I don't find labels of a style useful unless you are shopping for a cookie cutter look at Target or Pottery Barn or some other chain place. Instead make a list of things you like and refer to that list to guide you in your shopping and putting things together.
I have no idea what my style would be called. I like vintage chandeliers, Hitchcock furniture, antique mirrors, collected and salvaged pieces, clean cream spaces, textured rugs that hide stains well, brass, wood floors, neutral natural colors combined with black, clean but not sleek, orderly but not modern.
I'm not sure what about each of the photos you posted that you actually like but perhaps your list goes something like - heigh ceilings (or illusion of them!), gathered fabric curtains, cozy, enveloping spaces, built-ins, ornate vintage pieces.
Interesting that someone else commented about not painting your bookcases. I think painting the ceiling, walls, and bookcases in your library the same color would make it a stunning space, and the bookshelves look quite custom.
I suggest painting the wood around your windows and painting the ceilings and walls the same color in all of your rooms. I think it will make the ceilings look taller and will ease out the more modern look of your home. I hate painting old wood trim, but your wood trim is on a new build and not antique or precious. (I consider anything after 1970 a new build!)
Glad you are getting inspiration from AD and other magazines. Houzz isn't the best place for "eclectic" style examples. High end mags are the place to go.
Q