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Friends from the past

14 years ago

I received a Christmas card from a friend that I haven't seen in 20 years. We were both PICU nurses in Madison at the UW, then she moved to California with her family but is now back in Madison. She wrote me a letter included in the card that her DH was killed in a car accident in January. They have 3 children, the oldest two in grad school and college, and the youngest a freshmen in high school.

Then another friend has been calling us for about a month, and we've been playing phone tag. She was also a nurse I used to work with in Madison and haven't seen them for 20 years. DH finally talked to her husband, and turns out he had a major stroke last year, survived (obviously) but still has problems with talking and walking. They also have three kids, the youngest a freshman in high school.

I feel so, so badly for these families. I also feel badly that I let these relationships slide because my life got too busy. Hopefully I can somewhat rectify that, and reach out to those who remain. Sometimes life's lessons are hard.

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