I would use forest compost or wood chips and accept the slight increase of P that comes with it- I'm confident it will be counterbalanced by other benefits. I've read about excessive P where it is applied over the years in lawn fertilizer or worse, so called "balanced" fertilizers like 10-10-10. Off hand, I forget what nutrient deficiencies can be triggered by too much P but it would take 5 minutes to find out and you could watch for those and counter with foliar feeding if it becomes necessary.

I'm very happy and relieved for you. Congratulations!!! I'm probably one of the worst at waiting for test results; I just hate it. I'm so, so glad you've got your results. About the parent thing, others have already given you so many wise words. I'll add this. I think having regrets after a parent dies is to be expected, whether the relationship is bad or good. I definitely had regrets after my father's death about our relationship. I didn't understand him, and we didn't have much in common. Plus, he had anger issues. Large ones. I do get why he was angry, and he had a right to be angry. But HIS children didn't deserve his anger. I have a great relationship with my mother, but I'll still have regrets when she's gone, mostly about not making more of an effort to spend time with her. A friend (who had lost a child and her parents) told me once that she knew she had loved her children unconditionally and had done everything she possibly could for them, so she had no regrets concerning them. She said that she did regret not having spent more time with her parents and not having done more for them while she still could have.

Jane, thanks for reporting back! Don;t be worried about adding a bit more flour if you think you should. By the way, how many pizzas did it make?

Hmmm...maybe it was not strong enough? While I don't like anything related to cigarettes/cigars (just my personal opinion) - but like nicotiana plants in the garden :) - maybe if you used real tobacco leaves it would work (not sure where you would find them thou!). Surprising, since nicotine is quite potent. maybe it works better on young rather than mature bugs?