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stepmotherhood

A truly foreign experience

20 years ago

Hello, I'm a 33 year-old divorcee dating (and will be married) a man with a 13 year-old son and an 18 year-old son. I don't have any children of my own, and I am really enjoying getting to know to 13 year-old. The 18 year-old is beginning college and is wrapped up in his life so time with him is rare. I find myself very drawn to MB (the 13 year-old), but am trying to remain at a comfortable distance for him. DA (the 18 year-old) has stated that he feels like I am uncomfortable with him, and I am scared that I will do something wrong, which puts us in a catch-22....he feels uncomfortable because I am, and I am uncomfortable because I am afraid that he is. I know this is confusing. I will accept and be grateful for any comments regarding this situation.

Respectfully,

Stepmotherhood

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