My fantasy Waterstone - amazingly functional? Or just butt-ugly?
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Comments (29)Oakley, I don't think we know what we are going to want or how we are going to feel until the time gets close. My MIL got nervous when I was away. Everyone told me she would ask for me repeatedly. "When is Golddust coming home?" As her needs became greater, she appreciated a female helping her with dressing, toileting and hygiene. Her sons were clueless. They were loving, willing and wonderful - but totally clueless and uncomfortable. I didn't leave her once in her last three weeks. Her sons would do anything at all, including taking the dogs to the vet, so they didn't have to stay with her alone toward the end. Better make good friends with your DIL. I think your DS will delegate your care to her more than you know. My MIL deeply loved me and appreciated me stepping in when she needed help. She didn't think anyone would be there for her. After caring for three elders until their death, I have no fantasies about old age or the rocky path toward death. It isn't usually pretty and I watched my MILs sons look to me for their Mother's care. They even looked to me for the way they should act around her. I told my MIL that her cancer had returned in front of them. (They thought she shouldn't know, rather than tell her themselves.) They supported me to take care of her and I have a lifetime of points in reserve because of the awesome care she got. If you alienate your DIL, you will also alienate your son. He will chose her over you, as it should be. Your best hope is to make your DIL love you. She will be wiping your butt, not your son. Trust me....See MoreIdentifying the obstacles
Comments (23)I hate unloading the dishwasher because water stands on top of some cups and mugs. I have to dry them before I can store them. I have an idea for yoU! Here's what I do. -I grab the towel BEFORE I open the dishwasher. -Then, I pat the tops of each mug, etc., that has a puddle of water (these tend to be on the top rack) and mop up the standing water. (If I have to pull out the top rack, I do it slowly, so I don't slop the water down the sides, and I do NOT pull out the bottom rack first) -Then, I unload the bottom rack. -Then, I unload the top racks, and the bottoms of the mugs are pretty much dry for evaporation. if they're not completely dry, screw it, I put them away damp. They can finish evaporating in the cupboard. the car is usually DH's territory, simply because he's the fix-it mechanically minded one, and that's his "man" thing. a thought: think of it like the house, Maybe the *furnace* is a "fix-it, 'man'" thing, but the living room rug isn't, nor is the vacuuming. Divide the car up that way. He's in charge of the mechanics; you're in charge of cleanliness and decor. Just throw those old mats and buy new ones pronto. Lilydilly, I thought when I saw your comment about the undersink pipes you hate so much, whether you'd thought about making something that just blocks them from view. (If you've gotten to read post of my going back far enough, you know I leap to solve everything w/ fabric or wood stuff you make yourself.) What if you made a false back for your sink cabinet (paint it, of course, maybe even a fun color), and set it in front of the pipes? You could make it oddly shaped to sort of wrap around whatever's there. OK, maybe you'd have to completely empty the stuff out from under the sink if you ever needed to get into the "guts" there. That might be a pain, esp. if it happens w/ any regularity. If you were *really* creative, you could make it in sections, so you could take out the one section that covers the cut-off valves, or the Insta-Hot settings, without emptying the sink. Of course, you won't see drips as readily, but honestly, w/ the stuff in there, would you see drips anyway? You might be better off getting a leak alarm, like they have for hot-water heaters. If it's wood, you could install hooks or plastic-wrap racks on the false wall. (to install the false wall, install "cleats" on sides and bottom, and put Velcro or steel on them, then Velcro or magnets on the back of the false wall) Another drawback to my wonderful idea: the coverup would take up some space itself. If you're wedging tons of stuff in there, that could be a problem. Another solution: install a full-size shelf across the bottom of the cabinet just below the bottom-most pipe. Get a pullout or drawer (or two, one behind each cabinet door) to go under the shelf (www.shelvesthatslide.com) w/ *full-extension* slides. Then you can put small stuff in the drawer, and bottles or jugs on top of it. (can you paint water pipes, etc.? Maybe not the insta-hot, but... I love to hang stuff (like that cutting board) on the back of the sink-cabinet door. But if that cabinet you moved it to is so close to the sink, I bet that works well. Here is a link that might be useful: Leak Alarm...See MoreWhat did you splurge on?
Comments (48)Hmm, pretty much everything was a splurge - I did a whole house renovation and really needed to completely redo the kitchen and I've never had a great kitchen so I threw caution (and all of my money!) to the wind and got: custom cherry shaker style inset cabinets, including beautiful pantries and terrific inserts also made by my cabinetmaker (double level knife drawer, pull outs for pots, etc) gorgeous PA soapstone counters SZ French door fridge - this one I resisted because I thought, really, I have to get SZ? But like others, I had a relatively small amount of space for the refrigerator and this model has the most interior space for my space. And I love it - produce stays fresh soooo long. Custom Julien SS sinks (one custom because of offset drain) - one 33 x 16 x 8 and one 18 x 18 x 10. Capital range - this one I'm not sure about - the fan that runs to cool off the oven is sooo loud! Do other Capital owners suffer this? And it sometimes starts running before I turn off the range (e.g., yesterday after maybe 30 minutes at 350). My lighting - ok, I have a close friend who is one of, if not the, top lighting designers in the DC metropolitan area who took charge, not only of my lighting but also serving as my right hand/supervisor of builder, etc. She did amazing lighting everywhere and it really shows in the kitchen, where I also installed a gorgeous Hubbardton Forge pendant over the peninsula, terrific under cabinet lighting, and up lighting in my two glass front cabinets. Bosch DW - I know people complain but I have not one complaint. I ended up with the top of the line (at the time) because I wanted the extra space for wineglasses and a panel-ready front (not as many options if you get panel-ready) and I love it. The kitchen - no, the entire house - turned out great. My cabinetmakers were especially great - I used them not only for the kitchen and mudroom but they also made three bathroom vanities for me, plus a full height linen cabinet door for one bath and a built in dresser in the master BR suite opposite the closet. Oh, and they also did the gorgeous fireplace surround I put in after ripping out the (locally quarried years ago) granite fireplace....See MoreClassic Leather vs. American Leather vs. Crate and Barrel (Lee?)
Comments (27)Mrykbee and pandtkendall, thank you for your replies. That's great you found what you wanted on Craig's List. Nothing better than getting what you like at a price you like. Pandtkendall that's great you enjoy your HM sofa and enjoyed working with Duane. Here's to many, many years of enjoyment. I am comfortable buying furniture from a distant company. Thanks for mentioning Duane. I will look him up. I'd love to travel to his store in the near future. I bought a Classic Leather sofa and recliner in 1987 from a company in Southern Pines owned by two fantastic brothers Miller and Cliff Barnes. I never met them and did everything over the phone The furniture has seen heavy use and three large dogs over the years. I love the leather but I'm tired of the style. The sofa still looks good but the recliner is aging. My husband and I used to sit in the recliner together and then our 90 pound dog would climb up on our laps. I took care of the furniture and faithfully cleaned it and moved the cushions around. Maybe around ten years or so I had new insides made for the cushions. The sofa sits right in front of a big window with lots of light. There isn't any sun damage. At some point I tried to kill the furniture using 409 or water and vinegar to clean it but didn't die. (Not cleaning products I'd ever suggest). I have no idea what type of leather but it's soft and indestructible. I realize today's leather will not be as good as the older leather we have but we want our next set to also be leather. Again, thanks for getting back to me.....See MoreRelated Professionals
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