I'm guessing thick blue smoke isn't a good sign?
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Comments (85)Suzie, You never know, she might get a thundersnow storm. We've had a lot of them in recent years. I grew up in Texas just about 80 or 85 miles south of where we now live in Oklahoma, but I'd never even heard of thundersnow until we moved here. I won't say we have thundersnow here at our house every year that snow falls, but probably about every other year. We had it last year, and we've already had it this year. Jim Cantore was very entertaining the other night. I'm sure a lot of that is part of the "show" he puts on for the camera, but I also think he was shocked to see thundersnow that far north. The other weather phenomenon we have here that I don't remember having in Texas is derecho winds. The first one we experienced here came during the night with 60 mph winds and hit the house so suddenly and so hard while we were sleeping that we thought a semi-truck or an airplane had hit the house. I also had about 20 flats of plants on the screened-in porch (so it must have been April) and we had to run out and bring them all into the house because the temperature plunged probably 30 degrees in 10 minutes when the derecho wind hit the house. I think we've experienced 3 or 4 severe derecho wind storms at our house since then. The one I remember best, the local met on the TV news at noon told us it was coming and told us if we went outside 5 or 10 minutes before it was due to hit our area, we'd hear it coming like a "mighty rush of wind". Of course, Tim and I went outside 10 minutes before it was s supposed to hit and went down to the road so we'd have a clear view of it coming by looking up the roadway (too many trees around our house). Sure enough, a few minutes later it came roaring towards us like a freight train (we could hear it for a minute or more before we could see the blowing of the vegetation begin) and we went from clear skies to dark grey ones in about a minute as the wind blew through and the temperatures plunged. The other one I remember was a severe derecho squall line with multiple bow echoes accompanied by tons of lightning. This time, the TV met kept cutting into regular programming to warn that anyone working outside needed to get inside by a certain time. Our barn-style detached garage was being built then, and the buys working on it were welding steel beams together. I talked with them about the weather and convinced them to heed the warnings, get down off the structure, put up all their tools and head home. They literally were driving down the driveway when the derecho hit here and the first raindrops started falling, and we sure did have lightning! I was glad they weren't up on that metal framing when it hit. You've got to admit, Oklahoma's weather is never, ever dull. Dawn Here is a link that might be useful: Facts About Derecho Windstorms...See MorePebbleTec isn't guaranteeing the shells in the sheen anymore?!
Comments (17)By aggressive chemistry, I am referring to acidic water conditions. Many pool builders add a lot of acid on the initial pool start up to help keep the plaster dust under control. If you have pebble tec, there is usually not a lot of that plaster dust, and therefore no need to add a lot of acid. Probably why your shells are still in good condition. I think your shells will remain in good condition as long as no one adds a lot of acid to the pool. And by acid I mean Muriatic/Hydrochloric used to lower the PH. P.S. I also have them in my pool and they look great, problem I have, as an installer is that once we leave the job, I have no control over who does what to the pool, and when there is an issue, guess who they call and expect to warranty it? I have never seen abalone shells lose their shine or become dull, only stain the surrounding plaster around where they lie. Hope this helps..:)...See MoreI'm younger than my stepdaughter! Not good . . .
Comments (9)Wifey, I really do understand. My childhood was also smattered with abuse, physical, verbal and sexual. I'm also a survivor and a very strong woman. I have been on my own since age 16, managed to finance and get through most of college on my own, and at age 35, I now own a pretty strong company that I built from the ground up. As a survivor type, I never even entertained the idea of "can't", giving up or not making life work for me - I really didn't have any other choice. I've learned this is not something everyone is programmed with and I am very lucky to have these expectations of myself, where others are too scared to consider or can't even see life's possibilities. You're absolutely right, blood sucking spongey types seem to practically hunt down survivor types. I have to fight them off constantly and most are from my side of the family. I've learned to recognize them right off but most of the time I still try to play the hero until I get disgusted with them and then I play the avoidance card. Only you know your limits. I guess I just hate to see her win. :) I also know that my survivor background causes me to expect more from people than "normal" people might. I also share your feelings of "well if I can go through this and be this strong in my life, why should I sympathize with someone who makes no effort at all?". I guess my own answer to that question in the middle of my sleepless nights is: I'd rather be me than them. Knowing a little more about the relationship with you and your SD, I would think you shouldn't offer any more of your money to her at all. That should be a boundary you set with her and her father. If you wanted a relationship with her at all at this point, I would insist that it be strictly a mentor/friend type relationship so she can hopefully learn how to grow from you. If she thinks she can con you and be nice to you long enough for you to give her cash, you aren't making any headway at all, just making matters worse. And if she won't accept that type of relationship, then you did your best in offering, and hopefully she'll figure it out on her own someday. I wish I had better answers for you. My husband is ten years older than me, so I related to what could be the unspoken part of your situation. In my situation I wondered if maybe I didn't accept this man in some way to fill the father slot that was left in shambles in my childhood. When I look at it in that light, I begin to question whether I may be suffering from jealousy issues that aren't present in "normal" SM/SD relationships. Examining the possibility has given me more gas for tollerance until I am sure. Oddly enough, the question of how life would have been had my father had the personality of my husband, isn't so much comforting, but scary. I can't imagine what it would be like to be so nurtured and unprepared for this rough world we live in. Another byproduct seems to be the years it takes before family considers your relationship with your husband valid. They seem to think you are going to flee with half the bank account someday. My father was 24 years older than my mother, so the age difference has never been a problem for me, just everyone else. What fun! More unspoken, yet heavy stress. I sit here and I honestly do not know what I would do in your shoes. My situation is rosey compared to yours. What helps me through all this turmoil is communication with my husband, but if yours won't talk to you about it, I don't know how you could ever be expected to move forward. I don't think you are a bad person, a whiner or any of that. If you are like me, you were at your total wits end before you even thought to Google this board. I think anyone on here who creates a dialogue with themselves about these issues is facing the issue and questioning how they can make it better. I haven't yet found a posting on here from a step father, which to me is very telling. It's funny, my husband is so awestruck by the person I am and the things I have accomplished in the face of adversity. He is equally petrified of his children ever having to face these same things. I have explained to him that everything I went through made me a stronger person...that I VALUE these parts of my life because they made me who I am. I don't mean to sound cocky but I can look at myself in the mirror each morning and know I did the right thing the day before and I am very pleased with my progress in this life. Really, what more can you hope for on this journey than that? Sorry this is so long - I pretty much rambled as I went. I hope things work out for you whatever you decide....See MoreChili---isn't it a funny thing???
Comments (21)Ahh chili! Every time it is reheated as a leftover, it gets better. My chili turns out a little different each time I make it. Its vegtable stew with chili seasoning and is a complete meal. Ground beef Italian diced tomatoes with other ingredients and sauce. or use tomato sauce. Carrots, diced (adds vetable bulk) Celery, diced (adds a flavor of its own) Bell pepper, diced Sweet Vadalia onion, diced Dark kidney beans, canned (other beans can be substituted, but dark beans is the best.) Chili powder mix. Brown sugar - My secret ingedient. Start by browning the meat with a little cooking oil. When the meat begins to turn, add the carrots, celery, and onion. These need more cooking time than the other ingredients. After the mix has reheated to the boiling point, throw in the other vegatbles. Let the mix reheat, then dump in the remaining stuff except for the chili powder and brown sugar. Add chili powder to suit your taste. Just keep adding until it has enough fire. Bring the mix to a boil, then let simmer for about 5 minutes, and now add the brown sugar by taste. CAUTION: Add brown sugar very sparingly and test taste after stirring in each addition of sugar. A little of this stuff goes a long way in modifying the flavor. It can quickly overpower and ruin the batch. Continue simmering until the vegtables are cooked (softened). if you like crunchy vegtables, shorten the cooking time. Serve hot with low sodium soda crackers and table salt. Note that I did not add any salt. Commercially prepared canned vegtables are over salted these days, and will provide plenty of salt for this base chili recipe. Diners may add salt as desired, but try it first as prepared without additional salt. This recipe can be varied by changing the vegatable mix. It can be turned into a chili flavored beef stew by adding chunks of beef and chopped potatoes. I have made this dish with turkey instead of beef due to a friend's food preference - no red meat -, but in my opioion, it was not as tasty. Some folks in my neighborhood use grapes as the sweetner. Enjoy...See Moretomplum
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