OT - Do you let others cook in your kitchen?
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11 years ago
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Cooking and Baking - do you get this from others?
Comments (28)Like ssommerville, I don't think I've ever gotten anything but very appreciative comments from any man I've cooked for. Women who don't cook themselves are often another story. They pay back-handed compliments like, "Gosh, I can't believe how much time and effort this entailed. Do you cook like this every day?" From the (slightly patronizing) tone of their voices and the (wide-eyed, innocent) look on their faces, it's so easy to tell what they're really thinking... that I must be an airhead, with too much free time on my hands and too few meaningful skills. Sorta like a kid who takes vocational classes instead of AP college courses. Sure, it's aggravating, but who gets the last laugh? Okay, true story. Last time this happened to me was at a Super Bowl party. A woman I know very casually thought she'd put me down so cleverly with a comment like that that I wasn't even aware of the slam. I just smiled and thanked her for the compliment, because she was the one who was clueless. What she didn't know was that her son had just picked at the Christmas dinner she'd arranged (at untold expense) through the caterer. Then he'd rushed over to my house to pig out on home cookin'. He called and begged for an invitation. I swore a blood oath never to tell. :) So why get mad at the woman for her ignorance? All I felt for her was pity. Imo, these silly people need to conduct a survey of their children/grandchildren. Assuming they got honest answers, I think they'd be absolutely shocked at how much it means to a kid to grow up in a home where family dinners are important, where holiday meals are a very big deal, where food traditions are treasured and preserved. For those of you with young families, I'll just share my experience after a lifetime of spending 'too much time' in the kitchen. First, my grown children still come home. A lot. I'm sure that my personality and charm and sparkling wit are all big draws. :) But it doesn't hurt that they know they'll get a delicious meal thrown into the bargain when they visit. Secondly, it has been an unexpected joy that their friends still stay in touch. Somehow this food thing has forged a strong bond. I hear other parents comment sadly that they never see the kids their children grew up with anymore. Funny, 3 of them were at my house for dinner last Sunday night. We had the most wonderful time eating chicken enchiladas and drinking Coronas and reminiscing about 'the good old days' -- which, in this case, went back to when they were in pre-school. When they buy their first home and I ask what they'd like for a house-warming gift, they invariably say all they want is a copy of our family cookbook. When they get married, they invariably ask me to teach their new brides to make a favorite dish. When their first child is about to be christened, they call and ask if it would be just tooo much trouble to make (whatever) for the party. It's just incredibly flattering to still feel like I'm an important part of their lives long after they no longer need me to drive them to soccer practice... The third thing is -- and, hey, it may not be pretty, but it has to be said -- I make their in-laws all look sick. lol Now, I'm all about sharing. But, seriously, can I be blamed if everybody is working hard to figure out how to spend most of the holidays at my house?? :)) Last, but definitely not least, my kids turned out to be darned good cooks and gracious hosts. Since they were all boys, I didn't make a huge effort to teach them to cook. (Sexist, I know...) But they just absorbed so much. Most importantly, they developed an appreciation of homemade and a loathing of 'fast food', so cooking for themselves later on seemed more of a pleasure than a burden. And since their friends always gravitated to our house for dinner, they're totally comfortable in the role of host. So if anybody denigrates your efforts, just write them off as an idiot and move on. Stepping down off my soapbox now...... sm...See MoreSigh- OT- Just HOW do you cook a meatloaf
Comments (43)Read through and didn't see my recipe anywhere in here so I'll add it to your list for consideration. FWIW, my DH refused to eat meatloaf based on horrific childhood experiences but after trying mine 20 years ago he's CURED LOL and asks for it weekly. 1.25 lbs ground beef (I usually aim for 90% lean) 1 cup dry pepperidge farm herbed stuffing (blue & white bag) 1 can Campbells condensed tomato soup 1-2 tsp Worcestershire to taste 1 egg dash of milk (maybe 1 T at the most) 4 slices bacon I beat the egg in the bowl first, then add Worcestershire and undiluted soup and mix together. Then add stuffing mix to moisten and add beef to all for thorough mixing to distribute the egg mixture throughout. Add dash of milk and mix in. Turn into a loaf pan - I use a pyrex glass one because it seems to form a nicer looking finished loaf - and pat down gently using a fork to remove air pockets. Top with 4 slices of bacon and pop into the oven for 50 min at 400. After 50 min, take out and drain grease. Put it back in for 10 minutes to finish. Here's what I learned the hard way - you have to let it sit in the warm loaf pan for at least 10 min after removing from the oven to allow the meat to reabsorb the juices and set which helps decrease crumbling. After 10 minutes rest, invert loaf pan onto dish, cut and serve. I find that it works well to pop baking potatoes alongside in the oven to cook the entire time as a side! Bon Appetit! Jen...See Morea bit OT: make your own cooking show in your new kitchen
Comments (1)Oh that would be fun. I made a tutorial for bread making and posted the "still" pics on my photobucket. It was step by step. I'll definitely have to look into this. Thank you c...See MoreDo you let all your meat 'rest' after cooking
Comments (28)Whenever possible, the only resting meat gets around here is resting on a fork on its way to my mouth. But in reality, as others have suggested, once finished, plated, plate loaded with the other stuff, it winds up "rested". I too want my meat hot. And I prefer well done, since I have teeth and appreciate using them. And "well done" does not mean it has to be tough. Once the pink is removed, it's well done. I don't like meat to be squishy. That's why I don't like mushrooms. Don't like spongy/squishy schtuff. Too many people try to flash fry things that wind up overcooking it and making it tough. Got a cousin though who will heat a cast iron pan as hot as possible, throw in a steak, immediately flip it, immediately plate it and eat it. Crunchy outside, madcow inside... :) Oh, and with poultry, I'm different, I know, but I don't like it nicely sliced. I prefer to "chunk" it. Pull off nice big chunks of meat. If, for instance on a turkey you pull off the big part of the breast, I might cut that into 2" thick slices. And eating it cold too, I just like to grab a "hunk" of turkey! Been that way all my life. Not sure why, but just one of my many quirks....See Moresuzanne_sl
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