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aka_raeanne

18 years ago

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besh
18 years ago
Raeanne, I will keep you company!

I got the job! It is very exciting and bittersweet at the same time. I love my current job, but it is time to move ahead, work more hours and try something new. Thanks for all of the moral support that I got here. It really meant alot.

I hope everyone had a great weekend and is still sticking by their resolutions!

oxoxBesh
milkdud_2007
18 years ago
Good afternoon! I'll keep y'all company, too.

Way to go on getting the job, Besh! What kind of work will you be doing soon? I know it's hard to leave your current position, but job security is so important.

Hi, Raeanne! Come back and tell us about your weekend. You always do interesting things.

I'm back on track with my eating now because the "bad stuff" is gone. Hubby did the grocery shopping this weekend, and he shopped like me - rotisserie chicken instead of fried, fresh veggies instead of chips. I may have finally gotten through to him!

The fridge now contains yogurt, fresh fruit, veggies, skim milk, and the rotisserie chicken. The pantry has low-carb and lower-fat soups, whole wheat pastas, and Kashi cereals. It feels so good to have healthy choices now.

QOD: what new thing/WOE/habit are you trying so far in 2008?
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Since I have worked like crazy from day 1, and havent had much time to post, I guess I should fill in what I didnt on my post Monday morning-- I was hired on November 8 to fill a newly created position in the accounting department. It was the position of Accountant/Supervisor, and I was told that a 4-year degree was needed for this position. I was also told that I would learn the 5 audits that the department performs, as well as any other additional accounting functions that were needed. I was not given a deadline in which to have finished my training. During the last 2 weeks of November, I was taught one audit, and in December, I was sent to supervisor training, and then my direct supervisor, "H" re-certified as a supervisor me on December 28th and wrote on my evaluation "Good Job!!". I also started learning the slot audit about during the first/second week in Dec. And that is where I stayed until. On or about January 4, "H" called me into her office to say that from the reports she was hearing, that I was "burnt-out" (wtf???) on the slot machine audit, and that I was being put on another audit on January 8. When I asked what the problem was, she replied that she had received reports that I was stressed out. The only slot auditor for the week in question (December 25 to December 29; that supposedly burnt me out; it was also the busiest week at the property) was "R", who at one point told me to "stop f*cking things up", among other various job-misleading "help" she gave me while she was "training" me. I was told previously that she ("R) was very angry with me coming on board as she thought she should get the new position, even though she does not have the required degree. She ("R") was hostile to me while training, uncooperative and very demeaning to me and my background. She refused to help me on more than one occasion when I had problems with the audit, and would have a negative attitude when I asked for advice. And no, she wasnt too busy with her work to help-- I went to the other audit, and have been there ever since. "H" called me into her office on Sunday, January 22, told me that my position was eliminated because I wasnt trained enough to supervise the office for the week of January 23 27 (since the other supervisors were in training that week), and that I had had problems with that week in the slot audit. (Seems to be a re-occurring theme.) At this point, told her that I had never been given any specific guidelines as to when my training was to be finished, and this was the first I had heard that the other supervisors were to gone from the office that week. Then, I spoke up, and finally told her the conflicts with "R", and some of the things she said to me, and that she deliberately tried to teach me wrong procedures concerning the slot audit. (I learned about the wrong procedure from the other slot auditor when she came back to work, and I asked the correct procedures.) I also pointed out that I was never given a timeline that I was to know the whole department, and that she, "H", was my supervisor, and had failed to inform me of this. "H"then kept repeating that that week in the slots was bad (see, keeps re-occurring), and that I was being demoted to this other position, with a 50% reduction on pay (and I now became hourly; I was salaried before) and that my off days would be changed to reflect my new status. She also asked me not to say anything to the rest of the department until next week. (I assume the week starting January 29.) On Tuesday, January 23, I was sorting paperwork at the printer, and "H" apparently did not see me standing there, and I over-heard her, speaking in a low voice, tell "R"that my supervisor position was open, and she should go apply for it. No one else in the accounting department knew, as they might have a degree and be qualified for the position, but "H" did not choose to share that information with anyone other then "R", who has been sabotaging me since she had the chance in December. So, at this point, I figured that since it was, ahem.. public knowledge at this pointhey"H" told "R"and I let it slip at lunch to the others. Everyone was shocked, as I get along with them, and have helped out with their problems before. And, I figured that it was best to hear it from me, so that I dont look like a whipped pup. One of the guys that reported to me went back to the department and let it slip that he found out, and "R"s face was pricelessshe got defensive and her voice got high. It was funny to see and hear. He said that he overheard "H" tell "R", and she immediately started to backpedal. I did go to HR, and register my complaints, and the rep asked what I thought the repercussions would be, and I told her that I figured Id be fired, and she said "Well see about that", and smiled. Throughout all of this, I have kept my composure, and have smiled and not acted any different. I still talk and laugh and cut up, and I have kept the same level of work standards that I have from the first day. I finished one audit by 10am yesterday, the second by 4, and still and time to deal with other peoples problems with their work. So, I am still employed, but I think things will change on Sunday. And probably not for the better. Oh well. Its just a job that paid very well; its not my life and it does not define me. I did tell Rog on Monday, after I took a good assessment of things, and he is OK with things, no matter what happens. I told him everything, and I told him the reason that I could not tell him Sunday was that I couldnt bear the look of disappointment in his eyes, he told me I was silly, and that I couldnt disappoint him, ever. BJI love you, my sisnothing you can say to me would ever hurt me, b/c I know you speak from your heart. If I were hourly, I would say you are right, but I was salaried, and all supervisors must stay until all the work is finished, even if they themselves have been done for hours. And I was told that everyone must help the others out to finish up, which is fine with meso, thats why I would always ask, when I was finished, if I could help with someone elses work. (Although, in retrospect, I never did see any of the other supervisors do thatever. ???) My insurance will not kick in until Marcha long way to go--, and I was not given any type of review until this past Sunday. Nor any sense of unfilled expectations on anyones partI was told by one of me peers that I was going a very good job And as for the "down with" statement, I merely meant that I was now down in the pit with themnot a put down (LOL!) in anywaythey are great people! J The coatit is a Burberry, and it came form a consignment store with a no-return policy. (I rarely buy anything from a mall.) Still, even for that price, I wouldnt have bought it now. Its so gorgeousI feel like a million bucks with it onJJJ And---about the attitudeyoure right, and thats exactly what Ive been doing all week. Im still the same person I was this time last week, and Ill be that same person this time next week. While I hate being in this position, it is just a job, and it does not define me anymore than my MIL does. So, Im disappointed, but Ill liveits OK, and Ill just start over again Enough of me Patti(((((hugs))))) to you and your friendI can not imagine that pain NHSuzannegreat pics! JJ Marcithanks for the birthday exchange! Gotta goRog will be home in a bit Love and hugs to all Maddie
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Jen~Dave says, "So, is Jen going to enter those beautiful girls or what? They would win hands down!" He is a riot. He loves the girls as much as I do. Donna~(((Hugs))) Sorry that you haven't been feeling well. Please let me know your address. BJ~You sound like you have been doing some major camping with little equipment. But, with great results. You are so admirable. DeeMarie~Cannot wait for you to check in. Have a great time. I will pretend that I am on the boat with all of you "cruisers". LOL We are thinking that we might try to sneak off to NM while we are in TX for our anniversary since that is where we spent our honeymoon. Tikanis~You had a lot to do today, (or was it yesterday?) We snuck off with some friends & went to Tampa to a craft show. We borrowed a wheelchair & Dave pushed me around. I haven't heard anything so I'm guessing that they didn't find anything wrong. And, I know that I am doing better but I still hurt quite a bit. Who has Dr. Oz's book? Can anyone explain his theory to me & more or less what the plan calls for you to eat or not eat? I keep thinking that might be the sensible WOE for me, something that I could stick with. Marci~When are you coming this way? I keep thinking about Gretchen. Does anyone still keep in touch with her? I miss her a whole bunch. Well, nighty-night for now. Patti :)
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Hi all, I come by and check but don't read everything. I see Marci and Dee said hi, and maybe others have, too. My family's left. I don't know if I mentioned it, but they were successful in their attempt to set up swimming with the dolphins. I couldn't go to that, but did get to swim in the ocean. That's not something I can ordinarily do because of my illness and disabilities. I tried to post a couple of days ago, but everything that came out sounded upset and I didn't want to scare anyone. :) I've been ill the last few days. I talked to my doctor and she said it sounds like viral meningitis. That's the mild kind, not the kind that can leave a person brain damaged or dead, so its nothing to worry about, just uncomfortable - who needs more pain and fatigue. I might go in to her office tomorrow. Tropical Storm Celia went by here yesterday. She was a hurricane a few days ago, but diminished. There was thunder and lightning and heavy rain and winds, but nothing too damaging. Just enough excitement but not too much. I've got into anime for reasons I won't go into. I ordered Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz. Has anyone here seen it? Does anyone know or remember the song by Don McLean, "Chain Lightning?" I've always liked that song. Very dramatic. My internet relationship, which I talked about earlier, is still going strong - seven months now. I said that he is very unhappy and troubled, which is still true, but he has turned out to be also very caring, intelligent, and sweet. I hope we can continue to be friends for a long time, and I hope his situation improves for him. I've been reading about the get together next year. Remember, I'd like a video. :) I know that it will be a blast. It's nice to come here and have this group. You are such a loving bunch where all are welcome. There have been so many ups and downs, but people are always supportive and caring. Love to you, thanks for remembering me, and I hope everyone has a good day. I'm not spending as much time here as I was, which may change (who knows) but I won't get lost. It's been so frustrating to me when others that I care about quit posting and then I never know how they are doing. Also I've asked my son to let people here know if anything happens to me so that everyone won't be wondering. He knows how important this group has been to me. Amy
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aka_raeanne
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18 years ago
Besh - CONGRATULATIONS! I am so happy for you, it is so exciting to start a new chapter.

Milkdud - Nothing too exciting to report, we went over to a friends house on Saturday night to watch a football game and have dinner. Last night neighbors stopped by and then we went out to dinner together. Can I send my DH to you, he still doesn't understand what I can and what I can't eat?

Suzanne - are you getting the January thaw? It is warming up around here and is suppose to be near 60 tomorrow. I hope it's not creating too much of a mess by you.

Maddie - still thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way.

BJ - have you gotten juiced lately?

QOD - I am trying to make sure I have legal foods on hand at all times. When I cook I am making double so that I will have lunches or another dinner out of it. I really run into trouble when I have nothing legal at arms length or prepared.

Enjoy your day.
Wild_Chicken
18 years ago
Well, I better chime in before they start the site maintenance!

Looks like we're going to get an arctic blast here in the NW! Maybe snow tonight!

BESH!!!!!!! YAY!!!!! Congrats! What a great way to start the New Year---of course, we never had a doubt you'd be moving onto bigger and better things!

Milkdud! Good for your DH! I don't think my husband has made a shopping trip for the family in YEARS! But with kids, the snacks keep sneaking in around here!

Raeanne~ I have been juicing something every day!

My favorites are apples, pears, bananas, oranges, and pineapples. I also love making straight carrot and straight grapefruit juice. I use all organic fruit, so every bit goes in. The peel on the organic pineapple is very good for joints and I'm learning all kinds of stuff about the seeds stems, peels etc that I won't bore you guys with! I also throw some Bob's ground flax seed into the juice and that really makes it good for me. AND my grocery receipts look way different now! I'm basically shopping ONLY the perimeter of the store, save for some pasta and a couple of frozen veggie products.

I am finally over my coffee fix. I quit cold turkey because that's the only way I can stop doing anything! (NHSuzanne asked me why I was doing it that way...) But it's brutal, I tell ya. I'm good now--no headaches, no mid-afternoon slump. JUICY!

And Jen....CONGRATS on the success! Hawaii, again? How do you do that????? :-) You'll look great!

I spent the weekend over on the rock, computer-less. I got over there and my power brick broke, so I have to make a run to the computer geeks to get a new one. I got a lot done over there though!

MADDIE? Check in, sistah! We're freaking out, wondering what's going on with you!

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QOD: I echo Raeanne's remark about being 'prepared to eat.' I believe if you plan ahead, you plan for success. I'm not doing any WOE, other than lots of fresh fruit, veggies, and juices, of course. The exercise has become pretty important to me, so I go to the walking track at least 3 times a week for 30 to 50 minutes. Staying off the coffee has been pretty rewarding; I feel so much better w/o it.

Have a great day!
magickitty
18 years ago
Happy New Year Everyone!!!

Sorry, I have been MIA and just finished catching up on the posts. DH and I had a quiet New Years Eve and then on the 2nd we went to meet up with some old friends from Ohio in Cedar Key, FL (5 1/2 Hrs away)for two nights. We had a nice time. I know you will all laugh, but it got really cold down here. Down to 35. But back to 80 today.

Resolutions - I break all and any that I make right away, so I am not making any. DH and I are still trying to eat better.

BESH - congrats on the job!!!!!!!! What a great way to start the new year!

Dee Marie - Have a wonderful trip!

Whenicit - Welcome. I have been with this site for a few years now I beleive. It is a great place to get ideas and vent and just get support and be supportive. I still use sommersizing receipes.....I know it works. I lost 35 lbs on it about 6 yrs ago but has since gained it all plus some more back. I am not a disciplined person. I am 44 and live in the Southwest Florida area. I have been married for 12 yrs and have three furbabies (3 cats).

BJ - Juicing sounds yummy! congrats on giving up coffee cold turkey. You are a strong woman!!!!!

NH Suzanne - I enjoyed your posts about your home during the holidays and all the work and family you had over. DH and I stayed in FL for the holidays and it was sad a bit but I got over it quickly when I got the holiday phone calls from family. That helped.

I'll post again later.

Take Care.

Lynn
Wild_Chicken
18 years ago
(yawn----stretch....)

WAKE UP EVERYBODY!!!!!!!!!!

I suppose NHSuzanne is at the polls today. How exciting! Our primary isn't until the 19th of February and I'm going to be voting absentee ballot since I'll be gone.
Was it Whenicit who was from Iowa? Is voting the big buzz there now?
When I was in Alaska, voting was such a BIG deal (very politically active state, that Alaska) everyone campaigned, talked about the candidates, and was pretty darn knowledgeable about the issues...but in WA, no one really mentions it and great debates are few and far between.....DARN!

Well, we did not get any snow where I live, however, some parts north got a flurry or 2.

I'm down exactly 2 pounds since New Year's Day, when I started drinking juice instead of coffee. I'm just happy that I'm over the caffeine-withdrawal headaches!---but I'll take the loss with pleasure!

I wanna know about Besh's *NEW* job! Fill us in!

And...has anyone heard from Maddie? --- on an outside line?

Back later to read.....

Enjoy the day! It's so dark and cloudy here, it looks like nighttime. Winters in the Northwest are so frickin' fun.
Wild_Chicken
18 years ago
It's sooooooooooooooooo lonely in this forum........

Someone open a curtain and LET SOME LIGHT IN!!!!

The sun is half-heatedly shining here today. No snow.

How 'bout those presidential candidate primaries? Huh? GUUUUUURL POWER.... and the good ole Mac boy network rides again. NHSuzanne, was your town voting center a madhouse last night?

Back to packing....and juicing! I end all project in "and juicing" now...lol.

I bought a couple of books on de-cluttering...I tossed my other decluttering books when I was decluttering last time...so I am re-inspired, especially since I am packing for the move NOW. It's time to really assess how much material stuff I need to operate in this life. So far, It's been pretty amazing how many pairs of boots I NEED! And I packed an entire box of books regarding death. I'm wondering how Feng Shui fits into THAT! I feel like I should have put a stick of sage incense or a flute cure in that box or something.

Oh, I heard a funny thing in the island bookstore last weeknend. A lady went to the cash wrap to buy her books and the guy said, "Are you from here...or are you visiting?" She answered, "I'm from HERE, but just visiting..........earth." Now I know there are a LOT of hippies on the island, but this sort of took the cake for me.

Whilst I was there, I bought a book called, "GIVING...How Each Of Us Can Change The World." Gonna start reading it tonight.

What's everyone else HERE reading right now????????

I could ramble on quite a bit more, but I feel I should let someone else get a word in, eh?
milkdud_2007
18 years ago
I'm here, BJ! It's a beautiful day in this neighborhood today. Cool, once again, and sunny.

I met another neighbor this morning. She built here 21 years ago, and hers was only the 3rd house in this whole area at the time. Things have really changed since then as just about every lot on this long street is now built on. The last house was just put on the market last weekend, and it's the house next door to me. Hope we get wonderful neighbors. Maybe I'll get someone interesting like BJ!

BJ, I have decluttered so many times since our move began last summer, and I still have more to do. Incredible how much stuff possesses me! Share your decluttering tips when you come across an unusual one, please.

I received the link last night to the wedding photos from my oldest Dson's wedding. I stayed up for an hour pouring over them and remembering that special day. It was also an eye-opener for me to see how fat I was in the pictures. I hate it for my son that that's how I was captured. I'm working on improving myself now, too late for the pictures, but not too late for life.

Maddie, I hope things are better for your mom now. Sending good wishes for all of y'all.

Have a good day, everyone!
aka_raeanne
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18 years ago
BJ - I am reading Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert and I am enjoying it. ROFLMAO about visiting earth. I sent Maddie an email but haven't heard back.

Milkdud - I got more than a glimpse in the mirror last night and I felt ill. I have so much celulite I feel like cancelling my vacation next month. I am certain you will have many more kodak moments in your life with the new and improved you.

Sunny and warm here today and loving it, especially since all of this will be history come this weekend when the temps are going to dip.
magickitty
18 years ago
Milkdud - I know how you feel. I actually have gotten to where I ask not to be photographed and some people think they are being CUTE by snapping a picture and laughing. Glad you got to enjoy that special day again while looking at the pictures.

Books - not reading one at the moment but ready to pick one out. I did see one that looked interesting called. reversing diabetes. I want to check it out at the book store before I buy it.

BJ - are you moving permanently to the is;and? Did you sell your house? I must have missed soemthing.

Take Care - enjoy the evening!!

Lynn
yankandtex
18 years ago
We got back yesterday. Had a very nice trip. Today the horrible wreck happened on I-4. So sad.

It was very nice to read & catch up with everyone. Glad that almost everyone is doing well.

Maddie ((( ))) ~ Please let someone know that you are doing all right.

We had a package from Maddie when we got home. She sent an ornament of a horse, a horseshoe from Church Hill Downs, & a pin of horses running a race. So very nice & we love it all. Thanks, Maddie. Dave wants to frame the horseshoe. :)

Welcome, Whenicit!

Lynn~I was glad to see that you had posted.

I couldn't believe that we came home to mosquitoes!! I almost believe that I prefer the cold or the snow. Patti :)
yankandtex
18 years ago
I added a new recipe on the posts. :) P
whenicit
18 years ago
Yeah for me - I weighed in at 156.4 today. My start was 158 and my goal was 156.5 so I even beat my goal by a tad. However, tonight I shall splurge as it is my 20th wedding anniversary and I am going out for a special meal. My goal for next Wed. is 155.5.

No time to read all other posts completely, will check in later in the week!!

Thanks for letting me join in - you have all been motivating!
yankandtex
18 years ago
Congratulations on the weight loss, Whenicit! And, congrats on your anniversary. Twenty years is quite an accomplishment. What has been working for me lately is to let myself have a bite of whatever & then say that it is too sweet & give it to DH. LOL He did manage to lose 3# on our Christmas vacation, so I was thankful that I had not sabatoged him too badly. Have a great day!

Hi to all! Patti :)
donna_southnj
18 years ago
This first full week of work in the new year is excruciatingly looooong!

Whenicit, congratulations on your weight loss.

Patti, glad you didn't sabotage Dave :-) I will have to check out the recipe.

Hi to everyone! Hope Dee is enjoying her cruise. Still thinking of Maddie.

Not much new, glad tomorrow is Friday.

Will check in later.....Donna
milkdud_2007
18 years ago
Good Friday morning! Everyone must be busy this week!

I'm down 1.8 lbs. from last week. I'll take any loss at this point. Going grocery shopping this morning with a list of healthy foods to buy. It helps so much to not have temptations in the kitchen. I'm working on portion-control now. I'm always "scared" that I won't get enough to eat. what's up with that???

We've had very warm, and now very cool, weather this week. The mosquitoes are thriving and biting. Incredible!

Patti, glad you made it home safely!

Whenicit, way to go on beating your goal!

Donna, TGIF, huh?

Lynn, the book you mentioned sounds interesting and certainly worth a try. Is it just your DH who has diabetes?

Today, I'm doing laundry and generally picking up around here. Dusting and vacuuming are calling, too!

Hope Deemarie's cruise is going great. I've only been on one cruise, and H and I were both sick with allergies before, during, and after, so it wasn't the greatest experience. I'd love to try it again one day when we're both healthy!

BJ, are you deep into decluttering there? Share your pearls of wisdom with us about how to make things less messy!

Hope everyone is having a successful day whatever you're doing!

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