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lydia1959

Need a comeback for my snobbish Brother

17 years ago

Everytime (and I do mean EVERYTIME) I get together with my brother he has to make a comment on how much smarter, well behaved, etc., etc. that kids who go to Catholic school are as opposed to public school. He has 3 kids who go to Catholic school, mine atended public school (in college now and has made the Dean's List each semester). SIL's neices and nephews all went to public school as well and like most kids, some of them have got into trouble. My brother and I went to public school as well as my brother's wife. My brother didn't even become a Catholic until he married her 20 years ago.

A few months ago, he made a couple comments including one about how he wished his boys would date "nice Catholic girls" instead of "the ones from public school" and he made another remark which I forget now.. but I got into a big arguement with him and called him a snob.

I've been trying to avoid getting into a fight with him for the sake of my parents, but it is just hard to overlook his stupid comments. He says these things in front of the kids too.

Any ideas of what I could say to him?

(Please don't make this a religious thread.)

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