As grey has had a long run already, it wouldn’t be my first choice. As important are backsplash and counter choices, as they will have an influence regarding longevity.
I love my small two tone kitchen with soft black lowers (they don’t darken the space). If black is an option, consider a warm white or cream on the uppers for a less stark impression. Choose simple counters and backsplash for a more timeless (?!) look.
It’s a big decision and take into account the feel of your home and the adjoining spaces.
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Honed? Fantasy brown
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