Tipping Delivery Men ( is it necessary or expected?)
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Comments (14)I would like to tip, but for some reason it never works out right. When our new refrigerator was delivered I asked the nice deliverymen to please pull the old Frigidaire out from the wall and move it out into the driveway where my Nephew Maurice could clean it out for the Goodwill truck. When they were rolling it across the floor, my Chihuahua Midget came bursting out of his kennel and bit one of the deliverymen in the calf. He hollered and let go of the hand cart they were using and the old fridge fell on the taller mans foot! Both of them were hopping around the front room raising a fearsome racket and swearing about dear little Midget, who would not hurt a soul! I looked in the medicine cabinet to see what first aid supplies might help but the best I could muster were a few old corn plasters and a box of epsom salts. When the men recomposed themselves and had safely placed the old appliance in the drive, they set out to complete the install of our shiny new refrigerator. Of course, what with the age of the old Frigidaire, quite a bit of dust had accumulated underneath and behind where it used to sit. I asked both men to wait for a moment while I fetched my broom and mop, plus some wax to shine up the old linoleum back there. One never knows when one will have such an opportunity again! What happened next is the subject of some dispute. I honestly do not know what got into me but when they asked me whether I wanted the icemaker hooked up they claimed I said "no!" At least this is how both of them recounted the story. I remain unconvinced, but will say that Regis and Kelly were on at the time and I never miss that show if I can help it! That Regis! What a character! So they were getting ready to leave after the intall and I went up to get a glass of water from the dispenser and none come out! "Oh Sir? Why isn't the water coming out of the spout?" "You told us you didn't want the icemaker hooked up!" "Well, I am sure I did no such thing! But even if I had, what bearing does the icemaker have on whether I may fill a water glass at the dispenser?" They explained, somewhat impatiently, that the water supply for both the icemaker and the chilled water dispenser come from the same hose and that they had not hooked it up on my instructions! I explained that this would never do and that even if I did not want any ice at the moment, there would certainly come a time later in the month when I would want some lemonade and then I would need it as I cannot take a glass of lemonade without a cube of ice or two. So, somewhat resignedly, the gentlemen wriggled the new refrigerator away from the wall and proceeded to hook it up to my home's water supply. I must say they did not seem very happy about it, either. When they finally finished and everything tested perfectly, including filling a tumbler with water, I asked Mandy, my niece who stays with me and drives me to my appointments to go fetch my change purse from the bedside table. I reached in and pulled out a shiny new quarter for each of the men to show my appreciation for their efforts. Well, would you believe that they looked at me as if I were crazy, and then called me a name! Swore at me, before storming out the door! I wonder if it is against company policy at the appliance store for deliverymen to accept tips?...See MoreTo tip or not to tip
Comments (30)May I rant? ;-) My DH delivered pizzas not that long ago, and managed to last two whole weeks before handing in the shirt that Dominos so "kindly" gave him. He was told that if he wanted to wear a jacket during cold months (and who wouldn't, being in and out of a car all night long?), he couldn't wear his own but would have to buy -- paid for out of his own pocket, mind you -- an official Dominos jacket. And it wasn't cheap. Of course, he was also required to use his own vehicle, buy his own gas, and pay for parking out of his own pocket (he worked a downtown beat, where free parking is practically nonexistent). He was never clear on the procedures for reimbursement. His manager was never quite forthcoming on how to go about things like that. The jacket-buying requirement was pretty much the breaking point for him, after several deliveries where he was tipped nothing to very little. If the pizza prep folks were running behind and his delivery thus thrown off schedule, some people were positively irate that he showed up on their doorstep bearing their dinner 15 minutes later than they expected. As though it was somehow his fault, they chose to "punish" him by not tipping one red cent. ("That'll teach that pizza delivery guy to be so slow" -- I guess that was their logic.) He delivered 10 pizzas to an office building that required him to pay for his own parking, carry his heavy load through security, and then when he arrived at the drop-off point, an employee at the office that had ordered the pizzas was standing there with her hand on her hip, wrist cocked to her face as though she were checking the time -- and she wasn't even wearing a watch. For his efforts, he received a 75 cent tip. If you ever want to encounter some of the most hatefully impatient and dismissive people on the planet, do a stint as a pizza delivery person. For every kind and generous soul, there seem to be two who are nasty and for whatever reason, feel it's their place to look down on a person performing what they consider to be a worthless, menial task. It seems that too many people tranfer their feelings about the "lowliness" of the job to the person, and that's a lesson I hope I'll always carry with me ... and behave towards others accordingly. OK -- sorry for that little somewhat unrelated-to-the-original-topic rant. Whenever the subject of pizza delivery folks comes up, I guess I get a bit defensive. ;-)...See MoreTipping cabinet delivery guys? How much?
Comments (58)@Xedos “ you are plainly out of touch if you don't know that waitstaff make less than min. wage , and think their employers dole out any luxuries to them. In fact , don't know any employers that hand out luxuries to the worker bees. “ Talk about being out of touch. At least read and understand what I wrote before jumping all over me. What I said was that tipping is appropriate for wait staff who, apparently, make low/below minimum wage – not for everyone under the sun just for doing their jobs. That’s gotten out of hand. No, I don’t understand why so many workers feel they are somehow more deserving or work harder than others so are entitled to tips. As far as I can see, a lot of these people are making good money even if they don’t think they are. I also said that employers should give up some of their profit margin - their own personal luxuries - to pay their employees better if they are actually underpaid. That is, not expect their customers to pick up part of their payroll expense with tips. We pay very high prices as it is and they seem to be doing quite well by it. "under snookums take the slaves shouldn't have complained, they had all their meals , housing, clothes , and transportation all provided for them , wanting more or extras just made them ungracious ??? Excuse me, but that is your take, not mine. Stop misrepresenting me. No, I don't think everyone deserves a tip just because they did their job (which I think is a valid and reasonable complaint these days, not to mention common). It’s a ridiculous concept. Tipping expectations are out of control. What, do you think the rest of us have money trees growing in the back yard? You assume we all make more than you? My comment about jobs 100 times harder refers to the many occupations that require a college education (sometimes extensive) and entail a lot of hard, long hours, extra work and/or continued education, along with huge responsibility. Often, those jobs don’t pay more, or much more, than the good wages you complain about. There are no tips. Extra hours don’t necessarily reap additional pay more less overtime wages. It’s just part of the job. I don’t know why people would assume I was referring to physical labor. I’ve done physical labor, too, and my body suffered for it. No tips were involved (sometimes no pay either). I never would have expected such a thing. I thought the money was very good. Apparently I was uninformed, lol. Frankly, I think it can be rather insulting to tip someone for doing their job. It can come across as patronizing and condescending. Often it is, for that matter. “I agree with weisman that tipping has gotten outa kilter in some areas and with snookums that younger generation are coddled and have questionable work ethics. “ Then we are in agreement about the poor work ethics today. That is basically what I was saying. I really don’t have a problem with tipping, per se, just when it’s not warranted or people are making good money. We all have service jobs. I happen to ‘tip’ the people I work for! Because I am grateful and enjoy both my job and working for them. (Actually, that is not always the case, lol, but I do it anyway)....See MoreRealistic expectations of an interior designer?
Comments (18)Several things: Inspo boards/feedback versus shopping locally " together" : This is absolutely THE most "efficient " way for any designer to get a feel for the FEEL you want in your home and it takes VAST amounts of time to even create the inspo boards, without putting a fanny in the car and driving hundreds of miles over days . ( The reason I put efficient in quotes ). You're in Boston area. You live in an area surrounded by the same stuff every single mid to large city has. Ethan Allen , Pottery Barn, West Elm.......maybe an RH . You also have a design center, and still to some degree, the antique stores that have met a demise in most other cities. In no way do these represent an entire market of what IS available. The local design to the trade venue? Even THAT will not show all that is available!!! Brick and mortar furniture ? Same thing , as many have had a hard time keeping doors open as the public clicks a mouse for cheap junk in a hurry. Couple this, with the fact you are adapting to a bit more traditional feel. GOOD LUCK. This exists at the high and LOW end of the market. The look has been literally driven out by "farmhouse crap" and mid century crap. . Quality? Antique stores, 1st Dibs, Chairish........etc. . New goods? Baker furniture, Hickory Chair, Century, some Hickory White. After those? A minefield of not much, and not much tradition. Budget: The price of a particular piece? It means next to nothing in case goods. A three k dresser can be Restoration Hardware. Is it quality? No, not really. " Another 1 k would have gotten you dovetail joinery."..............no, not necessarily. And dovetail drawers can be found on junk furniture, believe it or not. She saw the dresser it in a showroom....she showed it to you. Did you ASK to go see the piece in person? Apparently not, yet you were willing to "go shopping together".! I'm sorry, but you confused her. Yes, you did. You told her your priority was the living room, and it never occurred to her that the dresser would equal the IMPORTANCE of the selections for that living room. You asked her to drag the budget information out of you. What you never said, and she did not ask, was this: "I can spend __________$ This YEAR. I can spend __________ next year. I must have now, these things --------------------" . I can wait on these................" Yet you said "no to things that were more than you wanted to spend" .........which IS it??? And on what? ! You were vague, and as you typed above? It's still vague to us. To me. Every designer is tasked with getting the budget answer, to which we generally get this reply, essentially. ........ " I just want the best looking home I can have, for the least amount of dollars." Every piece? "How much is it?!" So......walk a mile in our shoes. Couple ALL of this with the fact that a new home rarely needs a total re furnishing. In fact? I would resist that. Traditional homes can successfully marry both tradition and more contemporary looks. They are more interesting, more collected, than a boatload of "it's all new" Here's Suzanne Kassler Buckhead, outside and inside... Look at the art and the STAIR......... Which of these appeals in traditional "bones"??? Such as below... Look at the cocktail table, below, and the more modern relief to the obvious tradition. Or........... more below. The point is as the pictures reveal : ) While it's important to "listen" to a house? It's not the dictator. Look at the moldings, chair rail , windows etc and the lighting in both, below........and the furnishings....See Morebronwynsmom
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