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Comments (40)i am menopausal at 53. I live with a 32 year old man. We do fine. Sex has many dimensions. First see what vitamins you need. Sometimes lack of energy is the problem. I do ten hour shifts at times, and I sleep a lot when that happens. Sex? I tell him to go do some porn. So jobs can just mess things up. Porn, by the by, can turn you on too if you take time to find what you like to hear and see. Trust me, its out there. Take time to get turned on if he won't do it. If he won't then maybe you need someone else. If he will, experiment. You are sex researcher Dr. Cocktease, and you are going to see what gets the nights hot. Play. make up stories. Fun is something that does wonders for everyone. Do different places. Do you have a yard or go camping? Tents can be fun. We set up one in our living room and played camping like kids once and had a great time. Consider that while the body might have problems (I have serious hip arthritis, for instance), the mind is the most important sex organ there is. Think about what made sex good in the past. Think about stuff you are intrigued by but never did. Imagine these things, find pics of them, watch videos if those are good. Read stories on the web or write ones of what you think would be the best sex night (a great candlelit bath with flowers, a nice night taking turns doing rubs, whipped cream on parts being licked off, pretend meeting for the first time somewhere, dirty talk, whatever) and make time to do them. Get with yout man and talk about it. If you have hope of seeing results, this can turn things around....See MoreNo Libido
Comments (1)I am not aware of anything that might help you if you don't want to take any prescription meds. A touch of testosterone could help, but of course, you would have to have a script for that. Good Luck. By the way, Happy Belated Birthday ! Lu...See Moreincreased libido
Comments (2)So many ladies have just the opposite problem when they enter menopause. I don't envy you the mood changes, but I do wish I had your libido problem. So does my husband....See MoreKnowing When It's Time to Leave
Comments (48)It is good he has his children.I was under the impression he was all alone. Not to bring up the hormone thing again,but men dont handle estrogen well.Men usually arent quite as emotional as women are,and maybe the hormones are making him emotional now (talking about his childhood,etc) My grandfather had serious crying jags while on estrogen. How long is he going to be on the treatment for his prostate cancer? Is there any way you could at least wait until he is done treatment? It may change how he is feeling significantly. Or,are you just saying you just dont feel in love with him at anymore? Either way,he may be better of emotionally if you waited until his treatment is over.For my grandfather it was several months.Now he is doing alot better being off the hormones. If he finishes treatment and is still this depressed and wont get help,then I guess there isnt much you can do for him. Since you arent married,legally you cant MAKE him get help either.Maybe his children could. Sorry I was so harsh.I wish you well,doesnt sound like an easy situation for all involved....See Morerpmi1640_hotmail_com
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