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Comments (6)I'm not sure I completely agree with what everyone else is saying. If your mother is having short term memory problems then maybe it is not that she is purposefully not telling you things, maybe she just does not remember, and may very well not be able to take care of things or understand enough to ask the right questions, not everyone is medically inclined. And it sounds like she is very lonely as well, don't sound like she has many people that come and see her by the statement your afraid her landlord may find her dead and her have been there for awhile. You live very far away and circumstances prevent you being there much, but it sounds like she does not have many friends etc... that stop by. I wonder if there is not like government apartments there for the elderly where she pays by her income and there are strictly older people in that apartment complex so that she has people to interact with and check on her, that could very well ease your worry and I sense alot of worry beyond the fact you and her don't get along, that does not mean you don't love her. Loneliness breeds depression and I can tell you it makes people terribly bitter. She may be embarrassed by her lack of memory often times even like in the beginning stages of dementia people know they are forgetting it is embarrassing and they lash out at people that bring up the idea and try to help because of embarrassment, slowly letting go of your freedom as you knew it whether it be because of mental or health issues is very hard. She also may be saying you have to come and take care of her at the hotel because "insurance" won't pay because that is her way of saying she misses you and is scared and needs you, she may be very proud and would never come out and just say I need your help because if the doctors say it then she don't have to feel like she is burdening you. You may not get along and I am not sure the circumstances but I know you only have one mom and when she is gone there is no bringing her back. I have the most stubborn sarcastic father that fabricates stories and I could go on and on. But I let him know I love him and I just want him to be my dad first, and my mom had a severe stoke in her early 50's and he takes care of her and there has been alot of riff, so I know where your coming from. I also know the lord says honor your mother and father, and I am trying so hard and I know it's tough. But maybe you and your mom need to discuss the things that have made your relationship go sour, for you and for her, because when she is gone you certainly can never fix it. You guys definately need open communication with her being so far away and not really able to come to you and you not able to move as well. That's just my opinion....See Moreanyone ever had plantar faciitis?
Comments (8)I had my second child, and needed to lose weight as well. I was in the same situation as you. I lost 35 pounds and still have 30 to go, but I had a flare up last June that really made exercise hard. Here is what I did: 1. Wore comfortable and supportive shoes at all times (no walking barefoot...very bad). 2. Avoided shoes that did not have support (go for Clarks, Josef Sibel, Borns, etc.) 3. Did not do exercises that put more stress and strain on my feet. No walking, running, etc. 4. Signed up at a gym that had a swimming pool and swam. I also rode the exercise bike. 5. Did exercises that my doctor gave me. It did go away (after about five months). Now, I can feel it coming back, but I quickly make sure I am careful to put shoes on, avoid exercises that put stress on it etc....See MoreCreeping weight gain
Comments (12)I'm not so sure about the fruit juices recommendation in a previous posting. They contain a lot of sugar. Better to eat fruit, becuae it takes longer to ingest and contains fiber and fills you up more. A few other recommendations: -Get used to whole grains -- bread, pasta and rice. They have improved them so they are easy to prepare and are very tasty. They are more filling and satisfying that refined products. - If you eat a lot of processed food, start reading the labels. If there are more than 4 or 5 ingredients, don't eat it. - Try ot avoid or cut down on sugar. Get a cheap paperback that lists the sugar content in all foods. You'll be surprised. Sugar is all over the place. - Stay away from butter and whole milk products. Use skim milk, or low fat milk. If you like cheese, eat it in moderation, and try to select hard cheese, because harder ones have less fat. Try to use only fats that are liquid at room temperature, like olive oil, canola oil, corn oil. Your heart and arteries will thank you. - Eat white meat of chicken, and avoid the skin, which is nearly all fat. Lean cuts of beef and pork are okay, as well as nearly all fish. - Eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables. If you have good, healthful eating habits, and you exercise regularly, the weight will take care of itself....See MoreHelping cat on a diet
Comments (9)Thanks for the advice! I appreciate the warning about diet foods; IÂm glad I asked here first. IÂm sorry to hear about the loss of your cat due to taurine deficiency, holligator. That must really hurt. I will try the pumpkin and added water too. How do you gauge how much to feed to get the right amount for a cat who should weigh 8 pounds? She is a small cat. She has never had any food other than ordinary grocery store canned or dry: I donÂt know if she would like the better kinds but itÂs worth a try. Where do you buy it? She is not drinking more water. Water use is normal. She is on Phenobarbitol because of seizures. After she basically recovered from the stroke, the neurologist had me lower the dosage gradually over the space of a month in the hopes that she would not need it anymore. But after 2 weeks without, the seizures recurred. He had me put her back on full dosage to get them under control. This was in mid-November. I think I can get the dosage back to 1x a day as she seemed fine on that; but IÂm hesitating to start that. She saw the regular vet (not the neurologist) in early November and he advised putting her on a diet, after commenting on how much she had gained since her pre-stroke check up. For a small cat she had gained too much too fast. I didnÂt ask how to have her lose weight. At that point I was thinking only of measuring carefully. This was before she was boarded and put on a further 2 pounds! Before the stroke she was slim and fit. A little padding on the thighs but not much. She used to be very energetic; loved to chase balls around or a person running around the house; not anymore since the stroke. ItÂs hard to tell what is due to the stroke damage, sleepiness from the medicine, or weight gain. The weight gain is the only thing I can really change that may help her. I bought some toys for her to chase and she canÂt do it very well. Coordination of her back legs is off and may always be. I am trying to encourage more activity which should help her regain more function as well. She follows me around the house all day (I work at home); which is good otherwise sheÂd get very little exercise at all. The fastest she ever moves now is when she hears someone in the kitchen....See More- 13 years ago
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