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16 years ago

After reading this article from the New York Times I've decided that surrogacy has gone crazy. I'm not one for lots of regulation, but I think something has to be done about this.

Part of the article describes a 62-year-old single man (with poor hygiene, judging from how he's described), who hired a surrogate to produce a baby for him using donated eggs and sperm. He ended up with twin girls. When he visited them in the neonatal unit of the hospital, the nurses were concerned because a) he brought his pet bird to the hospital with him, and b) he had bird poop on his clothes. Other people had other concerns about his ability to properly care for these little girls.

Of course, someone could make the argument that people who make babies in the usual way aren't regulated, even though many of them are utterly unfit to be parents. I can't argue with that. So I'm not saying I have the solution; I'm just beginning to recognize the problem.

The article is long, but interesting. It tells of a couple who hired an egg donor, a sperm donor, and a surrogate to produce a child for them. The baby turned out to be twins, a boy and a girl. The surrogate who gave birth has four children of her own, and gave birth to three previous babies as a surrogate. Those births were uneventful. But this one wasn't.

Shortly after the twins were born, the surrogate learned that the adoptive mother had a history of mental illness. The surrogate did not want to have to live with the possibility that the woman might stop taking her medication, or in some other way put the babies at risk. So even though they are biologically unrelated to her, she was able to keep them.

If you do read the article, the last line is rather a stunner.

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