@Bestyears I am so sorry to hear your husband is still struggling. Thank you for your words of wisdom, you are so right. We have friends who are dealing with this right now. Our friend's dad has some type neuro disease and is bedridden. His wife has help caring for him. She has turned into quite a bitter, negative person and it is mainly because she is so unhappy with their life. Not how she thought "retirement" would play out. My friend spends a good bit of her time at her parents' house as the mom had some health problems a couple of months ago and is not doing well at rehab (for strength). My friend's dad has to be moved from bed to chair (and back) with a lift, which my friend and her husband go over twice daily to do this. So not only does this limit the time of the parents, but also my friends. They can never travel unless my friend's sister comes in from out-of-state to stay with the parents. Occasionally they have done an overnight with their oldest son staying. It's a sad situation. I so agree with you on not waiting. You never know what tomorrow brings. Or even this afternoon. Life can change in a minute.
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