Well that explains why it's dying, it's a succulent and I've been watering it way to much. Does this plant have powdery mildew ? Or are the leaves like that because of the over watering ?

Probably a Verbascum.

It is indeed aristolochia. That blurry picture is a fully formed flower and not a bud. They call them Dutchmen's pipes because they look like little pipes. I have the tomentosum and also a durior. They are nice butterfly hosts.

Ozothamnus diosmifolius. Civilians call it "Rice Flower"