Exactly what is the problem? How to pollinate? How long it takes for the fruits to ripen? How to separate the seeds from the fruit? How to store them?

i am not sure were to find the seeds at?

You find seeds in fruit. Fruit is formed after pollination of the flower. You need compatible plants, pollen, and pollinators (birds, bees, bats, insects, paint brushes). So, in six easy steps, you need

1. a flower
2. a compatible mate also flowering (can be self for some species)
3. pollen
4. pollinator
5. fruit/seed pod
6. seed

What species do you have? It should be easy to find pictures of the fruits if you know that. If you don't know I believe the interest from other growers will be low.

The fruit of the plant will swell, and gradually turn from green to tan, brown, red in some species, golden in others.
When the fruit ripens it will swell and burst open, I put tape so I won't lose the crop. Some plants are self fertile, others are not and need a partner. They are pollinated by hand, insects, birds, moths, etc. If you do it by hand you may pollinate each flower with a different partner, be sure to hang a tag on that flower with the fathers name. That way you will have plants that may be worth something for trade. Karen Zimmerman puts a tag on each hybrid with all six or more parents, however many that will fit. I was selling her plants today, and noticed this ID tags, on her plants.
Any of you may edit this if you wish. I will not get my nose out of joint and will appreciate it if you do. Norma