My relief doesn't feel that way at all. There are just a lot of practical reasons that it's good he will still be around. It is very strange not to understand why I feel the way I do. I'm just glad the crisis is over....See MoreHelp! Leaves off these guys are shriveling up and I don’t know why
Comments (12)OK, thx, sorry I haven't any suggestions as I don't grow under lights. As to when to water, around here it's often suggested to use a wooden stick, or dowel, wooden chopstick to test for moisture, perhaps in those pots even a pencil will do. One sticks pencil / dowel all the way to bottom of the soil, waits a moment & then lifts pencil out & examines it. If it has soil clinging to it, there's still some moisture there, wait another day or 2 & check it again. When the pencil comes out clean & dry, then it's OK to water. After a while, you may be able to tell from the weight of the pot in your hand when wet, vs. when dry....See MoreHelp! My avocado tree is dying and I don't know why! :(
Comments (4)did you dampen the cactus mix before planting in it??? ... so that all the roots are touching moist but not wet media???? your best bet is probably to start a new one .... and leave this one alone.. and see what happens to it ... it either lives or dies ... but continuing to stress it.. with more an more remedies .. might not be best ... its extremely stressed ... and its not hungry.. so fert isnt going to do anything with it ... anyway.. time for some guacy .... and a new pit ... its your tree ... not a baby ... be happy you got a few years out it.. and move on.. emotionally ... it really is a full sun outdoor plant ... and no matter what you do.. it isnt going to be a long term indoor plant ... some peeps might get away with it ... but many dont ... ken...See MoreBen was 10a/26, now 7a/34
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