Who Here Has Vertigo/Need Good Thoughts for Sister
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Comments (6)steph_y, I'm probably one of the posters that has had some time pass since the major loss of a dear one - my 18yr old daughter. I too was faced with a court appearance, but thankfully I didn't have to go through that. The driver of the car was cited with 3 misdemeanor tickets and that was the end of that. I didn't originally begin any legal process, but not long after my daughter's accident, I was also involved in an accident. I was forced into appearing because it was a pretty dynamic event, and the person cited wanted all witnesses and victims to appear to testify. Of course I had to get an attorney. He advised me that I should "go after" the guy that caused my daughter's accident. I didn't want to, but he said that he could do it without me. I suspect thought that if the case had gone further, I would have been able to bring closure of some sort. I say this to say, gather the strength to do what you have to do. Mind you, if you really cannot, I'm sure there is a solution to that - maybe speak to the attorney, judge, etc. However, if you decide to do this, speak clearly and really explain all that you have told us in your post. Those feelings are the reason you have this opportunity - to let this person realize the impact and also possibly provide some influence towards a proper sentence. The laws didn't always allow victims like you, to have a voice. It's a tough act, I know. But share your thoughts, and if you have hard time, just call on your faith. You have a right to let everyone know the destruction caused by drunk drivers. Maybe, just maybe, as you face this head on, you may get some relief in expressing your thoughts where is can make a difference. I just found this forum, and I'm almost glad that I found it now, rather than before. It is difficult to sort things when the trauma is still fresh. I'm afraid that I the emotions would have caused me to dwell on the situation a lot more. That being said, please know that everyone here is in your corner and has some sense of your pain and suffering. We will be here for you - both on the forum and through private emails, if necessary. I know our prayers will include you too. As I said be strong, and as you carry out your court appearance, take us with you in your heart - we all will be more than happy to walk with you. By all means though, also have and keep faith - it does work. I cannot tell you how much faith, even as small as a mustard seed, will help carry you through this. Pray for the strength and courage to see this through - today, tomorrow and for always. Your prayers will be answered without question. Please let us know how things go. Even as the years go by, please keep the forum at hand - we'll still be here. BTW, I know your brother will be with you. in spirit I send my love, and a hug. gng...See MoreUpdate - no good news here-need good thoughts.
Comments (45)I'm sending good thoughts and prayers your way. I hope everything turns out well for Glen and you. (((Nora)))...See MoreWho here has a Cabrio - is it worth the money? Need info!
Comments (9)I personally don't have this make, but work on this stuff, and you are trying to put items into (any) washer, top loader, front loader, the items you put in there have to compliment the size of the cavity in the washer. If its to big they are not ment to go into your machine. I am seeing many newer machines needing early repairs because HO figure the bigger the opening, bigger the tub size they can load it up to the top. Not so. A lot of this image the front loaders have is they can do more, and some can, but when it comes to large items, king size, fabric densidy, quilts, these are all much to big and hard on either the Top loaders or Front loaders. But you are the buyer, and you can put what ever u decide to put in your machines. When we come along and listen to some of these stories of what was in the washer, its amazing at how much is put in these machines. None of todays machines will stand up to this size of loads, and most of the newer stuff we are working on in the first few years. Not like the older machines that some have not had work on them in 20 odd years. Not so today. B...See MoreHave not been around...need prayers/good thoughts
Comments (22)So, let me get this straight? He cheated on you with BM (yuck - at least it could have been with someone better!!) and yet he has never felt that he should be considerate of your feelings when telling you that "you should be the bigger person," etc.? He has always "taken her side" and you have always felt that he valued her feelings over yours. Before I knew about the cheating, I thought the entire situation was stinky but now that I know - how could he seriously say the things he has said when looking into your eyes and knowing that he betrayed you with her and was continuing to betray you?? I am furious on your behalf!!!...See More- 17 years ago
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