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17 years ago

First I would like to thank everyone for all your kind words and advice.

I wanted to let you know what I did and how it turned out. To answer some of your questions, yes they knew I had just had a hysterectomy after years of struggling to get pregnant. We have been there throughout the last three pregnancies with this family. I was the one that threw her the big baby shower when she was pregnant the first time.

Anyway, I called her the next night after I got home from work and explained that we were caught off guard with the ultrasound pics and the video and we are still just so heartbroken and it was too difficult for me to be there at that time.

During the last two pregnancies even though it was hard because I so badly wanted a baby I just thought in the back of my mind that some day it would be us that would be excited and sharing our good news. I went to doctorÂs apt. with her and felt the babies move and even helped decorate the nursery.

I explained that this time it's different for me. There won't be a someday for us and it's just really hard. I explained that we loved their little boys and were excited to meet the third but to please be patient and understanding.

I don't think she really even thought anything of it because we have been so involved with her other two little boys. She felt horrible and apologized all over herself.

I feel better getting if off my chest and this way I don't have to go through this again at least with her!

Again thank you for all your help and for being so kind!!

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