Would you dump this friend?
petra_gw
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Comments (2)That's lovely, thanks. I'll send my friend the link....See MoreDump cakes, dump dinners? Just saw an ad
Comments (18)I get where KSWL is coming from (at least I think so). I'm not big on cake mixes either. A good made-from-scratch cake is hard to beat. But there are "dump cake" (I hate that name) type cakes that are not made from mixes. Kind of like an Apple Betty or a fruit crisp. I've made one that is quite good - no cake mix, you make the topping from scratch. Oats are a good addition - as are pecans (as someone mentioned above). Fresh fruit is also used - not canned pie filling. So much better and by using your own recipe instead of a cake mix and canned pie filling, you can control the fat and sugar content (at least somewhat). tina...See MoreIf you knew a friend was cheating would you tell?
Comments (18)My friend confessed to me that she was having an affair. I kept quiet for a year. Everytime we got together she would be pissed off when I told her the guy she is cheating with is a liar. He is married and manipulates her everytime. I have seen her cry of desperation, do crazy stuff and yet she lies to her husband which is my good friend all the time. Sometimes she even uses me to cover her late nights or else. I know the guy she is cheating with superficially. I have made clear to her that I dont like him and I don't approve what she is doing. My girlfriend says that she loves this guy. So I told her if you love him then let your husband free so he can find his own happiness. She is been lying for over 3 years now. Recently he called me up to ask me for a Divorce Lawyer, when he called me he was so pissed because she was seen with this dude by his friends. When he asked me questions for more I wanted to, I couldn't lie. I don't condone dishonesty, especially when you have had thousand of opportunities to come clean. To make this short, she is a good girl just lost, he is a good guy but he can't seem to get her attracted to him anymore. He confronted her and the bomb was out. She of course hates me because I did tell. I am not a kiss and tell person but if someone comes to me asking for questions you better believe I will give answers. If I was in his situation, I would be very very hurt that not only my spouse was cheating but also my friends were aware, so humiliating! Truth is not for everybody and some people would rather die with a secret than to face an ugly situation. I have cheated before and I have been cheated on too. I know by personal experience that nothing is more satisfying that knowing you are true, you are honest and people make life choices. I feel sad I lost her and I would do anything to have protected her if this was good for her, but that other m@#$%^ Fu^&*( lied to her, used her. Friends help each other but also speak with the truth. That's my 20 cents. PS. If you do something, whatever that might be, there will be consequences. Good Luck to you all!...See MoreRecipe help for a friend, any ideas would be great.
Comments (9)The almighty hamburger (or sausage or a mix) can be a real lifesaver at times. Hamburgers, meatloaf, sloppy joes, spaghetti, chili, hamburger soup, doctor up canned soups, tater tot hotdish, macaroni hotdish, tacos, burritos, etc. Don't discount what sounds more complicated but is real easy like a pot roast. Put it in a dutch oven, an electric roaster, slow cooker or whatever along with potatoes, onions and let it go slow all day. Smells great, is pretty foolproof and is a gourmet meal in my book. Sometimes I'll roast potatoes with a meatloaf too. Other things are a chef's salad. How easy! Remind him that "breakfast for supper" is fine too. Eggs & favorite meat with toast, pancakes, maybe with fresh fruit on them. French toast or waffles. I'm sure he has a busy day and there's going to be times he just won't feel much like cooking. Let him know it's OK to keep a Stouffer's Lasagna or a frozen pizza or two in the freezer. The kids are old enough to cook some too. Even making a peanut butter sandwich, chips, veggie sticks and fresh fruit can be done and is fine. They can cook pasta and the like, with proper supervision. See if you can find some shows like How to Boil Water and the like at the library and let him watch those. It can be some family entertainment too and they can learn the basics. Other things off the top of my head are a simple baked potato topped with chili. Soup, stew, chili, casseroles/hotdishes. The biggest challenge is to get over the fear of cooking. The second biggest challenge is to think end result and not dwell on the details. Sometimes the simplest meal enjoyed with good friends is far better than a fancy meal when depressed. I thought I'd contribut more of ideas and techniques rather than a specific recipe. One other thought: Maybe some suggestions and help on meal planning. Cook once, eat twice (or more) and things like that. Brown up hamburger and you have the start for sloppy joes one night, tacos another night, spaghetti another night, tater tot hot dish another night and even more, depending on how much you make, plus there's just the grease cleanup only one time. My best to them. What a nightmare it must be for them. I know that often you just don't feel like eating either. That's why the simple things and hey, there's nothing wrong with picking up some deli chicken or deli meats & salads occasionally too! And you're a very thoughtful person for thinking of them and trying to help out like this....See Moresusie53_gw
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