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Good news, good news and bad news.

susan_on
15 years ago

So much is happening here:

Good news: my 23 year old son was just "hired on" for an important volunteer position that can lead to a nice career for himself. It was much more difficult to pass the screening process for this volunteer position than it was for any job he's ever had. You have to be a third year university student, with volunteer experience, knowledge of a corrections environment, and the ability to interview successfully and to pass a police check. They only take 6-7 volunteers in the entire region. He was the successful candidate for this available position and he will start May 8th.

Good news: my 27 year old daughter has always said that she did not want to have children, but yesterday I went to a medical appointment with her, and while we were waiting, she told me that she and her boyfriend are planning to get married in the future and that she has changed her mind and wants children! I NEVER thought that would happen, because she's always been adamant that she didn't want any. I was very pleasantly surprised.

Very bad news: My daughter was born with a urinary reflux. This is a common problem for children, BUT the severity that she had was/is rare, and managing her health and care was a full time job. She had corrective surgery when she was 2 1/2 which improved but did not eliminate the problem. She was a very ill little girl, with this problem and other significant health problems that she had. The specialist we went to see feels that her abdominal symptoms she's been having are likely caused by this original problem. She has tests scheduled in three weeks, and she may need surgery again. I'm worried about her health, as we were told that children with her set of circumstances tended to end up on dialysis. She's done very well up until now, considering where she started, but I hate to see her go through this, and I'm so worried about it. Also, I worry about this problem, combined with her epilepsy and thalassemia, complicating pregnancy plans.

I just feel pretty depressed right now about this, and I'm having a hard time shaking it off.

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