What if anything would you say about DIL's housekeeping
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Comments (26)I didn't say I had just one, haha. I meant I like to travel light - a smallish (relatively) bag and my carrier and I am good to go. I hate fighting a stroller and just in general do not carry a lot of "stuff" with me. Not even really toys when I am running errands, he is pretty happy with me chattering away at him and handing him the occasional item to look at before he turns around and drops it in the cart for me. I actually have a maya wrap that I bought while pregnant on the advice of friends that I never used because 1) I couldn't get the hang of it and 2) my son HATED being swaddled and by the time I had him encased in that thing he was screaming bloody murder and would not calm down until I took him out. We used a baby bjorn for a little bit (I know, the horror!) that was actually a gift too I think and he seemed to like that for a while until he started to realize "hey, where's mommy???" facing out and it seemed to be making him more anxious, not less when I had him by myself. It worked much better for DH because I was always there walking next to him so he knew where I was. It never fit me well or comfortably either, but he was so content being "on" one of us that I started looking at carriers in earnest at that point. Then I went down to a local shop that caters to pregnancy, breastfeeding, babywearing and cloth diapers and was able to really try various carriers out, get them fitted, get suggestions based on lifestyle and try them out for a couple of hours during a mom's group meeting before purchasing them and I settled on the beco and haven't looked back. DH loves it too. I don't use it as much anymore because I just pop him in a shopping cart (I am not a stroller fan because I can't see/interact with him) - it's easier on my back than carrying him but I can still interact with him. I also like to let him walk as much as he wants to even though it does slow me down a little bit. I started him in the beco kind of late though, and always wore him front (he was MUCH calmer that way) and now that he is pushing 26 lbs clothed, I can't carry him much longer than an hour or so on my front and he is not super happy on my back for very long because I just never got him used to it I suppose. I can wear him that way if I am taking a walk and on the move because he is distracted by everything around him but he wants out the second I get where I am going. I wish I had gone to the shop with my maya wrap way earlier but judging by how much he HATED to be swaddled, I am not sure even being less clumsy would have helped that situation - but with the next one maybe it will work and I will start way earlier. I've seen other moms carry their babies with the maya wrap and it looks soooo cozy. I have never gotten into cloth diapers. To tell you the truth I am a terrible housekeeper as it is and I have laundry piled to the gills - it was even worse when he was first born and I was TOTALLY overwhelmed, dealing with severe dairy intolerance (I had to cut all traces out of my diet) causing reflux and other issues, then once I got that under control he started teething really hard (at 2 months). I could not even think about taking on even more laundry so I just went with disposables. Maybe with number 2 I will give it a try. I bought one to try it out and just never got around to it and now I am so used to disposables that I haven't switched. My family already thinks someone hit me with the crazy stick for breastfeeding in the first place (let alone after a year), never letting him cry, wearing him even though he is bigger than my niece who is 9 months older etcetc, they might try to have me committed if I started using cloth diapers. I admit though, those beautiful mai tais in all of those gorgeous fabrics makes me want a different one for every day of the week and I also saw a combo buckle/strap mai tai with a waist buckle and then shoulder ties that someone posted once that looked really interesting but the beco really does the job for me and we have other priorities for money besides a collection of baby carriers....See MoreWould you say anything?...baseboards
Comments (16)Speak up now or regret later. If it is out of his control maybe use the blocks. You may have to pay to fix this but rather redo now than later. When I had my pool done I noticed the tiles on waterline were getting a little wonky. I spoke up and they stepped back as they did not notice until they did. They were so nice about it and totally understood I was not being picky. They even took another look at the rest of the job and payed more attention as they went. They said they would have felt bad after doing the entire thing and then noticed it. Better to catch it earlier. They only had to pull of three tiles to fix it, rather than all. Speak up now....See MoreSomebody Say Something, Anything About Tomatoes !
Comments (46)I will be starting my tomato seeds inside in about a week. I use a card table in a southern window. I have to be careful because Zackey, my cat, ate some of the leaves a few years ago. They are poisonous to kitties. I have more tomato seed varieties than I have a place to grow them. I'm starting just a few of the following: Golden Jubilee--our all time favorite Large red cherry from a GW trade (no name was given) and the following that I will be seeding for the first time Jet Star Hybrid Pomodora Roma Nano Wayahead Amish Paste Boxcar Willie...See MoreDoes anyone have anything nice to say about Japanese honeysuckle?
Comments (26)Like most invasive species, it's all a matter of location, location, location!! Japanese honeysuckle is not an invasive species in the PNW (which shares a climate like much of the UK) and is commonly sold and grown, particularly L.j. 'Halliana' and L. j. 'Purpurea', which has a purple tint to the foliage and bicolored flowers. They have a wonderful fragrance when in bloom, especially in the evening, and attract hummingbirds. They also seem to attract aphids more than most other types of vining honeysuckle, which is not a plus :-) Considering the assortment of wonderful vining honeysuckles available that are NOT considered invasive, I see no reason to keep one in any area where this species IS considered invasive....See Morejust me
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