Please, any idea for a magically disappearing door?
plllog
14 years ago
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Any ideas? Advice please!!
Comments (6)I'm not sure I completely agree with what everyone else is saying. If your mother is having short term memory problems then maybe it is not that she is purposefully not telling you things, maybe she just does not remember, and may very well not be able to take care of things or understand enough to ask the right questions, not everyone is medically inclined. And it sounds like she is very lonely as well, don't sound like she has many people that come and see her by the statement your afraid her landlord may find her dead and her have been there for awhile. You live very far away and circumstances prevent you being there much, but it sounds like she does not have many friends etc... that stop by. I wonder if there is not like government apartments there for the elderly where she pays by her income and there are strictly older people in that apartment complex so that she has people to interact with and check on her, that could very well ease your worry and I sense alot of worry beyond the fact you and her don't get along, that does not mean you don't love her. Loneliness breeds depression and I can tell you it makes people terribly bitter. She may be embarrassed by her lack of memory often times even like in the beginning stages of dementia people know they are forgetting it is embarrassing and they lash out at people that bring up the idea and try to help because of embarrassment, slowly letting go of your freedom as you knew it whether it be because of mental or health issues is very hard. She also may be saying you have to come and take care of her at the hotel because "insurance" won't pay because that is her way of saying she misses you and is scared and needs you, she may be very proud and would never come out and just say I need your help because if the doctors say it then she don't have to feel like she is burdening you. You may not get along and I am not sure the circumstances but I know you only have one mom and when she is gone there is no bringing her back. I have the most stubborn sarcastic father that fabricates stories and I could go on and on. But I let him know I love him and I just want him to be my dad first, and my mom had a severe stoke in her early 50's and he takes care of her and there has been alot of riff, so I know where your coming from. I also know the lord says honor your mother and father, and I am trying so hard and I know it's tough. But maybe you and your mom need to discuss the things that have made your relationship go sour, for you and for her, because when she is gone you certainly can never fix it. You guys definately need open communication with her being so far away and not really able to come to you and you not able to move as well. That's just my opinion....See MoreAny magic tricks out there?
Comments (5)Skim coating to smooth a rough concrete surface can be a DIY project. Ardex Feather Finish is a good choice or an equivalent product manufactured under the Henry's, Armstrong or Mapei brand names are a few other good choices for such a product. Just don't use one of those white gypsum based floor fill products. Remember, you want a 'cementious' floor filler that will work to a true feather edge. Come back and ask how that's done if you decide to go that route...or search these archives for expert information or see what Ardex says about installing Feather Finish....See MoreMaking a utility door "disappear"
Comments (7)snookums2, yes - you read my mind! My idea was to make the door look as much like part of the wall as possible, then mount a little shelf/hooks for wallets, keys, purse etc. We're in CA so we don't really have big coats, boots etc to worry about near the door. The storage bench is for our shoes, it keeps them concealed. We do have a coat closet to the right of the utility closet for hanging off season jackets and keeping cleaning items but it is also the "cat bathroom" - 2 giant litter boxes are in there under the sloped part beneath the stairs, and the closet has a curtain instead of door so the cats (and fresh air) and access it. That's another reason the curtain/tapestry idea doesn't work as well for concealing the utility closet - already using a linen curtain on the coat closet/cat bathroom, but I don't have a photo of this wall it's not the most photogenic part of the house :)...See MoreHelp with exterior paint colors and any landscaping ideas please!
Comments (6)I think a medium toned olive would be nice. Too dark, and your roof and house will just blend in together. I would do an warm white trim, not stark white. A rusty red for the front door would really stand out against the olive. Or, consider a warm fall gold color. Be sure you paint the garage door the same color as the house, otherwise the white or off-white massive door will be the focal point. Gate the same as the house color, with the raised panels in the trim color. I would get rid of the overgrown bush to the left of the garage and put a nice planter there instead. I would also think about creating a curved bed that comes from the right side of the house and meanders down to the point where the little sidewalk turns to the front door - right at the point of the angle. That lawn space isn't really useful, but a pretty bed of low plantings and bushes that come up along the front of the house will take the eye to that area of the home, and bring it forward to balance the garage being so far to the front. It is a charming house, and your new colors will really make it feel even more welcoming....See Morelovlilynne
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