Commented: Glad it is over!!this is a big clue on how your marriage is going to be! You need to decide if you're going to live with it (and not fight about it) or if you're going to do better for your kids.
Whats more difficult...
Commented: should my aunt tell her son who his real father is?what good would it do? None
I think this is one secret that should be left in the closet (unless a really good reason came up, like run in the family medical conditions)
Commented: Spending time with boyfriend and his sondon't wait until you're married to "deal with it"
This child doesn't need people in and out of his life because that can't or don't want to "deal with it"
if you don't deal with ...