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jerseystepmom

Underage Drinking Part II

19 years ago

Ok, so BM had a fit about our pushing the issue of SS coming with us instead of going to her party. We then discussed it with my SS (16 y/o) and he said that he wants to go. So we told him that we fear that their idea of a fun party will involve a lot of alcohol and that we do not want him drinking -- it is unsafe, illegal and bad for his sports (and he leaves 2 days later for a sports trip with some coaches).....so we made him promise us that he will not drink and told him that we will make her promise that he will not drink...and I said "so if she breaks that promise YOU will know it"....and we told him that if we find out he did, there will be serious consequences to him. Short of that, what the heck can we do?! (for those who may not have read my earlier post....she told someone that they will be playing drinking games and have other drinks too....so we KNOW she is planning to serve alcohol)

And, this means that if we call the police -- my SS will be there. I did consider perhaps calling the police and asking them to specifically check to see if that 16 y/o was drinking (because my family member who is cop said that it isn't reasonable to expect that the police would go around the room with breatholizers.....and that they may be "sweet talked" by her that everything is fine and none of the kids are drinking....)

I fear that our hands are tied?!!!! What would you do?!!

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