Butias are difficult to wrap as they get larger and don't refoliate too well in one growing season. Palms don't harm the foundation. Here's a year's worth of growth on a Butia heavily trunk-mulched over winter.
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A pindo should d great with that type of exposure. Ill be honest, my pindo palm is in a terrible spot that doesnt get a lot of sun at all. Its still alive and well though.
Pindo palm leaves will not be as long and graceful in full sun than in shade. In shade you can have a very mature plant wiht a crown held up 20 ft above the ground, but the leaves can still be touching (or nearly touching) the ground. In that case you would probably need to space the palms 20 feet apart from each other.In full sun you can probably space them about 10 feet apart and areas with very full sun will have much more compact leaves.

I dont think pindos will ever do damage to your house. They arent aggressive like many trees. If they do get that tall it will greatly benefit from the heat of your foundation though. I would plant it about 5 feet at least from your house if possible. You will still have to protect it though. I put a garbage bin and x-mas lights in mine, but yours might be too big for that and in that case you may have to wrap it up.

My potted pindo saw 16-20F with no damage as well as that horrible snow storm (which already melted) with no damage either. I dont think it would make it through a winter like this without protection though (but the milder winters might not be so bad.

Good luck!

The frist Pindo palm I bought was a 15 gallon,I planted it on the southwest side of my house.The first 3yrs I would put plastic over it when snow or freezing rain or temps. below 20 was on the way.I never mulched it because pindos perfer to go dry in winter.Here we get a bunch or rain in fall and winter.My pindo now 10yrs later is 7 foot total,with a trunk that is 4ft and very fat.All I have to do now is fertilize in april and July and I have a soaker hose for watering in summer.Take my advise dont water from overhead alot,It will get black spot.I have 4 now planted in my yard and Ive got 3 more to plant in spring.None of mine are close to the foundation of my house,there all out in the yard 20 feet or better from my house.One thing I think that help mine is they get all day sun,from sun up to sun down.I keep grass from growing up to the trunk for the first 3 years with tree rings,after that I let grass grow up to the trunk so the grass can help soak up most of the rain water in winter.Good luck with your planting.