Can't Seem to Find a Place to Retire
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Comments (35)While many who have never lived anywhere else love the Pacific Northwest, I who lived for fifteen years in Phoenix, hate it. Yes, many plants grow well here but....it rains. It rains and it rains and it rains. You can't go out and garden unless you don't mind being damp and muddy. Spring is especially rainy and then the rain stops July 4th and everything fries. I was born here and I've lived here over twenty years this time but if my husband would move I'd be out of here in a heartbeat. A retired person would have it better than I do though because they could take advantage of nice days during the week that I can't since I work. I have online gardening friends who live in colder climates but have flowers much longer than I do, especially waterlilies. I never get a bloom until July and people with sunnier springs get them in April. What you consider gardening paradise depends on what kinds of plants you want to grow. If you are into tropical then San Diego or Hawaii can't be beat...if you can afford it. If you want a blend then San Francisco or many parts of the South are great. Lilacs and Crepe Myrtles, Agapanthus and Azaleas, Rhododendrons and Gardenias....See Moreretired to most beautiful place on earth....want to go back home!
Comments (17)I think you're doing the right thing in moving home. The joy of being with your grandchildren while they grow up will compensate for "projects." And having lots of social/family contact is even good for your health. You can take "volunteer vacations" where you do good works while traveling - that should help him get some of his projects out of his system. Or what about a woodworking class? I'm not being facetious - my DH and I are building a house next door to my son and his family, and he wanted (and we got) a large lot so he could garden. I know he'll enjoy that as a project and it was a life dream, so I am happy to support him. However, it is the grand baby that is the real motivation, for both of us. Love and people are more important than almost anything else IMHO. FYI, I gave up the fast track on my career to move back home with my family years ago and have never regretted it. I look back now and wonder why I thought it was such a hard decision at the time... Good luck!...See MoreCan't seem to get inspired
Comments (67)mtn, we in the maritimes are REALLY familiar with Japanese tourists' love of Anne of Green Gables. The most adorable national obsession ever. Cute story, we were in Nagasaki last year (BEAUTIFUL place! I had no idea what to expect and I absolutely loved it). We did touristy stuff during the day. At sunset I convinced my husband to stop by a waterfront park to observe locals before getting back aboard. An older lady approached us asking if we were from the ship and where we were from. On hearing Canada she got pretty excited to talk about Anne of Green Gables and concluded by saying that for Japanese, even the older ones, "there's a little bit of Anne in all of us." Fave shots from the park More Nagasaki anecdotes: I was excited to see my first REAL Japanese garden in JAPAN so I dragged husband to this vaunted garden near the ship. Little did I know it was the oldest European-style garden in Japan! Then we spent about 20 minutes looking for the Glover Skyway, which I thought would be a scenic hillside road but was in fact an elevator. So then we followed these signs that said "Mountain Observatory - 400m" (btw there is little English in Nagasaki so we had to get a lot of pointing help from locals) and ended up going up MANY hundreds of stairs to the very top of the nearest mountain. But the path was very cool, going through backyard gardens and a beautiful forest full of informal shinto shrines. So it was worth it even though we both almost died. To make this slightly relevant, your bedding looks kind of Japanese, you could do a sort of upscale japonisme room....See MoreDecorating Paralysis--just can't seem to put it all together
Comments (4)Thank you everyone for all your support and encouragement. We definitely will be enjoying the new dining room for Thanksgiving--only we will be very cramped over the holidays with everyone stuck in the family room. :( I do think the green wall is what is throwing me off. It's more like the first picture. I'm pretty much reconciled to repainting the wall--once everything is in place and I can get some color advice. I was able to get a swatch at RH this evening of the goldenrod striped drape I pictured above and it actually looked nice against both the tan and bone colored walls. DH made it easier as he does not like the red--so better to sneak in color with pillows, rug, etc. The drapes are being discontinued and marked down about 65% per panel which will end up saving me about $1,000 on my drapery budget--and since the roman shades are more than I anticipated, this makes it all the more tempting. I just decided to go for it--as I told DH, if nothing else I could sell it on ebay or return it. One step at a time, I guess....See More- 13 years ago
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